# Hi from California!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 21, 2011, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918 "2011-08-21T03:11:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![baddgrrl1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@baddgrrl1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/baddgrrl1)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2011, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918/1 "2011-08-21T03:11:45Z")

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My name is Kelly and I’m a female in my early 40’s and I live in California. I’m fairly outgoing and social and do get attention from men, but I’m looking for that extra oomph that will make the man I’m interested in finally make the move. He’s been showing me a lot of attention and dropping hints, but he seems nervous about asking me out on a date.

Here are some of the [Pheromone scents](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/) I’m interested in:

Instant Sexiness  
Essence of a Woman  
Scent of Eros

I’d love to get feedback from any women that have used these successfully.

Thanks!  
Kelly

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**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2011, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918/2 "2011-08-21T03:58:12Z")

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Hey there!

Kelly!

SoE and EoW aren’t products from AD, so I can’t comment much on them 🙂

But [instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) definitely is 🙂

Well, first off, it’s great that you are already looking at some products!

It shows that you are very initiative in looking and sourcing for information 😃

How did you manage to find us Kelly?

Men in general have approach anxiety, some overcome it, most don’t unfortunately.

Sometimes you just have to make hints to him so let him overcome it.

You might also want to consider;

1. IH
2. IO

These are socials which will make you a lot more approachable in terms of people saying hi to you 🙂

You might also want to take a read at: [Intro to Mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003)

on listing of products from AD.

I’m sure you will enjoy your stay here Kelly 🙂

Remember that this isn’t just a store, it is a community of people who support and help each other.

Also on a final note, you might want to take a look at the [Women’s Section](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/womens-pheromone-advice-tips-tricks/).

LOADS of tips on how to use mones effectively 😃

Cheers!

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**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2011, 4:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918/3 "2011-08-21T04:40:22Z")

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Hi! Cool to see you here!

Hi Kelly, IS/B can do it for you, it’s sweet and sexy, calls also the Maryln Monroe effect. Pleasure and cuddly reaction from men. Try also [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for mood elevating, fun and a attraction aura. Maybe look also to MX397 or MX398, same product but different scents. I read that it’s also sexy like IS/B but also dominant, also great for the workplace for example. It’s is difficult to tell what is more effective for you, one men like more sexy alpha women (MX397/MX398) or more sweet sexy women like IS/B.

I would go with all three. It’s better for you to find the best product what works for you.

Have a great time and we need much more women like you here on the board. 😉

Warmth wishes 🙂

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2011, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918/4 "2011-08-21T04:42:18Z")

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Hi there Kelly,

Its a pleasure to meet you.Thats cool that your trying to use them to get that extra edge to get your man.Unfortunately,we men wont ask unless were sure it will be a yes because were afraid of being turned down.(\>\_\<)If you drop some hints,he might be more likely to ask.Though they might have to be obvious since were quite dense(:-p)

[Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would be a good help for you.The others cant really comment on although ive hear good things about scent of eros.You can actually qualify for a 25$ gift certificate here which will let you get some to-go’s to test out more or less risk free(^\_^)The link to the requirements is below.

[How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)

Not really that familiar with instant sexiness but the others are unisex.Instant sexiness and instant shine would probably be a good pair for you to help with your man along with maybe some instant honesty.Instant sexiness will give you more of a sexy vibe and instant shine will give you a confident happy vibe.Instant honest will give you a bit more bonding so he might be less nervous.Ive added some stickies below that may interest you.All the best and hope things go well for you (^\_^)Im sure you will have fun here.

[An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003)

[Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)

[LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383)

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2011, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-california/51918/5 "2011-08-23T23:19:38Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Badgirl!

Besides [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b the two other products you mentioned are not sold at AD and you can get them at [lovescent.com](http://lovescent.com).

There are some threads and some feedback from the ladies that use them on the forum but that info you have to get in the women’s section.

Let us know about your experiences when you finally make that purchase.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**