# Hi from DC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 3, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541 "2009-06-03T21:10:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Wegs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8797f3/32.png) [@Wegs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wegs)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/1 "2009-06-03T21:10:57Z")
Hello all, I’m a 23 yr old female currently living/working in our nations capital.. originally from that gentile area the eastern shore of MD.. I’m generally pretty outgoing, been turning it down lately for whatever reason I’m feeling a bit more shy than i used to in hs/college. At parties I _used_ to be one of the centers of attention, not always necessarily the main focus point but I never had trouble drawing people in. I feel like I’m a pretty good conversationalist. I wouldn’t say I’m smart but perhaps others would, same goes for being pretty (to me I’m pretty standard looking..5’4", 125lb blue eyes with freckles..) I also didn’t used to have much trouble attracting men although lately I feel like I’m not catching as many eyes as I used to.. now this could be because I’m in the longest relationship I’ve ever been in (1yr and a few months..) and don’t get me wrong I love him very much but.. I’m a flirt and I feel like not quite myself lately on account of.. maybe I’ve lost _it_… who knows. I’m just feeling a bit introvert lately and i don’t like it one bit… I’ve only had one experience with pheromones before: a friend used to have those slumber parties and she was marketing a [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) as very effective and I never believed her… so one night she and I took it out for a tester in DC and let me tell you… that stuff WORKS. I mean the second we hit the door in a crowded club (K St Lounge if anyone is familiar..can I get some love from DC people!) we were the center of all attention. It didn’t matter if we were the hottest girls in there, heads were turning, drinks were being bought, all sorts of gents were vying for our attention. it. was. great. fun. and i also liked the way it made me feel… super sexy and confident (more so than usual) sleek and minxy. again. it was awesome.. i might need to contact her and ask her the name of it.. A few weeks ago after doing some extensive internet research which was triggered by the fact that my umm.. desires are greater than those of my bf’s and I was looking for a way to really.. ahem.. rev him up so that we could maybe be on the same level there… from my reading on these forums I decided to give it a try and order a to-go bottle Instant Sexiness A (I’m assuming it’s A because it didn’t say IS B.. but it didn’t say A either..) which came with a very lovely complimentary gift of CTTM and a sweet note from Jacob saying “I’m awesome” (I’m sure everyone gets this but props to adroticsdirect, it really made me feel good!). It was like Christmas in May! I’ve since tried these two separately in a variety of different scenarios but have yet to experience any sort of personal effects OR feel like i’m getting any hits (both of which I got from the other one ON THE FIRST TRY!!)… I’ve tried 1 spray, 2 sprays, 3 sprays of IS on its own AND with cover scents, various areas of the body, neck/chest, arms, back of neck, hair… I’ve tried the same of CTTM. I’ve tried them with the BF and at happy hours with male friends. I’ve tried both at work. Tried both on an afternoon before the gym..Seriously. Nothing. So now I’m really confused and super disappointed. For now I’ve ordered EOW from [love-scent.com](http://love-scent.com) but am still really bummed that the ones from here didn’t work… My reasoning behind ordering the EOW was that I read on here that androticsdirect had removed the cops to rework their formula so I thought that maybe that could be the trigger for me but I see that other new women are posting success with their new products, esp ISA.. I may order one other product from androticsdirect but it won’t be for a while. I’ll definitely keep playing with these two.. separately.. since I’ve read that mixing them is no good but at the same time.. does anyone have any guidance of where to go for the purpose I’m looking for? Thanks and this is really a great community from what I’ve seen 🙂 Hope to hear from you soon… ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/2 "2009-06-03T21:16:08Z")
Hey Wegs, Welcome to the forum! What a great introduction, I’m sure you will be welcomed into this community with open arms. Good to see that you are already getting your teeth into the Androtics products. Have you tried varying the amounts that you have been using? If it turns out that the products aren’t working for you I’m aware there is some sort of guarantee. I’ll let the girls comment on your choice of pheros. There’s also a good chance that you can get a Gift Certificate for registering here so that you could extend your testing to other products. Whatever happens I wish you the best of luck! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/3 "2009-06-03T21:18:56Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Looks like you got some nice toys … IS A and CCTM2. Sweet. These are two proven products - not sure why you are not getting any hits. Remember a lot of the hits you get with these products are subtle. We aread about the over the top one but most are subtle. These products send out suggestions. But often it is up to you to get people to act on the suggestions. And a lot of people do not get any self-effects. The other thing I would mention is that I sledom wear them to the gym. I just end up sweating them off too quickly for me to really use them there. Maybe if you give us a more details in the womens forum about what you wore, when, how much, etc. the ladies could help you. The only other thing that I would add is that this guy sounds like he needs very direct “hints”. Men and women sometimes have to meet in the middle when it comes to direct and indirect communication - girls sometimes need to be a little more direct - often a lot more direct from their perspective and guys need to pay attention a little more. and that is important especially if you have been in a relationship for over a year. ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/4 "2009-06-03T21:30:30Z")
Hello Again, Sorry I just noticed that you mentioned trying varying amounts of both. Another thing that I have seen mentioned around here is that often if you have known the targets for a while they may be used to your natural [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) signature and it will take a few exposures for them to notice. If you have tried these two pheros on alternating days then perhaps they could also be confused and just ignoring it. These are both things I have seen mentioned but not experienced so please don’t take this on board as definitive just trying to help you come to a conclusion. As Bosshank said the Women’s forum will probably be able to give you specific feedback. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Wegs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8797f3/32.png) [@Wegs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wegs)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/5 "2009-06-03T21:37:44Z")
