# Hi from down under; also a few questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 20, 2010, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904 "2010-04-20T22:41:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![abre13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5ac83/32.png) [@abre13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abre13)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/1 "2010-04-20T22:41:16Z")
Hey, I’m a guy in the 18-24 range from Australia. I heard about this place by following an ad to a competitor, and then doing a bit of Googling. I’ve got on order a bottle of A314, and the “to go” bottles of IO and IH. So, a bit more about me then. I’m a uni student studying science, I’m a little bit shy (although I’ve come out of my shell more since I went from high school to uni), I try my best to be honest, kind, approachable, what have you. In terms of what I’m after, building respect and trust among people I’ve only met recently would be great, plus, of course, picking up 😃 (note: as far as that aspect of it goes, I’m much more interested in picking up then getting laid; I’m more after a ltr\*) \*In terms of the ltr thing; obviously mones aren’t the magic wand, even less so than for casual sex, so what I’m mainly looking for here is a little bit of assistance with getting things started. So, anyway, my main question is this: The A314, from reading other threads, can appear to make the wearer a little less approachable, or give the “VIP effect”. To quote [another thread](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/first-few-days-experimenting-with-a314/36995): “Some girls try to stay away from you or sh\*t test you, while guys try to suck up to you sometimes…” I’d like to avoid either of those things if possible (regardless of gender). Would mixing with the IO or IH (or both?) make the wearer more approachable while still retaining some of the effects of A314? Would lowering the amount applied (say to perhaps 1 drop) still be effective, while perhaps taking the edge off? Since at least one of the threads I’ve read has mentioned the “VIP effect” only really occurring in the first few days, would it be a good idea to sort of “ease in”, starting with 1 drop, then 2, then either staying at 2 or going to 3? (On a side note, especially considering the first few days thing mentioned above, is it possible that the “VIP effect” is partly due to the wearer’s initial reaction to a314?) Any other advice on how to make a314 more approachable and cut don on the sucking-up/“VIP” effect? Also, how many sprays, roughly, are there in a ‘to go’ bottle? Sorry about the length of this post, and if my questions make no sense, and thanks for the opportunity to ask these questions. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/2 "2010-04-20T23:07:16Z")
Hi Abre, Welcome to the forum, I noticed you said “I’ve got on order a bottle of A314, and the “to go” bottles of IO and IH.” Well you seemed to touch on A314 at least three times when you memtioned, respect, trust, shy. So, I understand your reason for getting some A314. I think it best to use just one of the (IO or IH ) two rather than both together with A314. Yes, you’ll seem more approachable provided you response openly and make yourself acessible to people; you’ll still have that alpha vibe. My advise is that you start with one drop of A314, because that may be all you need for effects, the point is to establish you sweet spot, so start a ground level zero before you attempt to work your way up in dosages. This applies to any product; find your sweet spot. (On a side note, especially considering the first few days thing mentioned above, is it possible that the “VIP effect” is partly due to the wearer’s initial reaction to a314?) To this quesition of your, I it could be- that’s possible. I owe you one to this quesition, “Also, how many sprays, roughly, are there in a ‘to go’ bottle?” And I get back with you shortly. cheers, MVKBUGATTI ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/3 "2010-04-20T23:21:48Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. YOu can try IG. It is the friendlier A314. It can also give you respect and trust anf is is buffered with some friendly [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). YOu can also try IH. It can make people closer to you. It can help to buold relationship. Girls will talk more personal and deeper with you. GOod luck ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/4 "2010-04-20T23:27:43Z")
> [@abre13](#): > > Also, how many sprays, roughly, are there in a ‘to go’ bottle? 40 **sprays in the to go bottles** this is approximate just like the 200 **sprays** for a full bottle This post should help: _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)) ---
**Author:** ![abre13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5ac83/32.png) [@abre13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abre13)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/5 "2010-04-20T23:39:06Z")
Thanks for your replies, they makes a lot of sense. With regards to IO and IH, how do they differ in terms of adding approachability to the A314? Oh, and any other potential negatives of the A314 that anyone’s aware of apart from the two I mentioned? ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 12:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/6 "2010-04-21T00:21:31Z")
> [@abre13](#): > > Thanks for your replies, they makes a lot of sense. > > With regards to IO and IH, how do they differ in terms of adding approachability to the A314? > > Oh, and any other potential negatives of the A314 that anyone’s aware of apart from the two I mentioned? In my opinion IO ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) is definitely the chattier of the two. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) -Inspires chattiness, with some people it could be redundant less chatter however very good for breaking the ice with strangers. Instant **Honesty** it’s also good for breaking the ice, IT’S uniqueness towards building connection and closeness, like a best friend vibe where people feel can say or share personal things (or let them slip without knowing why.) ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/7 "2010-04-21T03:51:04Z")
Hi abre13, welcome to the forum! The best way to start is to try each product separately until you are familiar with the effects and the dosage that suits you for each, as MVPBUGATTI advised. Then you will know how to combine them for the effect you want to produce. I personally prefer [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) with A314 because you will get the respect/confidence but it will be buffered in such a way that others will percieve you as someone they can comfortably talk to and trust. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/8 "2010-04-21T20:34:46Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![abre13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5ac83/32.png) [@abre13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/abre13)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2010, 8:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-down-under-also-a-few-questions/37904/9 "2010-04-23T08:28:41Z")
Thanks for the advice, everyone! I’ll take it all on board and see what happens.