# hi from an army soldier tryin somethin new

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**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [December 21, 2009, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010 "2009-12-21T20:52:03Z")\
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**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/1 "2009-12-21T20:52:03Z")

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Hi, my name is Tavaris. I live in the killeen/fort hood area. I am twenty four and I am new to pheremones. I actually came across them while reading a dating book. It was written by a woman so thats why i am assuming they work.

I am basically looking to get more social interaction with women. Also i want to raise their sexual levels so that I can seal the deal. I know this will also take work on my part but any advice, tips, or products I should get would be very welcome. I have read a few threads already and I can tell this is a friendly site. Thank you to all in advance. 🙂

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/2 "2009-12-21T20:58:21Z")

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Hey, welcome! I’m glad that you understand that it’ll also take your self to make things happen besides [pheromones](https://a314.com/).

If I were you I’d start with AMMO, TUTH, IO, and IH. IShine as well if you can get all these, if not the first ones I mentioned are great.

AMMO is an all around attractant while IO and IH will help you in your social endeavors, while helping TUTH not be so sexual thus making it work more for you by adding approachability and buffering the -none negatives.

> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> Hi, my name is Tavaris. I live in the killeen/fort hood area. I am twenty four and I am new to pheremones. I actually came across them while reading a dating book. It was written by a woman so thats why i am assuming they work.
> 
> I am basically looking to get more social interaction with women. Also i want to raise their sexual levels so that I can seal the deal. I know this will also take work on my part but any advice, tips, or products I should get would be very welcome. I have read a few threads already and I can tell this is a friendly site. Thank you to all in advance. 🙂

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**Author:** ![tourch10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tourch10/32/2390_2.png) [@tourch10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tourch10)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/3 "2009-12-21T20:58:47Z")

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hello and welcome to the forums. I would recommend tuth for the sexual vibe and have a buffer like instant shine to give that feel good mood vibe. You can add a little a314 to it to give that im your man that will protect you feeling.

I also recommend a314 for work. It will make your superiors and other people respect you more and will help you advance in your career. Hope this helps and good luck dude.

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**Author:** ![mgd81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c6cbf5/32.png) [@mgd81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mgd81)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/4 "2009-12-21T21:00:39Z")

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Hi Tavaris,

welcome to this forum. I had (and still have) the same objects 😉

That’s why I’d really recommend Ammunition to you. It’s a well dosed mix of sexual and social pheromones. Ammunition alone is pretty good, but I like to pair it with one of the other socials, such as Instant Honesty, Instand Openess and/or [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/):

Instant Honesty will make your girls feel very comfortable and romantic. Side effect: it could affect you, too. So be cautious not telling your girl too much 😉

Instant Openess will even make girls very chatty and Instant Gentleman will make you appear very smooth, almost James Bond like.

So now it’s up to you. Just ask if you have any more questions and make sure you do a forum search and read all the journals. That’s the best education on this topic!!!

All the best,  
mgd

> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> Hi, my name is Tavaris. I live in the killeen/fort hood area. I am twenty four and I am new to pheremones. I actually came across them while reading a dating book. It was written by a woman so thats why i am assuming they work.
> 
> I am basically looking to get more social interaction with women. Also i want to raise their sexual levels so that I can seal the deal. I know this will also take work on my part but any advice, tips, or products I should get would be very welcome. I have read a few threads already and I can tell this is a friendly site. Thank you to all in advance. 🙂

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**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/5 "2009-12-21T22:33:24Z")

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thanx man. straight to the point and products werent sold out.

> [@tourch10](#):
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> hello and welcome to the forums. I would recommend tuth for the sexual vibe and have a buffer like instant shine to give that feel good mood vibe. You can add a little a314 to it to give that im your man that will protect you feeling.
> 
> I also recommend a314 for work. It will make your superiors and other people respect you more and will help you advance in your career. Hope this helps and good luck dude.

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**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 11:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/6 "2009-12-21T23:36:36Z")

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Hello and Welcome Home Tavaris,

Are you still active duty? We want to thank you for all hard sacrifices that done on behalf of this great nation.

I have so many quesitions I want to ask you. A. What are you preferences are you more interested in military women or civilian women. Are interested a certain rank, what’s age bracket? Your military women act a certain way while their in uniform. Confidence is as much a part of their life as it is in your life. These things has to be considered.

One advantage you have going for you, most woman love a man in uniform.

You do keep yourself sharp and appearance squared away in and out of uniform.🙂 Just joking, but still let’s be real.

Now, go deep on this one : The book you brought by is it by Dr. Victoria Zdrok?" if so, you have replied back. Anyway I still need to read a good book from a woman’s prespective.

