# Hi from Dude67. Pheromones to Soften my Alpha Vibe when Approaching Ladies. 50/M **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 22, 2017, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908 "2017-01-22T21:27:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2017, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/1 "2017-01-22T21:27:19Z")
Hi folks. Totally new to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and newly single after 10 years. Looking forward to learning about and using pheromones to help me get back into the swing of things. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2017, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/2 "2017-01-22T21:39:41Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Well you have come to the right place for pheromones to help with that! There are a lot of options and routes you can take. Can I ask your age? Anyways - Ammo is a great all around product to let the ladies know you are interested. CTTM will help get conversations stated around you. IG is a greatly under-rated product in my opinion. It will give you a certain cool factor. A314 with something like IH can give you the successful guy sex appeal. Or if you have the money there is a Men’s Ultimate kit that gives you a little bit of everything to start experimenting with. Hope this helps some. bosshank ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2017, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/3 "2017-01-22T21:43:11Z")
Hi Dude67, Welcome to this forum, Bosshank gave you solid advice above. Maybe we can provide additional recommendations if you tell us more about you. How is your personality? Are you looking for a long-term relationship or not? Where do you usually go to meet ladies? And yes, age is an important info. And the age group of ladies you are targeting too. Where are you from? ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2017, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/4 "2017-01-23T05:57:32Z")
Hi Dude67! I’ll go with bosshanks initial recommendations for you. 🙂 Welcome to PheromoneTalk! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2017, 2:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/5 "2017-01-23T14:12:02Z")
Hello Dude67, Welcome! I would look into the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get all the items mentioned plus a lot more. This is your best bet to get something for everything and is the best place to start. There is no 1 product that will do everything like some companies claim, so with the kit you get something for work, dating, sexual, social, parties, or anything you can think of. I will still highlight some ones that I think will be good to start with, **[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)** If anything else get this one. For attraction and works extremely well and good for day use to not just bars and clubs. Very balanced so you can not go wrong with it. **IShine** More a social, but will boost your confidence and put everyone in a good mood and works for any situation to do just this. Also a plus is when used with Ammo will bring out even more attraction in it. These are my suggestions and otherwise I think Bosshank has the others covered. I guess I pretty much made this same suggestions the Boss did LOL. When I first started I had the most luck with Ammo and IShine anyways. Good Luck!!! ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 11:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/6 "2017-03-05T11:46:16Z")
Thank you all for your kind help. Just wondering now about the $25 gift certificate for saying hello. Placing my 2nd order soon and it would be handy ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 11:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/7 "2017-03-05T11:55:51Z")
A moderator will come in usually Dee to issue the GC if you have not got one yet. What are you planning to order? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/8 "2017-03-05T16:00:00Z")
Hi Dude, I’m just giving you a hint here, but before awarding the 25$ GC, the moderators usually appreciate the new user to include some basic informations in the introduction: like, age, country, some details about the goals pursued with pheromones and a short description of one’s personality and what’s to improve about it. This should help you obtain the GC. Of course, also, ask any qestion you might have. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 7:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/9 "2017-03-05T19:27:05Z")
Hi my order this time so far is Instant shine 2x, Alpha A314, P083, ans [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) to go size 🙂 My first order was Ammo 2x, Turn up the heat 2x, and A314 spray1.32A. ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 8:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/10 "2017-03-05T20:44:49Z")
Hello again just added come talk to me to my order as well, keen to get it in so will wait for next order for the $25 Gift Certificate I guess? 🙂 I am an Alpha really so some of the softening approachability ones may help? I will be ordering again soon, again budget has pulled me up a little. Thank you everyone for your kind help and anymore is very appreciated. I have had some very spectacular results so far including women 15-20 years younger staring at me in restaraunts while eating with their families etc? so very cool and keen to keep playing with the products folks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/11 "2017-03-05T20:51:51Z")
Oh so you have some previous experience and know quite well what you are doing, hm? Nice 🙂. Good luck with the GC, it shouldn’t take long. ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/12 "2017-03-05T21:00:45Z")
🙂 good guesses Conjurator I think, only just started but read about them before buying 🙂 so had expectations. I am finding with the x2 products less is more? Still very keen for advise I am 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/13 "2017-03-05T21:04:30Z")
Regarding dosage, I’m missing an important info: your age plays a major role on that aspect, especially with ammo-like products 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/14 "2017-03-05T21:12:07Z")
50 Conjurator just turned in January 🙂 and recently had my GF/partner of 10 years leave just before Christmas. I think that was in my original post in this thread was a little while ago so tho. So way out of the social and singles scene for ages lol so a virtual newb to chasing friendships these days to 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/15 "2017-03-05T21:24:40Z")
Hmmm. At 50, you sure can use Ammo 2X without any problems. If your target ladies are much younger however, you can try a half-spray to see if it works better. Regarding socials like IS, IO and IH, 2X is ok too for you. These three will be your best allies for chasing new friendships: IO to break the ice, IS to be approabchable and boost people’s mood and IH to achieve deeper connections with people. Ammo, for the flirting and keeping things away from the friend zone. Juste beware of IH self-effects, especially at 2X level. Wear it on your hands on wrists preferably, it helps prevent spilling the beans (speaking all truths best left untold). ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/16 "2017-03-05T21:32:44Z")
Thanks Conjurator, sometimes I have almost bathed in it and the TUTH 2x at the same time you can feel the sexual tension around you and even see it but I think it has tended to make the ladies a little uncomfortable and they would leave my presence quickly. With less they come close even right into my space. 🙂 when I say friends I mean friends with benefits if that is the term now? Only interested in that scenario for now after 10 years lol ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2017, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/17 "2017-03-05T23:27:47Z")
Fwb, oh… I see, lol. Well the social game is often necessary to open them up (IS IO). Then move to flirting (Ammo) and finish them up with TUTH. Lol. Maybe IH is not necessary, it’s nice to have it in everyday life though. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2017, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/18 "2017-03-06T04:56:28Z")
Thanks for the additional info, Dude67! I think you should give Conjurator here some reps for coughing those out from you. 🙂 Otherwise, you won’t qualify for an intro GC. 🙂 It’s in your email now by the way, and ready for your next order. 🙂 Conjurator’s recommendation is cool. I’ll give it a backing. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! ======================= _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hi from Dude67”** to **“Hi from Dude67. Pheromones to Soften my Alpha Vibe when Approaching Ladies. 50/M”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Dude67](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b5a626/32.png) [@Dude67](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dude67)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2017, 8:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-dude67-pheromones-to-soften-my-alpha-vibe-when-approaching-ladies-50-m/66908/19 "2017-03-06T08:07:22Z")
😃 Thanks folks appreciated much 🙂 yes I think some social softening pheromones are definately the go for me lol