# Hi from S' pore **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 22, 2014, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940 "2014-01-22T09:07:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mohdrafiaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/919ad9/32.png) [@Mohdrafiaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohdrafiaz)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/1 "2014-01-22T09:07:51Z")
Hi all. I am from Singapore and married. Great to be here. Interested in how this pheromone thingy work. Want to spice up my married life with my wife. Due to hectic lifestyle full of stress, seldom had time for romance. Hopefully with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), it can enhance and bring spark back to our marriage. ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 1:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/2 "2014-01-22T13:03:33Z")
Welcome Mohdrafiaz! Tell us a bit more about your personality so you can qualify for the GC. Also we’re more able to give you the best advice on what products to but. Are you more shy/ourtgoing? How exactly do you hope to get the spark back in your marriage? Sexually or in other ways? Assuming your wife is around the same age, I would always go with a base of A314 at 39 years old. It can be steered in many directions. E.g. add some IH and IS for deep bonding, or TUTH to make things sexual. ---
**Author:** ![Mohdrafiaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/919ad9/32.png) [@Mohdrafiaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohdrafiaz)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 1:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/3 "2014-01-22T13:15:39Z")
I am not much of an expressive or romantic guy although I wish to be one. My wife is the opposite of me. But because of our hectic daily schedule that revolves ard our work and kids has made us quite distant over time and without us really aware of it. I want our life to be more romantic which leads to the ultimate if you get what I mean. At the same time, I would like my wife to be more open and be more expressive as she used to be before we got married. Just like newly weds. I am aware pheromones can’t do all this magic. There are many areas in our life that we need to look into but I feel physical appearances and presentation towards others, especially my own wife, is one way of starting out to make things improve. Currently, tried using TUTH, seems good but just run out of it. Any ideas of what’s gd for me other than fulfilling the sexual aspect say, romance, self-esteem, being open n honest? > [@Himeros](#): > > Welcome Mohdrafiaz! > > Tell us a bit more about your personality so you can qualify for the GC. Also we’re more able to give you the best advice on what products to but. Are you more shy/ourtgoing? > > How exactly do you hope to get the spark back in your marriage? Sexually or in other ways? > > Assuming your wife is around the same age, I would always go with a base of A314 at 39 years old. It can be steered in many directions. > > E.g. add some IH and IS for deep bonding, or TUTH to make things sexual. ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/4 "2014-01-22T13:41:36Z")
TUTH indeed is good, but does little besides the sexual spark. It’s a mix of androstenone with some steering molecules, that’s it. For increasing self-esteem, expressiveness and honesty I would go with the following mix: A314 + IH + IS. It’s a fallout mix, many reports about this on the forum. I believe it is also very useful in reigniting the spark you lost. A314 is an alpha male blend. Your wife will definitely see you in another light when you wear this. Dependable, attractive, high value. In other words: someone to hold on to. Self-effects of this one are amazing. I always feel very important when I wear this. Confidence boosting effects for sure. People will look up to you, show you respect, ask for your opinion more. Hence also very useful at work. I’d go with the B spray version. It’s cheaper, and with faster diffusion it’s easier to figure out how this product works for you. You can always invest in the oil later. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) creates a feel good aura and makes people more open and social. You will look like someone fun to hang out with, and look more approachable (also to your wife). It will also tone down the dominant alpha signature of A314 in a good way. IH is a beta androstenol based product. It makes people more honest and open, and facilitates conversation that is essential for deep bonding. BTW, TUTH also pairs nicely with A314. Makes it even more impressive with sexual attraction. Last piece of advice: make sure you find your sweetspot with all the products. ---
**Author:** ![Mohdrafiaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/919ad9/32.png) [@Mohdrafiaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohdrafiaz)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/5 "2014-01-22T23:09:00Z")
Thanks for the advice. Will definitely tinker over which products to buy later. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2014, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-s-pore/60940/6 "2014-01-24T00:33:04Z")
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