# Hi from England! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 3, 2012, 1:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138 "2012-04-03T13:12:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cassiopeia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cassiopeia/32/1151_2.png) [@cassiopeia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cassiopeia)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 1:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/1 "2012-04-03T13:12:43Z")
Hi everyone. I’m a 26 year old female living in England, and I came across this site a couple of days ago. it was completely random - I had never even considered the fact that pheromones could be anything more than snake oil, but I was intrigued by all the anecdotes from forum posters who seemed to be intelligent enough not to fall for complete scams. So, I read on, and on, and on, and now I am hungry for my own personal stash of pheromones 😃 I am a pretty attractive gal, and I get flirted with and hit on all the time. That might sound great, but actually my love life is pretty miserable! Thing is, I end up attracting either men who are only interested in sex, or they just lose interest or are emotionally unavailable for some reason. I honestly think they sense my low love-self-esteem (due to bad past experiences I have trouble feeling as though I am ‘worthy’ of a relationship, but I am working on that) even though I generally try to come across as confident. I’m generally well-liked, have lots of friends, don’t think my personality is too awful, but I just can’t get unstuck in the love department! It’s really frustrating… Anyway, I started reading up about [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and TAH, and I am intrigued! I was never really interested in pheromones for giving off a ‘sexy’ vibe, however pheromones that give off a softer, loveable vibe sound awesome! I think I can sometimes come off as too sexually aggressive as well and men try to relate to me on that level, not realising that although I am a bit of a minx, I’m also a big softie that wants to be held and hugged and treated like a princess 🙂 What also fascinated me was when people said that they felt effects from wearing pheromones, whether it was increased self-esteem or increased happiness. I’m always up for trying new things, so I’m excited about the beginning of my pheromone adventure! Hope to be able to have as good effects as many others on this forum! ---
**Author:** ![Hydro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hydro/32/329_2.png) [@Hydro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hydro)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/2 "2012-04-03T13:30:42Z")
Welcome Cassiopeia. I too stumbled across this forum recently & couldn’t stop reading, which lead to ordering a few differnt mones & mixes & yes they definately work! [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) was the first one I started experimenting with & it’s definately a perfect place to start. Delivery to UK has been really quick & painless. The one thing I have noticed with all the products I’ve tried is that they have less effect on people you know well. For first impressions & causual acquaintances they’re amazing, but after that YOU need to steer the relationship forward in the direction you want. Good luck & have fun ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/3 "2012-04-03T13:31:13Z")
I think the IS is a great idea for your situation. I think it will help get everyone comfortable and will see you as fun and youthful and full of life. Hopefully this helps weed out some of the dopes 🙂 I haven’t used TAH too much but some others might be able to give you better advice with that one. IO and IH are great as they get people a bit more comfortable around you and can enhance conversation and trust. Let us know how things go! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2012, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/4 "2012-04-03T14:18:42Z")
Hello Cassi and welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear that you are stuck in the romance doldrums and yes I think the first thing you will need to do is realize that you deserve a good guy and demand and expect nothing less. Guys will either live up to those expectations and if not you can weed them out of your life pretty quickly. The socials are a good place to start for getting to know people. The recommendation for Io and Ih are good ones. Io helps with those initial gabby conversations and IH helps generate feelings of connection and trust which often lead to deeper conversations. Worn together, you can really get to know a person. As far as TAH goes, i guess you have sorted out that it is a low key sexual product for females. It will tend to attract the guys who will want to protect and care for you, among others. TAL is more of an aggressive product. If you want a lot more detail from a female perspective PM Tisha23. she is a very experienced female user. I do not know if she logs in every day but i know she will help. Bella is the same. Glad to see you here and good luck. ---
**Author:** ![cassiopeia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cassiopeia/32/1151_2.png) [@cassiopeia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cassiopeia)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2012, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/5 "2012-04-04T12:39:19Z")
Thanks for the warm welcomes 🙂 So I went ahead and ordered IS and TAH today… I can’t wait! I want them like, yesterday!! I also ordered EOW from another seller. I know I said I wasn’t really interested in the whole ‘sexy’ vibe, but I think it’d be good to have a few different ones to choose from in the beginning, just so I can see how each one affects me. I probably won’t play around with EOW until later though. So I have been glued to this forum for the whole day now, I feel like I’m embarking on an exciting adventure, and I just hope that [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) work as well for me as they have for others - although from reading a lot of posts, it seems that in the cases where they don’t work initially, further experimenting with dosage and types of pheromones has done the trick. So I won’t be giving up easily. I guess the next step is to start a journal once I receive my order? Edit: Thought I’d add, I did look at IH and IO, but my hesitancy with those two is that I’m worried about the self-effects. I’m a bit like an open book sometimes and I just blurt out things that I’m thinking and feeling and I’m not always comfortable with this afterwards. I’d probably try them out later, just to see, but they wouldn’t be my first choice because I’d be worried that I’d become too open and honest myself! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-england/55138/6 "2012-04-09T16:10:04Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Cassie! Reading your introduction it sounded pretty much like me up until a year ago when I had the break up of my life and the relationship of all relationships. After that one I swore am never gonna allow a guy to treat me like that again. I think it all starts with some soul searching after starting the gym and working on just me minus the guys I even started talking back with some exs to realize that if I knew what I wanted and had more self worth I wouldn’t even want these guys in the first place. Don’t get me wrong, these are not low life, they are smart, successful pretty knowledgeable guys but real assholes and if now that I am smarter can sense that a mile away. I want you to take this opportunity (these mones) and this forum to work on you. Just work on loving you without trying to make someone love you. Think of why you allowed these guys to come in your life and what you plan on doing differently this time around. Remember that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is the definition of crazy. So try something new. The new me is on a mancation and am just having fun with my girls, and the guys who come around are so whipped because I am not interested they do whatever I want. I am tempted because of their persistence to let down my guard but I remember the past and I know better, its all a game. Even if you don’t want to play it is being played with you so protect you at all cost. Pm me anytime you want to hear all about my horrible experiences so u don’t feel so bad about you. _ **Your gc was issued!** _