Hello and welcome to the forum.
Hmmm - seems like you are ready to jump in and college will be a great place to start.
For a little more respect from the guys at your age you can go two routes.
First you can go with ammo - it has enough none in it to let the aldies know you are interested but you can wear it anywhere. At the same time a side effect is often a little more respect from guys.
You can also go with IG. It does not have any none but it will give you a cool smooth vibe that pulls in respect of its own.
Nothing here helps you talk less - most of the social products do just the opposite … lol. But you could look inot Ishine.
Check out these products and let me know what you think.