# Hi from NY! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 8, 2013, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794 "2013-01-08T17:33:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LolaBella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d6d6ee/32.png) [@LolaBella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LolaBella)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2013, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794/1 "2013-01-08T17:33:29Z")
Hi all, I just joined the site today after using one of your products for the first time. I’m 31, single, and just curious about trying [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I wonder if they will enhance my interactions with men… As I am open to dating, which is especially difficult in the city. I’m not a big flirt or super outgoing. I have my moments when I’m feeling inspired but I’m mostly too shy to bother, I guess! I bought instant sexiness and instant sexiness b. I wore 3 sprays of instant sexiness today. Perhaps I felt a little more confident today(I think it triggered me to put together a super cute outfit on the fly… 😉 ) but no out of the ordinary interactions with people. Anyway, looking forward to having fun with this! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 8, 2013, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794/2 "2013-01-08T19:29:03Z")
Welcome to the forum. You may want to try out the social products io and ih. If you are wearing them and just give someone a bit of a conversation opener, conversations flow very easily and smoothly. ---
**Author:** ![Ivoryrose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/278dde/32.png) [@Ivoryrose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ivoryrose)\ **Post date:** [January 11, 2013, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794/3 "2013-01-11T09:35:06Z")
I agree with GWTW. Instant Sexiness is good stuff, but you would get more out of it if you paired it with a social product. Especially since you say you are not super outgoing. I would recommend adding [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) or IO to the Instant Sexiness, then the super cute outfit you mentioned… and add to the mix a fun setting with sexy people you are interested in socializing with. This is a recipe for a most delicious cocktail. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 11, 2013, 3:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794/4 "2013-01-11T15:09:18Z")
Welcome Bella, I think using these products or as a woman doing certain things to make yourself feel beautiful and feel special is great and you should always try to fit that into your schedule or never neglect yourself Don’t go overboard but general up keep and special treats are a must I hope that these products will help you to feel more comfortable in your skin and make you realize just how beautiful you are **Your gc was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![LolaBella](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d6d6ee/32.png) [@LolaBella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LolaBella)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2013, 3:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-ny/57794/5 "2013-01-20T15:33:44Z")
Hi! Just an update… I ordered [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), Openness, and Shine. I’ve been mixing them with instant sexiness B. I’ve definitely noticed a change! Yesterday, I wore instant sexiness b(1 spray), instant shine (2 sprays), instant openness(3 sprays). I went shopping for supplies for a costume and the sales guy was super nice and very friendly and helpful. The previous day when I went I to the same shop wearing nothing, and zero interactions. I had to go and ask for help. -I- think it made a difference. Also, that night, I re spritzed instant shine and openness. I had dinner with a friend who was incredibly chatty. Chatty Cathy… Nonstop. Dinner lasted nearly 4 hours. She just kept pouring out minute details of her life, it was hilarious. I’ve never experienced her to be soooo talkative. Today, I wore instant shine, instant openness, instant honesty, and one spray on instant sexiness b. There’s a guy at this place where I volunteer occassionally(I’d be lying if I said I didn’t find him attractive). He’s not the most talkative guy and he usually keeps it geared on the project but today he was really chatty about his personal life and asking me about myself. Like how I am around my friends. There’s definitely something to this stuff. Wen I wear only one spray, I don’t notice anything. I think 3 per scent works better for me. And definitely, adding the social with the sexiness scent is effective.