# Hi from Michigan **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 23, 2008, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183 "2008-12-23T04:57:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![sassyeva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9bcb4/32.png) [@sassyeva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sassyeva)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/1 "2008-12-23T04:57:23Z")
I just typed this great introduction…and lost it. Ah well. Here I go again. I am a forty year old female from Michigan. I’m recently divorced, and ready to get back into the dating scene. It would be nice to meet my soul mate, but I really just want some companionship. The divorce thing is much harder than I ever would have imagined, and it gets lonely sometimes. I’ve never had a difficult time meeting men. I’m cute, funny, and pretty nice. BUT…I was married for 13 years, and am really rusty when it comes to meeting men/dating, etc. I ordered _ **Pherone** _ several weeks ago, and didn’t notice any real difference in my interaction with men. Then, I found this forum and did lots of reading. I ended up buying Scent of Eros and Liquid Trust. I do think maybe I’m noticing some subtle changes when I interact with men. I don’t care too much for the Scent of Scent of Eros though. Does anyone out there have any suggestions for a softer smelling scented [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/)? Also, it could be my imagination, but it seems like when I layer the Scent of Eros on top of a dab of the Pherone, that gets results. I’m nervous to layer though because of what I’ve read about the effects of using too much. Any thoughts? Thanks so much. Glad to be here! ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/2 "2008-12-23T05:07:04Z")
Hi sassyeva, welcome to the forum. First of all, don’t toss out that SOE, check out the Women’s section, they can offer some suggestions for using it with some of the women’s products found here. Maybe someone else can comment on the Pherone. What is your personality like? Are you shy or outgoing? Are you only wishing to use these products for dating? Tell us about yourself so we can make suggestions based upon your personality and needs. I look forward to your reply. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/3 "2008-12-23T05:23:59Z")
Welcome. Divorce is a hard time. You don’t need to rush things. The “social” [pheromones](https://a314.com/) are interesting. They get everyone talking, male and female. io and ih are good for getting the communication going without an overt sexual component. Of course, humans are sexual beings, but often they’re social first. ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/4 "2008-12-23T05:31:27Z")
Hello and welcome As Robbie has said we need to know alittle more about you. I know the ladies will help you out if you post you question in the Wonen’s section as I can not. Well If you are cute and all, not saing your not, i would tell you to get some social products they help with talking to people. Our lady Tisha will be around to welcome you and give you more insight on the women’s products. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/5 "2008-12-23T10:45:33Z")
Hello welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Dosnt surprise me that when you layer the two they work better. SOE is great but I find it more social then sexual. Pherone… I never really had any luck with but then I never layered it. My guess is the two compliment each other for some reason. When I buy a weaker mone mix I never get rid of it, I just hang on to it and use it to suppliment my other more strong mone products. I love SOE for that. I think it smells fresh and clean myself so not sure whats going on there. It causes all sort of social attraction for me but its more general, friendly. I suggest going with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and Ishine. Instant sexiness comes in two kinds A and B A is a strong confident sexy female vibe. (Think Angelina Jolie persona) B is softer more girly kittenish. (think Marilyn Monroe persona) Get the one that matches you best to start. Ishine is youthful charismatic uplifting confident warm and draws people to you. Perfect mix in my opinion. Its the one I cant live without. Well I would live but you kniow what I mean LOL Now lets get you qualified for your GC > [@](#): > > What is your personality like? Are you shy or outgoing? Are you only wishing to use these products for dating? Tell us about yourself so we can make suggestions based upon your personality and needs. Thank you Rob 😃 This will help us point you to products that will fit your needs best and get your qualified Looking forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![sassyeva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9bcb4/32.png) [@sassyeva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sassyeva)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/6 "2008-12-23T23:38:31Z")
Hi Everyone, Thanks for the warm welcome. What is my personality like??? I think I lean more toward the outgoing side as opposed to shy, but then again it depends on the setting. Let’s see, I’m friendly, down to earth, funny, sensitive…sometimes a bit too sensitive. I love a good pratical joke, and I tend to be a bit sarcastic, but not the biting, hurtful kind of sarcasm. I’m somewhat complicated in that I can be insecure at times, but feel pretty confident at other times. I think I’m more confident around men then woman. Not sure what that says about me. Sometimes other woman intimidate me. I don’t want to use Pheromones souly for dating. I’d like to incorporate them into several areas of my life…social, romantic, sexual, as well as mood lifting. When I say mood lifting, I’m referring mostly to myself, but I suppose it would be a bonus to lift the spirits of the people around me. As far as looks go…I think I’m pretty and sort of cute. I’m no super-model, but I’m smaller framed and have been told I have a classic look, with striking facial features. Hope that answers everything. Thanks for reading. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2008, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/7 "2008-12-24T01:25:38Z")
Self effects from the pheromoes tend to be temporary. Most people et used to them fairlyquickly and then the self effects go away. However, if relationhips change or means of relating change, or self image changes, those self effects can be long lasting. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2008, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/8 "2008-12-24T01:34:43Z")
I believe that [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will help give you that extra boost of confidence. As Tisha suggests, Instant Sexiness will serve you well. In fact, without knowing your particulars as far as personality, Tisha pretty much nailed it. Somedays, I suspect that girl may just be a witch… 😃 …I said _witch!_ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2008, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-michigan/24183/9 "2008-12-24T02:24:28Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Thanks for providing more information. As GW pointed out most people do become accustomed to wearing them everyday and although they still get the feelings from them they may not notice them as much. Sort of like getting a new dress, The first few times you wear it you really notice it and enjoy it. After wearing it for a while you still love it you just dont think about it as much because your used to the feeling. I stick With my original suggestion of Isexiness and Ishine. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 > [@](#): > > Somedays, I suspect that girl may just be a witch… 😃 Hmmm I wonder why you would think that LOL 😉 Tisha