# Hi from smart east coast girl **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 21, 2012, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331 "2012-11-21T16:57:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Mare\_Bear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Mare\_Bear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mare_Bear)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2012, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/1 "2012-11-21T16:57:59Z")
Hi there, I found this site looking for a new shampoo! I used a pheromone shampoo years ago that smelled great and I figured - since I’m getting ready to try online dating I might as well boost my confidence and sex appeal. My ex and I split a few yrs ago and now we’re really comfortable & close and it’s easy not to move on - BUT I want a life partner, not just a guy friend situation that’s going nowhere. I’m very comfortable with meeting people in any context but when I imagine dating I feel insecure. I like really smart, energetic, self-starters, meaningful conversation, being 100% myself. Not interested in players, clubbing, anything superficial. I’m 48 but look 33. The online possible matches look like my father, not partners! I want to find someone with vitality who’s done playing around. I’d like to meet someone and click for who we are together, not just sexual chemistry bec honestly, I don’t want to act on chemistry & get my head screwy. I want to make good decisions this time around. I’d like to use [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for magnetism, to be easily approachable, and as a confidence & femininity booster. Then…I’ll need to be in situations where I meet available men! I tend to work with women and I don’t go to clubs. Hmm. Any ideas?! I’m a homebody and somewhat social adventurer and I want a partner for both. I’m amazed at how many guys are on the forum and into pheromones. Must be a sex drive thing! ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2012, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/2 "2012-11-21T18:03:40Z")
Wow! Glad to have you here! That was a great introduction! Very thorough but concise at the same time! Have you taken a look at the Female Subforum? Do some searches for the journals regarding the use of Instant Sexiness. I think that this product is what you are looking for. I highly recommend you check out the journals as this will give you a complete sense on what the dose that used and how and in what situations they used the [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/). > **[Instant Sexiness – Original Androtics Formula for Women - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/)** > > The original Instant Sexiness pheromone formula for women from Androtics. Available in the original Androtics Neroli scent plus more. Read below for full details. > [@](#): > > lowing you to be powerfully secure with others. > > Women, this is the bottom line: wear Instant Sexiness when you refuse to be ignored. When you want to step out of the door radiating fearless, first class sex appeal. > > It’ll feel like you dropped ten pounds and got a tan. Or got a killer haircut. People will notice that something about you. The head turning, heart fluttering female. You will sear your image into their subconscious. > You can be queen of the office with Instant Sexiness.. > You can tantalize a dark and handsome man with Instant Sexiness. > You can even go to the Laundromat without makeup with Instant Sexiness. > Doors (both physical and figurative) will fling open for you with Instant Sexiness. > Seductress, headmistress, princess, or bombshell, it feels like you can do anything wearing Instant Sexiness. Hope that helped! ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2012, 6:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/3 "2012-11-21T18:16:06Z")
Wow! Glad to have you here! That was a great introduction! Very thorough but concise at the same time! Have you taken a look at the Female Subforum? Do some searches for the journals regarding the use of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). I think that this product is what you are looking for. I highly recommend you check out the journals as this will give you a complete sense on what the dose that used and how and in what situations they used the pheromone. > **[Instant Sexiness – Original Androtics Formula for Women - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/)** > > The original Instant Sexiness pheromone formula for women from Androtics. Available in the original Androtics Neroli scent plus more. Read below for full details. > [@](#): > > lowing you to be powerfully secure with others. > > Women, this is the bottom line: wear Instant Sexiness when you refuse to be ignored. When you want to step out of the door radiating fearless, first class sex appeal. > > It’ll feel like you dropped ten pounds and got a tan. Or got a killer haircut. People will notice that something about you. The head turning, heart fluttering female. You will sear your image into their subconscious. > You can be queen of the office with Instant Sexiness.. > You can tantalize a dark and handsome man with Instant Sexiness. > You can even go to the Laundromat without makeup with Instant Sexiness. > Doors (both physical and figurative) will fling open for you with Instant Sexiness. > Seductress, headmistress, princess, or bombshell, it feels like you can do anything wearing Instant Sexiness. Hope that helped! ---
**Author:** ![Mare\_Bear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Mare\_Bear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mare_Bear)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2012, 6:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/4 "2012-11-22T06:43:17Z")
Thanks - I’ve read lots & I’m still not sure how to choose between IS A & B. I behave like an extrovert but I’m truly an introvert. In my most comfortable zone I’m strong, confident, direct, even bossy (with my ex & family). Yet I’m often kittenish and quiet because I’m not that comfortable around bold bossy types or people I don’t know (and I am empathetic & kind). Sexually I’m more reserved & sensual, not a vixen or a performer, and I don’t want to pretend to be or invite something I’m not interested in acting on…but I do want to be most comfortable being myself (direct, outspoken…yet sensory/sensual). I’d like to attract strong guys who are kind & sensitive but direct and driven, where I don’t have to make all the decisions and be in the driver’s seat all the time (the latter makes me angry). And I’d like to be confident and clear while much more in my feminine energy - receptive, treated well, gracious, loving; I want to be taken care of. I am asking for opposites, it seems. Do I need both? Something else?! Does this sound answerable?!! Thanks so much for your feedback. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2012, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/5 "2012-11-27T11:24:05Z")
Welcome Bare, Some of us have used both successfully as some of us do posses both these personalities or can give out either vibe depending on our mood > [@Whats the difference between "Instant Sexiness" and "Instant Sexiness B"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-difference-between-instant-sexiness-and-instant-sexiness-b/39530): > > Whats the difference between “Instant Sexiness” and “Instant Sexiness B”??? for women advice would be appreciated, Thank you! slight_smile In terms of the kind you attract , alpha males tend to be attracted more to the more reserved type but you have to be careful because some men seem to have it all together and give of that Alpha vibe and end up being too controlling or abusive. Pheromones can assist you with attraction and yourself but you need to find a way to detect a certain type of man and how to read between the lines when they are talking Let it be known also at the beginning of the relationship and clear what you want and what you won’t stand for, how you start the relationship is how its gonna continue so set clear boundaries. The socials are also a great way to attract ppl and get conversation going. Good luck! **Your gc was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![Mare\_Bear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Mare\_Bear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mare_Bear)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2012, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-smart-east-coast-girl/57331/6 "2012-11-27T16:29:15Z")
Good points, Mickaelia; thanks. What are socials?