Hmm interesting replies both of you. To reply to bosshank, I don’t think I could be ANY more direct. I’ve literally said to him “i want… i need…”. he knows. and he knows its good. hes just always too tired or not in the mood.. and im not fat or ugly and _it_ used to be there.. so i dont know whats going on. as for the specific scenarios each time ive tried it ill have to report more on that later. gotta go to work out class right now but… i basically tried them in all the ideal scenarios and didnt get anything out of the ordinary. once i did get either a “i want you so bad” or “death stare” from a female on the street passing me with her attractive boyfriend.. my friend saw it too and he was like dammmmnnnn you just got looked OVER. so that may have been a hit but.. to be honest ive gotten those sorts before w/o p-mones.. and i know its up to me to act on the effects of them but i just wasnt feeling like i was getting any.. thanks for the reading tho. read the first one but ill try the second and the rest! til later…! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/6 "2009-06-03T21:51:20Z")
Well, all I can tell you is all things being equal, Mrs. BH does not need to ask twice … after 20+ years. Maybe bathe in CTTM and have a serious discussion about what he is feeling about the relationship. Be careful though - the beta-nols will usually get you very honest answers, even if they are not the ones you want. ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/7 "2009-06-03T22:04:28Z")
Heya wegs, Welcome to pherotalk. 🙂 God I had the same problem with my boyfriend when I joined here. Thankfully he’s gotten over it. I had good results with Is/b and instant honesty with him and after awhile intermittent use of come talk to me 2 seemed to help a lot. One thing I’ve noticed though on my “clean” no phero days he reacts like he has a whole new woman around and things spice up. I’m not sure if its the return to my original pheromone signature that does the kick in the rear but he’s certainly more hands on. Some guys simply have a lower libido than we do but damn its frustrating! I have found that if I make sure he gets his space during the day too it seems to help as well. Sometimes living together really can kill the mood. Best of wishes and once again welcome. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 10:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/8 "2009-06-03T22:10:40Z")
Ah you know it occurs to me you might try instant shine as well I find it boosts the amount of attention I get in general. I wear it on the back of my neck sometimes. One of our more hostile neighbors is now very friendly towards me after a shine test day. No matter how I look or what sort of mood hes in he always says hi to me now with a big smile. It’s kinda weird actually but amusing. Shine seems to boost others image of you and some days can help your self-image either directly or as an indirect result of the attention you get. ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/9 "2009-06-03T22:13:23Z")
> [@ElectraComplex](#): > > Ah you know it occurs to me you might try instant shine as well I find it boosts the amount of attention I get in general. I wear it on the back of my neck sometimes. > One of our more hostile neighbors is now very friendly towards me after a shine test day. No matter how I look or what sort of mood hes in he always says hi to me now with a big smile. It’s kinda weird actually but amusing. > > Shine seems to boost others image of you and some days can help your self-image either directly or as an indirect result of the attention you get. I have to back that vote for shine but it looks like it’s gone out of stock today. Just as I was thinking of ordering some tomorrow ☹ When it is back in though I love it, have had some great experiences whilst wearing [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). ---
**Author:** ![Wegs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8797f3/32.png) [@Wegs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wegs)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/10 "2009-06-04T15:52:06Z")
Alright you’ve convinced me. I’m going to order a to-go of IS B (in thinking that perhaps my personality/personal scent is already IS A enough..) and a to-go of instant shine and I’m going to test each product properly, 1 at a time, for a week and see what I get. I think I over read and was so excited from my first experience that i didn’t give each one enough time on it’s own nor did I really feel effects so finding the sweet spot was near impossible but I’m going to re-set and re-try. Thanks for the great advice in here 🙂 will post more in the womens section when I have some results and as always… I keep reading 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Wegs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8797f3/32.png) [@Wegs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wegs)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/11 "2009-06-04T17:32:10Z")
PS i don’t know what I have to do to qualify for the $25 gift cert. I guess I’m just waiting for the pheromone goddesses Tisha or Jasmin to stop by? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2009, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dc/29541/12 "2009-06-04T18:14:58Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Wegs! You definitely got some great advice and I just want to add that there maybe a number of things. First of all, if you are feeling less confident not so desirable you are certainly sending out that vibe and thus affecting the way others around you respond to you. I will definitely recommend instant shine and [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) which has great self effects in uplifting your mood. The next time you are going to apply your products do a sexy routine. Give yourself a bubble bathe and apply some sweet smelling lotion. When you’re done you should look in the mirror and think : “I am so hott.” Also, when you are in relationship for such a longtime you tend to take the other for granted esp in the bedroom department. Doing something big to get his attention with your pheros might get the mood going. 😛 Instant Sexiness/A might be more your personality but it’s been my experience that CTTM 2 and instant sexiness/b can get you some pretty great results. Keep us posted. **Your GC is on it’s way!**