Ensure the **four** listed areas are straight. It’s a must, Bro. If they are you should feel proud and confidence about yourself. If these four areas are straight, you are ahead of the field, thus no insure feelings. Alright.🙂

The first of the four is obvious, you get paid. If the other three aren’t there yet, you know the deal.

Your occupations = You got a go at that station  
Your car  
Your crib  
Your look

What type of guy are you more like?: Denezel Washington, Jack Nicholson, George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Will Smith, or Bradd Pitt. which of these guys you believe best describes your personality or the type of person you want to be or are more like.

Demonstrate Higher Value, You know the deal. You must be respected. Respect is earned. Not given. I’m talking real world. DHV, your somebody and trust me in the area you living in your currently in your T bone-steak.

Now, some products, AMMO ([AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)) , [TUTH](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) , [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) are commendable products. Put them in award ceremony and hand them out.

be safe,

MVKBUGATTI

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [December 22, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/7 "2009-12-22T21:03:08Z")

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Welcome to Pherotalk shy!

You already received some great suggestions so what I need from you is more information about yourself and so I can go ahead and issue you a $25 gc.

Here is a link to assist you :

[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)

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**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/8 "2009-12-24T02:05:21Z")

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a shy noob looking to break out and be more sociable

I guess I didnt have enough info before so im tryin to make up for it. Hopefully someone has been in my shoes and can show me a glimpse at the light at the end of the tunnel. So as I said before im 24 and i work on ft hood but next month i will be moving to ft campbell, ky. so i have a great oppurtunity for first impressions both at work and at night. Im a very clean kinda guy, yes the army has a lot to do with that. They dam sure made me clean up so now its habit. I shower at least twice a day. I work out reguraly, I have gotten many compliments on my physical appearance. I am very short however 5’4" and 150lbs. Even a few women (strangers) have grabbed my arms to feel the muscle. Not bragging just trying to illustrate how shy I am. I have my own car, my own apt, a career. I could use some fashin tips as well. I am an african american but i realized the way I am accustomed to dressing gives people The impression I am a street thug. Not that there is anything wrong with them, its just not who I am. So i either attract women that think ima thug. Or i scare them off cuz they think Im a thug. A lose/lose sitaution.

Recently I have been going through a divorce. And at such a young age it hurt a lot. Mostly to my pride. Hard decision for me to make but I do realize its the right to make. I was going to try Pherlure but I read both good and bad. I will admit I am VERY skeptical about this but I know it cant hurt. I know cologne itself can turn awomen on so what the hell, right? So i came here and I appreciate the fact that there is a forum. Now i know u r real people instead of just someone typin reviews for their own sake. I have ordered A314, Turn Up The Heat, Ammo, and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I feel the Turn Up The Heat might have been a mistake so soon though.

So my questions have to do with both pheromones and personal experiances. I have never voiced this to anyone before so plz dont bash me for my thoughts. Im a very very shy guy. I have been with women and they give me all kinds of compliments, YET i never believe them. I have slept with women that come back for more and more and more. I even catch women looking at me, giving me the open palm/wrist, smiling, complimenting my son (he is cute as hell =] ), and just sometimes giving me the look. I have a very low self image due to my height. So enough rambling here is what I am asking. What pheromones should I use so that when I quite bein a p\ ***y and apprach a woman she wont spit in my face. And what pheromones could even help me to be more appraochable, not so that women will appraoch me but mainly so I dont look like the guy thats gonne f** k em up. Ima very shy introverted kinda guy. And if i could stay at home everyday and all day I would. But i know that is not healthy or will it make me happy. So any suggestions on how to break out and attract more women will be good. I hope u r still reading and havent fell asleep. Thanx in advance.----o yeah one more thing my age group, well i like em all. have been with 18y/o up to 32 y/o. Naturally I like women near my age but there is just something about an older woman, mostly there independence. I love the fact that they dont need anything from me. As in some younger women expect more. I dont mean to be rude, just speaking my mind. I dont mean to offend any one.

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**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/9 "2009-12-24T02:10:02Z")

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Welcome to the forum.

You made a good choice with a314. You may also want to try IG. They are both rone based and will give you a caqpable, masculine aura that will probably help with your confidence. There are differences in “flavor” between the two, so I suggest you try them both.

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/10 "2009-12-24T02:19:42Z")

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

In addition to Gone with the Wind’s excellent recommendation of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), you should also consider Instant Openness. It will help to break the ice, and also make you more approachable.

Hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions!

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**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/11 "2009-12-24T02:21:51Z")

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i tried to swipe that bug off my computer.hahaha nice gif

> [@Sillykitty](#):
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> Hi and welcome to the forum!
> 
> In addition to Gone with the Wind’s excellent recommendation of Instant Gentleman, you should also consider Instant Openness. It will help to break the ice, and also make you more approachable.
> 
> Hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions!

