# Hi- from another "long-term relationshipper looking for trouble" **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 27, 2007, 2:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244 "2007-02-27T02:40:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kaijing9](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/50afbb/32.png) [@kaijing9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kaijing9)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 2:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244/1 "2007-02-27T02:40:44Z")
I just read eisbaer’s intro & it sounds alot like my story- at least the first part of it! I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years with the same guy, whom I have a child with. Dry spells & predictability turn our relationship into a living nightmare. LONG story short- we are still together & we are (he is I should say, finally) openning up to experimentation & new stuff. So here to gather info & look around. I am also a massage therapist & have a certificate in clinical herbalism, so I’m interested to learn more for those reasons & purposes as well. Products that have caught my eye so far- Openness/Honesty/ Shine for him, maybe Shine/Sexiness for me? Is there something anyone knows about to use on yourself to increase your own libido/arousal- Maybe I need a Viagra spritzer!!🙄 Thanks for the opprotunity to share & learn on this site- cool stuff!!!😃 ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2007, 3:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244/2 "2007-02-27T03:38:49Z")
Hi kaijing9, welcome to the forum. You’re going to find a tonne of stuff here to whet your appetite for phero-adventures. We’re all pioneers here, settling unfamiliar territory. Good people. If you could use pheros successfully to do anything, I’m wondering what it would be… ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244/3 "2007-02-28T15:13:26Z")
am i to understand you want something to increase _your own_ libido? PM me if you want a more in-depth answer 😉 first if you are only looking for _topical_ solutions, i out-of-control recommend instant sexiness A. i know, the description of it makes it sound as if its affecting the guys just fine and thats all. read in the women’s forum, i wear it for the way it affects me _as the user_. i kinda feel bad for the guys i zero-in on; they really dont have time to prepare the “im busy / married / not interested / _ **GAY** _” speech. you think im playing 😉 i am not overwhelmingly cute but this mix makes me feel like my looks are completely irellevant 🙂 i cant tell you how freeing that is. there are also alot more here offered. if he is opened minded, try him weaing some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). talk about weak in the knees , thats a hornifier right there. let us know if we can be helpful, we have all had different experiences so someone here might resonate with you more than others. enjoy yourself! [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/sign0203.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/sign0203.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244/4 "2007-03-01T01:23:47Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > i am not overwhelmingly cute… Uhmmmm… I’ve seen your picture, and all I can say is “lier, lier, pants on fire”…🙄 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2007, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-another-long-term-relationshipper-looking-for-trouble/2244/5 "2007-03-09T07:30:10Z")
Hi, and welcome to the forum. Your gift cert has been sent. 🙂