# Hi from LA. Any phero advice for a 40 year old divorcee? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 12, 2008, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238 "2008-10-12T09:33:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lavinator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ec9cab/32.png) [@Lavinator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lavinator)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/1 "2008-10-12T09:33:19Z")
Hi there… So I am a 40 something guy in Los Angeles who works as a writer, divorced with no kids, sober for quite some time, and just bouncing back from an engagement broken and the resulting long term relationship which I ended. I am fascinated and highly skeptical when it comes to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), but I am willing to take a shot. I like the idea of the different types… the business A314, the basic shine for hanging out, the relaxer for meeting women, and the heater for when I feel a bit naughty and want to sow the few wild oats I have left. I have gone out with lots of women, and I look quite young for my age (people guess in the late twenties, early thirties), but I just feel strange hitting on younger women these days. So I will try it as a boost and see what happens. Any advice for combinations, methodology and the rest? By the way, I promise not to use smilies and icons if I can avoid them. I find them to be annoying, and I only use them when I am pissed-off. Thank you and all the best for whatever you are looking for. Love is wonderful, but it’s a helluva lot of work as well… ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/2 "2008-10-12T12:27:05Z")
Welcome to the adventure! It’s going to be fun for all of us as we watch your skeptical eyes light up. It appears that you have already done some research. If you havn’t yet discovered the sticky posts at the top of each forum check them out. There is a lot of good information there. You may find your curiosity leading you to try lots of stuff. The small to-go bottles are good for identifying your favorites without breaking the bank. You’ll want the small pocket size bottles later anyway for carrying small amounts of various concoctions around. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/3 "2008-10-12T12:27:38Z")
Welcome to the forum! It’s great to build an arsenal for all occasions. You made some great choices already.You can also consider [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), which is a sexual/dating/dominance phero that is great for guys your age. Socials like Openness and Honesty will also be helpful when asking women out and when smoothing out relations at work. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![lukester19](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lukester19/32/1953_2.png) [@lukester19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lukester19)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/4 "2008-10-12T14:36:50Z")
Welcome to the forum. Lots of people including myself were skeptical at first. But then reading thru the forum at peoples observations and the quality of the companies products I was won over and took the plunge. And I am glad i did. The results seem to fit my hemisphere. If I was also you i might also want to try out the social like instant honesty and instant openness. Nothing feels better when you get in to a conversation that suits you and with A314 man you got a arsenal. Good luck and keep us informed. ---
**Author:** ![Oakey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/258eb7/32.png) [@Oakey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oakey)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 2:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/5 "2008-10-12T14:39:32Z")
Hi and welcome to pherotalk. Like you im a newbie and ive just recieved my 1st order. Let me tell you something i love this stuff… A314 - does exactly what it says on the bottle, trust and respect in a bottle. great for all occasians and a base in all my mixes. Ammo - TUTH only milder great for going out and an all rounder. look at it like this, Ammo is the magnet and TUTH the closer. Instant Shine x 2 - freaking awesome man lol works and works both on yourself and others, pity it only lasts for a short theresfter leaving you feeling a lil drugged. Wish i could find a way to make the effects last. Instant Honestyx 2 - the holy grail. Truth serum ina bottle. best when in a confined space for effects on both parties. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) - i wish my body made this on its own.. Only one thing comes to mind when i think of this product and its effects, from rageing to puurrrrring in 12sec flat. hahahaha Instant openess - i cant stand this one. i see no effects on others and i tend to get very deppressed when using it. but that could just be me. Hope you enjoy your stay here, everyone is very friendly and very helpfull ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/6 "2008-10-12T23:59:16Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk ( normally I would put a smilie here but I will refrain from annoying you ) So from what I gather your objective for mones is to make it easier to approach younger women and for general socialization. Correct ? Do you tend to date or pick up women in your daily activities or do you frequent bars clubs or parties to meet women. AMMO is good for any environment. If you go to clubs TUTH would be good to use there. So check out these two. A314 is great to up your status in work and socially. Just keep in mind it doesn’t increase approachability. Ishine is good for a warm charismatic upbeat vibe. Are you generally outgoing or more on the shy side when it comes to talking to women ? Looking forward to your reply so I can send out your GC Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Lavinator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ec9cab/32.png) [@Lavinator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lavinator)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2008, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/7 "2008-10-14T04:48:10Z")
Tisha, I don’t have a problem when it comes to approaching and talking to women. When it comes to younger women, I simply want to open the doors and create the initial spark of interest. I actually plan to purchase the ones you mentioned once I receive my coupon. I don’t feel the necessity for [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Being a poet and a published writer, once I get into a conversation with a woman, it tends to have a natural and positive flow. But I am so intrigued to see how these products work, including A314 in business situations and Instant Shine on myself. I have read up in the other sections and printed what I felt was necessary in terms of methodology and dosage. Now I just need to get the products and cross my fingers… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2008, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-la-any-phero-advice-for-a-40-year-old-divorcee/21238/8 "2008-10-14T21:30:51Z")
Hello Thank you so much for giving us more info. My recommendation above still stands. Your GC will go out shortly. Just a reminder, when you order click off Gift Certificate and not coupon or it wont work right . Have fun and if you need help or have questions just ask. We look forward to your participation in the forum. Tisha