# HI from NYC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 27, 2010, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575 "2010-02-27T00:37:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![quinwin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a8b319/32.png) [@quinwin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/quinwin)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/1 "2010-02-27T00:37:59Z")
Hey, I’m 20 and I live in NYC, im in college, and I’m interested in [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for hanging out with people after school, at parties and at bars. I’m quite social, but I would love an extra boost 😛. Mostly I’m interested in getting people to open up and talk to me, trust me and make deeper connections with people. I have a girlfriend so I am not interested in picking up girls, but I would love any advice on what I can use on special dates with her and to get more in the mood 😉. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/2 "2010-02-27T00:44:53Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! And thanks for the great info, I know just what you need! To get others to open up to you and make deeper connections, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is the way to go. That is one of my personal faves too. Instant Honesty will also help to strengthen that emotional bond with your girl. Then, once you’ve got your girl in the mood, a little Turn Up The Heat will help get things the rest of the way, if you know what I mean 😉 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/3 "2010-02-27T00:46:25Z")
Hi there, Welcome. For social, try IO and IH. IO will make people open up to you. They will like to talk to you. For deeper connection, IH will be good. It can make people feel they have known you for long time. They will talk to you in deeper bond. As for your gf, try TUTH. It can make her sexually attracted to you. IH will also helpful in getting her closer and more intimate with you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/4 "2010-02-27T00:55:53Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum, Quinwin so you interested in getting people to open and trust you, it sounds like the prescription for: [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) ([Instant Honesty – Deep Relational Communication Pheromone – You Won’t Believe Your Ears! - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)) , and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) ; they’ll both provide solid conservation influencers that your looking for. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) helps you to feel comfortably conservationally and it has the same effective on others. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will open up the person you’re talking to; and with the bonus of them feeling as if, they can interrelate more to you on a personal level and becoming more willing to share some of their deeper thoughts.🙂 cheers, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![stevios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@stevios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stevios)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 7:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/5 "2010-02-27T07:35:48Z")
Hi quinwin Welcome to a great forum 🙂 I don’t know if you’ve read this post but it’s full of great info on how to get the $25 gift certificate - you’ve given most of the information requested already but no harm in checking again just to be sure you’ve given enough to qualify! [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I am in the same situation as you, just a little older - ie. I’m pretty social, in a relationship but wanted a boost. A little bit of attention never hurts (as long as you don’t act on it!) and I’ve also enhanced my own relationship so I hope I can help you. So you want people to open up, trust you, and make deeper connections? All that screams out that you want social pheromones - Instant Openness and Instant Honesty. IO can get people talking (you’ll have to start conversation often but they’ll take it to the next level if it affects them) and IH can add the trust vibe. Instant Shine and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) are also proucts you miight be interested in. IS gives a “glow” kind of effect (for me anyway!) and IG is just supercool for me. A mix of IS and IG I’d call “Instant Charisma” 🆒. Don’t be put off thinking “gentleman” means old and boring, it definitely doesn’t and a I think a lot of younger guys use IG because they find it gives them that dependable, serious air (you can find info on this in the forum) - softened with IS or IO or IH it isn’t overbearing and from what they say you’ll just look like a young guy who knows his value, which is a good thing). My favourite “party” combo is IG, IS and then either IH or IO depending on the effect I want - with IH it’s like a big group hug vibe, with IO its a high-five vibe. You could also try CTTM2 (Come Talk to Me) which I find gets people talking but I find it more “surface” conversation than IO or IH give. I’d also recommend Ammo - this seems to work as a general social attractant without being too heavy. Whatever you choose try and resist the temptation to go crazy and use them all at once in the first place - learn a little what each one does and how much of each you need (a little is often best) before you start mixing them up a bit. Not only will you get a better idea of what works for you, you won’t be wasting anything of what you’ve bought by using it inefficiently! I’d also recommend To Go bottles for your first order - then you can work out if you’d like the 2x in IO, IH or IS if you decide to order bigger bottles in the future. (The 2x arehe same, just stronger so you need less sprays.) That’d be my first order I think if I was in your situation - To Go’s of IH, IO, IS and IG - in fact, I think that was my first order. Finally, and this is the most important thing, it’s mostly you! Think of mones as the final polish on your shoes: if you look and ACT the part mones will give you a boost, but don’t expect them to do all the work for you! You’ll read in the forum a lot about congruency - this is acting and looking like the impression you want to give and is possibly the most important thing you can do. It sounds like you are already on the way as you are social - keep that up, and from what you want to achieve also be sure to _listen_ as well as talk, and I’d hope you’ll see some magic! Above all, good luck! Keep searching and reading the forum, it’s full of great advice and people who love to help. And make sure you report back too so not only can we help you if needed but we can learn from your experiences too! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2010, 7:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-nyc/36575/6 "2010-03-01T19:57:47Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.