# Hi from NY! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 30, 2010, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817 "2010-01-30T01:44:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BumbleBee8585](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9fc348/32.png) [@BumbleBee8585](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BumbleBee8585)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/1 "2010-01-30T01:44:19Z")
Hello all, Jane here. I’m 24, female, and from NY. I have always been interested in science, and the debate about pheromones has interested me for a long time–it never occurred to me that I could actually use them to my advantage! I certainly would never wish to manipulate anyone, but as long as we are mimicking natural patterns with pheromones, I don’t see any issue (that is, using chemicals we naturally produce, similar to changing one’s diet and therefore chemistry, not drugging others!). I can see several places in my life for pheromones. One is that I am currently seeking a new job. It is hard enough to get an interview in this economy, but when I do I hope to be confident and inspire trust in my interviewer, which I feel I legitimately deserve. I am thinking [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) might be helpful for this. I have also suffered from depression and other issues, and while all of this is under control through supplements, diet, and lifestyle adjustments (that is, I know pheromones are not a substitute for other treatment for serious problems), it would be fun to see if pheromones could help me to achieve new levels of happiness, euphoria, etc. Another place for pheromones is (duh!) in my love life. I think I am a relatively attractive person and have had my share of flirtations and a couple of serious relationships, but I seem to attract little attention when around my other girlfriends (I have long felt like the Rhoda, not the Mary, if you know what I mean!). I have many friends and people generally find me easy to talk to and comment that I am “so funny” but I am interested to see what kind of reactions I could get, particularly from men, if using pheromones. I am very interested in copulins like Essence of a Woman, but it is out of stock everywhere I look, so if any ladies know where I can find it, please let me know! I have been reading lots on the forums, everyone is so helpful, I am looking forward to sharing my experiences!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/2 "2010-01-30T01:54:40Z")
Welcome to the forum, Jane. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) offer great possibilities for gaining trust and enhancing relationships. They are not really effective drugs for lifting people out of depression. However, the relationship changes they can help effect can have secondary (often beneficial) psychological effects on the user. We are social animals and if we have happy social lives we tend to feel a lot better. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 2:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/3 "2010-01-30T02:01:17Z")
Hi Jane, welcome to the forum! Thanks for the great info, too. I do have some recommendations that would help with your situations. First, for the job interview, MX300 would be perfect. It is a confidence and respect mix for women, and also one of my favorites for work. For the trust factor, pair that with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), which helps to create depth and intimacy and will make people more comfortable confiding in you. Instant Shine is a great pick-me-up, and will give both your mood and the moods of those around you a nice boost. This is another of my faves, in fact, I normally order mine in 4x. It may not solve the causes of your depression, but it sure does help with the symptoms! For the love life part, I need a bit more info from you. Are you more aggressive, or gentle? How do men in general perceive you, and how would you like men to percieve you and treat you? ---
**Author:** ![BumbleBee8585](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9fc348/32.png) [@BumbleBee8585](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BumbleBee8585)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/4 "2010-01-30T02:14:36Z")
Hmm. I mean, I guess I am typically somewhat aggressive (assuming you mean that without negative connotations?). I would never say outright “I am attracted to you” or “Can I get your number?” but I think my body language and tone rather than words are more aggressive. I know that is probably not helpful at all–sorry, it’s hard to see myself from the outside! ---
**Author:** ![BumbleBee8585](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9fc348/32.png) [@BumbleBee8585](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BumbleBee8585)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/5 "2010-01-30T02:27:47Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi Jane, welcome to the forum! > > Thanks for the great info, too. I do have some recommendations that would help with your situations. > > First, for the job interview, MX300 would be perfect. It is a confidence and respect mix for women, and also one of my favorites for work. For the trust factor, pair that with Instant Honesty, which helps to create depth and intimacy and will make people more comfortable confiding in you. > > Instant Shine is a great pick-me-up, and will give both your mood and the moods of those around you a nice boost. This is another of my faves, in fact, I normally order mine in 4x. It may not solve the causes of your depression, but it sure does help with the symptoms! > > For the love life part, I need a bit more info from you. Are you more aggressive, or gentle? How do men in general perceive you, and how would you like men to percieve you and treat you? Sorry, I forgot the second part of your question! Maybe it would help to know that I am almost never attracted to an “alpha male” kind of guy. That is not to say that I enjoy being very dominant, because I don’t, but typical Western manliness does not really appeal to me in a lot of ways. I like the physical traits (not too skinny, not clean shaven, not overly groomed, etc.) but I do not like alpha male attitudes. I would like men to perceive me as attractive and interesting (is that too obvious?!) and to appreciate my sense of humor but also my sensuality (even though I HATE that word, ew). I don’t really care about meaningless flirtations, and I hate small talk unless it quickly leads to something else (maybe [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is what I need!). I think what I’m really trying to say here, but using WAY too many words is this: I want to be noticed, so that there is at least opportunity for something deeper. Not to be noticed to just be stared at and “feel hot” (this would not exactly bother me, but I don’t really care about it), but to be noticed as a person who is attractive both physically and mentally. Does this make ANY sense? By the way–thanks for the recommendations so far, I will look into those!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/6 "2010-01-30T09:46:01Z")
Okay thanks. It sounds like you might be an [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/a kind of girl, which gives off more of a strong sexy alpha girl vibe (which I’ve noticed the less alpha males often seem more drawn to). The more alpha type males are often drawn more to the soft kittenish types that they can feel like they are protecting (though of course there are exceptions). I hope this helps! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/7 "2010-01-31T17:34:38Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![saltydog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eada6e/32.png) [@saltydog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saltydog)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2010, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/35817/8 "2010-02-01T17:26:16Z")
> [@BumbleBee8585](#): > > Hello all, Jane here. I’m 24, female, and from NY. > > I have always been interested in science, and the debate about pheromones has interested me for a long time–it never occurred to me that I could actually use them to my advantage! I certainly would never wish to manipulate anyone, but as long as we are mimicking natural patterns with pheromones, I don’t see any issue (that is, using chemicals we naturally produce, similar to changing one’s diet and therefore chemistry, not drugging others!). > > I can see several places in my life for pheromones. One is that I am currently seeking a new job. It is hard enough to get an interview in this economy, but when I do I hope to be confident and inspire trust in my interviewer, which I feel I legitimately deserve. I am thinking Instant Shine might be helpful for this. > > I have also suffered from depression and other issues, and while all of this is under control through supplements, diet, and lifestyle adjustments (that is, I know pheromones are not a substitute for other treatment for serious problems), it would be fun to see if pheromones could help me to achieve new levels of happiness, euphoria, etc. > > Another place for pheromones is (duh!) in my love life. I think I am a relatively attractive person and have had my share of flirtations and a couple of serious relationships, but I seem to attract little attention when around my other girlfriends (I have long felt like the Rhoda, not the Mary, if you know what I mean!). I have many friends and people generally find me easy to talk to and comment that I am “so funny” but I am interested to see what kind of reactions I could get, particularly from men, if using pheromones. I am very interested in copulins like Essence of a Woman, but it is out of stock everywhere I look, so if any ladies know where I can find it, please let me know! > > I have been reading lots on the forums, everyone is so helpful, I am looking forward to sharing my experiences!🙂 Let me know if you have any success and I will share the same