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/12 "2009-12-24T02:25:44Z")

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Oh, and as for fashion tips, jeans (ones that fit properly) and a button-down shirt (tucked in), for casual wear, always look good on a guy. Keeps it simple, but with a touch of class.

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/13 "2009-12-24T02:27:09Z")

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> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> i tried to swipe that bug off my computer.hahaha nice gif

Don’t you dare hurt my little flea! 😠 lol

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**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/14 "2009-12-24T02:28:13Z")

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GWTW has it on the head as usual!

Man if you know the way you are dressing is hurting your image, then change it! Change up your style. I used to dress thuggish as well, but look at all of the successful people in the world. They do not dress like thugs. Sean Combs. Even Snoop now dresses in sweaters. Dress is important. People judge you on your apperance first. If you do not want to do a drastic change, then just change 1 article of clothing. Like a classy shirt, with somewhat baggy pants. Or a classy outfit with some sneakers. Make it nice, but still you.

I wore house slippers to the store the other day (without pheromones) with a button up shirt and jeans. I had so many women approach me just because of my fluffy black slippers. I looked nice, but the shoes threw them off!

Instant Openess is great stuff to wear. I use it to help conquer fear of talking to strangers. Plus it works on them as well 🙂

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**Author:** ![allstarmvp256](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/allstarmvp256/32/1867_2.png) [@allstarmvp256](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allstarmvp256)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 2:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/15 "2009-12-24T02:40:59Z")

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> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> i tried to swipe that bug off my computer.hahaha nice gif

Welcome to the forum!

LOL bro it took me a couple of times to realize it was an avatar.

One of the best things you can do to help your self get acclimated to the forum is to educate yourself. Try the search (it will prove to be your best friend on the forum). Also, don’t be afraid to ask questions bro, we are all here to help and your situation is NOT uncommon. In fact, a lot of people who join are seeking to improve their lives, including myself. I felt your pain as I was reading you intro but one thing you will need is **confidence**. Girls say its the sexiest trait a man can have and WILL keep them comming back for more. Mones will certainly help with that but YOU put have put in the effort. Talk to your self and look in the mirror and tell your self the you are tired of living the way you have and that you are ready for change. Thats what I did to motivate myself and it seems to be working. Start talking to people of all ages weather if they are guys/girls-young/old. It will boost your confidence very quickly.

Okay bro thats all I have to say I wish you the best of luck and don’t give up. WELCOME!

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**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 3:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/17 "2009-12-24T03:02:34Z")

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so your sayin i can wear jeans and a button down shirt anywhere? im just curious. i know that would b good for goin out but what about everyday/everywhere clothes

> [@Sillykitty](#):
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> Oh, and as for fashion tips, jeans (ones that fit properly) and a button-down shirt (tucked in), for casual wear, always look good on a guy. Keeps it simple, but with a touch of class.

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**Author:** ![allstarmvp256](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/allstarmvp256/32/1867_2.png) [@allstarmvp256](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allstarmvp256)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 3:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/18 "2009-12-24T03:16:07Z")

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> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> so your sayin i can wear jeans and a button down shirt anywhere? im just curious. i know that would b good for goin out but what about everyday/everywhere clothes

What style are you looking for. Urban?

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/19 "2009-12-24T03:23:50Z")

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> [@shyconspiracy](#):
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> so your sayin i can wear jeans and a button down shirt anywhere? im just curious. i know that would b good for goin out but what about everyday/everywhere clothes

Absolutely! For everyday wear, jeans and maybe a light colored or flannel (since its winter) long sleeve boutton down shirt is nice.

And for a dinner date, you might want to make that a white long sleeve button down shirt. And to make it even dressier, wear Docker type of pants instead of jeans.

The type of belt you choose to wear can also dress you up or down.

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/20 "2009-12-24T03:25:31Z")

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> [@allstarmvp256](#):
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> What style are you looking for. Urban?

He’s trying to get away from the “thug” look.

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**Author:** ![allstarmvp256](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/allstarmvp256/32/1867_2.png) [@allstarmvp256](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/allstarmvp256)\
**Post date:** [December 24, 2009, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-an-army-soldier-tryin-somethin-new/35010/21 "2009-12-24T03:52:09Z")

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umm I don’t think urban is considered thug. Urban is more tighter fitting shirts with intricate designs that show off muscles and stylish jeans that actually fit right. Im thinking a store called Express, not South pole or Rockawear if you know what I mean. When I think of thug I think of oversized shirts and sagging jeans. Its okay to have a badass style, but make sure the stuff you wear fits right. IDK it all depends on what YOU want to wear and what you are trying to accomplish. If you are going to be clubbing and/or bars then I’d recommend the style I stated above. Personally I like Areopostale and Express. They both make quality shirts and jeans. You may like Ed Hardy Idk but Make sure you buy light colored jeans though (preferably boot cut and nothing sagging)

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