# Hi everyone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 28, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507 "2008-02-28T01:04:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bookgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bookgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bookgirl)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/1 "2008-02-28T01:04:44Z")
Hi! I’m a 19 year old female college junior in Missouri. I have not tried any [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) before, but I found this site through Love Potion perfumes. I’ve heard absolutely wonderful things about phermones, and I’m hoping to find just the right one. I am really painfully shy and so I have not really have much success with guys. In fact my best friend told me yesterday that its no wonder I don’t have anyone interested, because I never talk. She is nothing if not honest I guess. Anyway, I’m hoping to find a phermone that would encourage a nice guy to approach me first, since I’ll never make the first move. Any suggestions would be welcome! I’m really sorry for rambling. The anonymousness of the internet makes talking just a little bit easier. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/2 "2008-02-28T01:12:12Z")
Hello Bookgirl and welcome to the forum. A lot of the ladies here LOVE the scents at LP - Tisha our mod and Dolly our COO just to name two. Don’t worry about the rambling - that is what we are here for. I couldprobably tell you what the ladies will recommend but I prefer to leave that up to them. I amsure a couple will be along in a few minutes. I may even give one or two a quick nudge for you. Hand tight and they will be here shortly. Welcome again to the forum. You have most certainly come to the right place for pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/3 "2008-02-28T01:38:19Z")
Welcome bookgirl! The best product for you will be instant openness, as the name already says, everyone around will want to talk and strike conversations with you. The effect is even better if worn by a woman (you) than by a man. I love it from my personal experiences. Another product to complement is [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). It will make guys more interested in you. You will get a lot of attention and approches if combined with instant openness. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/4 "2008-02-28T02:06:38Z")
Hi bookgirl, I see mockingbird has already given you 2 perfect recommendations: [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is the main one I’d suggest for you, because it will not only make you more approachable but will probably have some effect on your willingness to talk as well. Instant Sexiness too, for increased appeal and confidence. These will work best if you work WITH them, and open yourself up a bit to people. You don’t have to make the first move as in being the first one to talk (though it doesn’t hurt) but you can let guys know you’re safe to talk to in other ways - eye contact and a smile will give them the green light to approach. have fun with your mones! we want to hear all about what happens for you! Carrie ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/5 "2008-02-28T03:53:33Z")
Carrie’s advice is perfection, as always. 😉 I would also recommend ISexi A, as it’s main ingredient TAL (Test Molecule L) can spark confidence and strength in many women, which may help you with your shyness. 🙂 Also, there is a great product for bonding and quality of conversation called IH. There is a sticky in the ladies’ forum that I started many moons ago called “Newbie with a few questions,” and my first response is a very long post by a user named Bunny. It explains all about IH and how to use it. It also explains all about copulins, which can be found in the Androtics product LAM as well as Essence of a Woman (which Androtics does not sell but can be found in a Google search). Bunny’s post should give you an idea of whether you’d like to try cops. ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 9:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/6 "2008-02-28T09:37:11Z")
> [@bookgirl](#): > > In fact my best friend told me yesterday that its no wonder I don’t have anyone interested, because I never talk. That is absolutely NOT true, Sweetie!🙂 You’re a fine creation of God…how come you think you’re not desirable?😉 I’m a guy too, (ok, I’m a crazy guy 😛 ) but you have just attracted me!🙂 It’s just a matter of time…have some confidence, use a little [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and you’ll be suprise to see the changes!🙂 Good luck to you and God bless you always. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/7 "2008-02-28T10:45:51Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 Hey I love LP, Alot of the ladies use there scents here they are amazing. So your shy, we can help with that. 😃 I suggest you start out with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Its a ice breaker and makes people friendly and chatty and has self as well so it will help you to open up as well. I also highly suggest Instant sexiness A , this is the one you will get if you order and dont specify B in the notes section. (just so you know B only comes in the large bottle) IS/A is a strong sexy confident mix that attracts attention. I think you can use the confidence boost, Next I would get Instant Shine this is a warm vibrant uplifting mix that draws people to you. Has great self effects on most people as well. If you have any questions just ask. Be sure to join in down in the ladies area we are looking forward to your participation. **🙂 Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours 🙂** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2008, 10:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-everyone/9507/8 "2008-02-28T10:56:24Z")
Hi bookgirl, I like what LaurieNY said 🙂 I use instant honesty everytime I go out for me its really helped make conversations alot deeper and more meaningful. It really brings out more care and compassion and understanding, it seems to help others feel more comfortable and feel like you’re someone they can talk to as well 🙂 awww its ok to be shy I know how you feel, I’ve always been the same way I know what you mean about wanting others to approach first and open the conversation, instant honesty is a nice soft way to do that as well as help make things deeper and more intimate with those you already do know. Good luck, I hope things go well for you 🙂