# Hi from a very excited n00b **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 28, 2010, 7:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613 "2010-02-28T07:42:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tyvey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@tyvey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tyvey)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 7:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/1 "2010-02-28T07:42:55Z")
a) late 30s b) female c) northeastern US d) I used to be a fairly confident and outgoing person who got plenty of attention from men and pretty much could date whoever I wanted. Then, after a few traumatic rejections and being cheated on, I have become much less confident, not just about being older but also about my appearance having changed somewhat and even about my ability to have a romantic relationship. I had a romantic letdown a few months ago, and pheromones just popped into my head out of desperation really. Although I don’t like to admit it, I care a lot about being attractive to (or popular with) men in general. I do also really want to be in a relationship. (Can I have both? 🙂 ) Also I met someone recently who I’d really like to **attract for a relationship** (not just a hookup), plus I’d like chemical help (other than drinking alcohol 🙂 ) to **feel more confident** around him and be my(old)self. I found pherotalk via google. Instant Sexiness and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) seem pretty intriguing. QUESTIONS 1. I wonder (not quite worry) a little about any health effects of these chemicals. I know they’re just topical but do they absorb and get into your bloodstream, cells, brain, glands or anything scary like that? Again I’m a n00b so I’m pretty overwhelmed with all the info on here - just barely starting to figure things out, and I haven’t done any research about the safety issue yet. But it’s something that just occurred to me. 1. I see a lot on here about some of the experimental stuff, but none of the ones that interest me seem to be available on the website. MX135 in particular sounds pretty amazing (down to the scent!) - as a n00b, should I just not even be looking at experimental stuff? - do those things (esp mx135) ever get re-issued/restocked? I look forward to learning more! Thank you for this community which seems not just highly informative but also quite welcoming. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![awesome\_nerd](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/awesome_nerd/32/893_2.png) [@awesome\_nerd](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/awesome_nerd)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 8:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/2 "2010-02-28T08:05:47Z")
welcome to the forum tyvey… I am very sorry to hear that, it is a very great community that you are joining… from your intro, i would suggest you to use [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and maybe some Instant shine would do the job too.. once again welcome to the forum and hey, if you can get ur hands on some P314, not sure how it works with women, but it sure is a confident booster… cheers honey and welcome again.. and btw, i dont think that there is any bad side-effects (besides getting laid 😃) and AWESOME feelings, like you have no idea how much i have laughed tonight, i was lauging soo hard that even cops came to my room and they were about to lock us up! school A\*\*Holes, and I dont drink alcohol either, so it sure is some awesome times, cheers again! ---
**Author:** ![tyvey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@tyvey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tyvey)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 8:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/3 "2010-02-28T08:10:25Z")
Wow, thank you awesome for the quick response and kind greeting! I will definitely look into [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)! ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 12:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/4 "2010-02-28T12:19:23Z")
Hey welcome to the forum, I am not the best person to talk about mone for woman, but… I think one thing would defenitly be a plus to you confidence to you feel strong and in control, and if you like be dominant would be the mx300. Its if I am not mistaken the a314 for woman. Also for more outgoingness I would suggest IO, and my favorite for general mood, yours and his. is [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) . With the Instant Sexiness for atraction you would just be set for what you really want to do. Now have in mind that once you have this products you cant automaticly start using them combined. Before that you have to test them individually to see what is your sweet spot and see the what dosages of each you should use. Also check the difference between the 2 Instant Sexiness to see wich one adpats mor to your style. Its important to be congruent to what you are weraing. Best of lucks to your future romances. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 1:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/5 "2010-02-28T13:08:50Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! For your first question, you do need to take a couple of days “off” from pheros each week, to keep your neurotransmitters in top shape. Otherwise they’re fine. You may want to do a search on that if you are concerned, there is tons of info here, you just have to dig! And, as a newbie, technically you can use experimental products, but it is best to start with the Instant products until you “learn” how to use them properly. Your loss of confidence around men is normal if you have been hurt. I’ve been there myself too, unfortunately. The social products are a great way to gradually get that back. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) functions to make both you and those around you relax and feel more approachable, People around you feel friendlier, and so do you. Instant Honesty adds depth and intimacy to conversations, people will feel more comfortable around you and will be more likely to open up to you about personal things. Instant Shine is a great mood booster, bringing a positive uplifting vibe to the atmosphere. It also gives you a bit of youthful sparkle. It is one of my favorites that I like to carry with me in case I need a quick pick-me-up. For romantic attraction, there are two Instant Sexiness products, IS/A and IS/B. IS/A will give you a strong sexy alpha female signature, and IS/B will give you more of a soft sexy kittenish vibe. Depending on which way your personality leans, you can choose them to enhance what you already have, or you can use them to soften or toughen mens’ perceptions of you. I hope this helps, and please don’t hesitate to ask if you have any other questions! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tyvey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@tyvey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tyvey)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2010, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/6 "2010-02-28T21:31:54Z")
This is all terrifically helpful. It sounds pretty unanimous. IS sounds almost too good to be true, exactly what I want. I have a feeling that IS-B would be best to balance me out but will try both, plus IH and IO seem like obvious must-trys. 🙂 THANK YOU ALL again. PS- Oh I guess I should wait on a gift certificate? Yes? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2010, 2:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/7 "2010-03-01T14:52:49Z")
> [@tyvey](#): > > This is all terrifically helpful. It sounds pretty unanimous. IS sounds almost too good to be true, exactly what I want. I have a feeling that IS-B would be best to balance me out but will try both, plus IH and IO seem like obvious must-trys. 🙂 THANK YOU ALL again. > > PS- Oh I guess I should wait on a gift certificate? Yes? 🙂 You’re welcome 🙂 Mickaelia should be around in the next day or so to give you your GC. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2010, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/8 "2010-03-01T22:13:16Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![tyvey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@tyvey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tyvey)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2010, 3:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/9 "2010-03-02T03:38:51Z")
Yay, I’m thrilled. Thanks to all for the friendly welcome, advice and the GC! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2010, 4:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-a-very-excited-n00b/36613/10 "2010-03-02T04:54:20Z")
You’re very welcome! And if you have any questions at all, just ask! The ladies in the Womens Section are super nice and love to help. 🙂