# Hi Everyone :-) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 3, 2009, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601 "2009-05-03T00:33:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ld8817](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c67d28/32.png) [@ld8817](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ld8817)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2009, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/1 "2009-05-03T00:33:25Z")
Hey everyone! My name is Lisa and I am 20 years old. I live in and am from New York. I’m a bisexual and sexuality in general intrigues me which is why I started researching [pheromones](https://a314.com/). I’m currently in a relationship of 2 years with a woman. I guess I’m a bit skeptical about pheromones and if they work, but I can’t knock it til I try it right? So basically, I want to try using them as pretty much a research study for myself (I’m such a nerd!). I’d like to see how they affect both men and women. I found this site on yahoo!answers just browsing trying to see how many people actually used pheromones. I’ve been lurking around for a few weeks and then decided to sign up to give them a shot. My interests are not to necessarily attract a particular person, so I’m thinking of just trying some mood enhancers first to see how they affect groups of people at work, then maybe move on to other things if and when I feel they are working. But I figure I gotta start simple, so if anyone has any recommendations that would be great. I’ll be sure to report the ones I try and how they affect men and women :-). Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2009, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/2 "2009-05-03T00:35:15Z")
hey welcome 🙂 i think katieA wrote some reports about bisexual relationships.. you shoudl check that out when you have the time 🙂 if you are looking for mood enhancers, you should def. start with some socials. i think instant shine would be a great one to use at work, everyday etc etc. you can also use them in clubs as well if you pair it off with some sexual pheros. im actually not sure if [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would affect both women and men but im sure some other members could help you with that.. welcome and have fun! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2009, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/3 "2009-05-03T00:48:14Z")
Hello Lisa and welcome to the forum. Like Remmy says try reading posts by KatieA - she also has a journal you can check out. she is a very nice person and i am sure she would be happy to answer any questions. It is natural to be skeptical - but also keep in mind that these products enhance you - they do not work magic. For a good realistic outlook on what to expect i would read the first thread in my signature block. After that, I am going to leave the suggestions on products for ladies up to the experts - and Remmy is one of them. Good luck and welcome again. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2009, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/4 "2009-05-03T01:26:25Z")
Hey Lisa, you self confessed nerd 😃 Welcome to the forums, good to read you’ve had a good lurk so I assume you’ve already got more than a rudimentary understanding of pheromones and what they can potentially do, if used correctly, and if you have the correct internal state. Maybe you’ve already viewed this, but if you have not, check out [The Womens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)and let us know if you have any questions based on what you read there. Once you start using pheromones, be sure to return and post your results. The beautiful Tisha should be online soon, and she should give you the $25 gift certificate 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2009, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/5 "2009-05-03T01:54:59Z")
Hi Lisa, Welcome to the forum! You sound like an experimenting soul! You should fit in nicely here! And, of course, it’s always great to have another female member here. 😉 If you’re wanting to see some fairly quick responses, I’d definitely try Remmy’s suggestion of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I think you’ll find it has great self-effects as well as on those around you. Another fun one to start out with is Instant Openess. You’ll know when you use “too much” cuz you’ll get tired of all the chattiness this typically manifests. These should work well with your partner too as it seems the effects don’t discriminate between male and female. I’m assuming from your lurking about for a couple of weeks that you know to start out with a spray or two, note your self-effects as well as those of others around you, and then increase your dosage daily until you find your “sweet spot” or the dosage that it takes for you to get the effects that you’re after. Each person, and even each situation, may require a different dosage and that’s something that you’ll learn as you go. Good luck in your new experimenting fun! And be sure to report your findings! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2009, 8:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/28601/6 "2009-05-04T08:51:14Z")
Hi Lisa, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Great suggestions from the members. Ishine and the socials are great to start with and [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). They have to-go bottles which makes starting simple easier. You can get two free bottles with you GC and I suggest you start with Ishine and IH first. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** Hope to see you in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide