# Hi from the Second City **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 20, 2011, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911 "2011-08-20T18:11:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Klaymen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed655f/32.png) [@Klaymen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Klaymen)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2011, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/1 "2011-08-20T18:11:38Z")
Hello there. First of all, I’m a male in his mid-50s from the Chicagoland area. I have a significantly younger girlfriend (always legal, mind you) who says that I “don’t smell right anymore.” She claims that I am familiar and comfortable, but that’s not exactly enough to satisfy either of us! Both of us want her to feel more attracted to me. Fortunately, she’s a biology nerd and knows about pheros. She claims that the lack of a functional VNO makes it “human olfactory communication” but that doesn’t have the same ring to it, does it? We have no phero experience even with her bio knowledge. So she googled a bit to find a legitimate phero seller and here we are. Currently, we’re looking for phero mixes to add that certain spark back to things. Looking over the site, she recommended we start with TUTH or maybe AMMO for me. Perhaps some of the pheros recommended for females could generally raise her libido as well, but we’d like some suggestions about that too. I am also willing to experiment in other areas once we accomplish the goal of rekindling attraction between us. I’m a shy person and would like to be recognized for my achievements at work. As it is, I am the nice guy who blends into the background - I would like to be respected without being seen as overbearing. I’m looking forward to seeing what the community can suggest, and finding out what combos work for a guy my age who has a GF in her late 20s. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2011, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/2 "2011-08-20T18:14:27Z")
**Hi and welcome Klaymen** I like your attitude .. haha i always have significant younger girlfriends as well .. look my girl is 19 and I´m 38 … haha Hmm … from your description it looks like you´ve changed something in your diet ..or you´re running through some hormonal changes Your girlfriend is a cool girl… i like women who are interested in Pheromones … there have been endless discussions if the VNO exists .. or .. if it works .. or whatever for me it doest matter how the mones are processed throught the olfactory system … for me it´s important that they cause action o.k. your girlfriend .. did a google search .. hehe … and she has found a great place indeed . Hmm i´m not a specialist in what can raise the libido in your women … when applying female mones… but i can tell you that the pick your girl made was a great one . TUTH will get the things burning ..and Ammo will make her be more attracted to you .. should be enough .. what i think you could try too is Instant Shine .. it´s a staple in everyone´s arsenal .. it lifts up mood ..makes you feel good …and the ones exposed to when you put it on as well .. you´re going to like Instant Shine it helps your with your Shyness too … for the workplace i think you could give A314 a shot … \*\* > **[A314 Classic Edition – Trust & Respect Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/)** > > If you've ever been frustrated at being disrespected, or feeling powerless in your life, A314 may end up being one of the best gifts you ever give yourself. A314 gets you an instant status upgrade. Jump the pecking order - and make sure you have... it´s definately the best Phero Product on the market \*\*your opinion will be weighted waaayyy more when you put it on … others will not even try to bother you … you´re going to be perceived as a stable very healthy male . it´s the Alpha stuff …and it gives you a stron confidence boost when you combine it with some conversational enhancers … or with P74 ( that´s some experimental stuff .. but i think you´re old enough to know what you do . ) you´re going to get something that will exactly fit your needs … ( respect .. friendly vibe without beeing to overbearing .. high Value .. but likeable ) talking about conversational enhancers.. with that i mean [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) … it will make you appear younger … and it´s the icebreaker product in AD´s line .. with IO on .. your not going to have to invest a lot into conversations ..they will flow easily alright let´s continue .. you´ve surely read about the welcome GC **[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)** do not miss it … in order to qualify ..and for more detailed advice .. let us know more about your personality type .. and where are your strengths and weaknessess i mean your social skillz … well… let us know what you think ..and then we´re going to proceed **Pago** ---
**Author:** ![XPX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/a587f6/32.png) [@XPX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XPX)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2011, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/3 "2011-08-20T18:36:38Z")
Welcome Klaymen Tell us a bit more about you to get the 25$ [GC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ! First try the products in the Instant Line! These products are well rounded and cause reliable effects! Just get a feeling for them and later you can try some experimones or putatives because I can tell you there are some goldies inside but they are much more difficult to use to get the desirable effects! About the Instants I can tell you About the products in the instant line I can tell you [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) which gives you the signature of an realy alpha and warm that up with some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Openess Instant Openess makes you approachable and also gives you a real talkative feeling as a self effect [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for me is much like [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) but the talk will go much deeper and in a more emotional than funny way For breaking the Ice go with the socials described above and also try some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) in the mix with them [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) which I like this very much and it got me great results gives you a warmth, charismatic alphaness Instant Shine realy makes good feelings to you and all others around (and you know you can’t have enough good feelings) And to get some things done in a hotter way try some [TUTH](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) for the sexual edge! I’m sure you will find the perfect product inside or maybe it’s a mix with some of them! TUTH and AMMO are great products for sexual things but the spectrum of mone effects can cause many behaviours! Just try it! With the GC it will be no problem Greetz ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2011, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/4 "2011-08-20T18:44:44Z")
Hi there, Nice to meet you.Haha,a younger girlfriend is always good as long as its legal of course(^_^)Mines only a 6 year difference though(\>_\<)Interesting that your smell or vibe has changed.Could be diet like pagodeiro said or a change in lifestyle.Thats cool that you and your girlfriend both want to spice up the relationship,thats a good attitude to have(^_^)You definitely found a good place to get [pheromones](https://a314.com/).Youll be able to test them out with the 25$ gift certificate like pagodeiro said and will be able to see the effects for yourself as you wont know till you try(^_^) Pagodeiro and XPX already given you really good advice on products so i wont go into that.TUTH will probably work for spicing it up though.Havent really tried it yet because a bit worried about my age but ordered a to-go for testing d(\>_\<)A314 or instant gentleman will probably help you out at work.All the best and hope things go well for you.Im sure you will have fun here(^_^)Definitely should give some of the stickies a look when your free also as they give a lot of good information(^\_^) ---
**Author:** ![Klaymen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed655f/32.png) [@Klaymen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Klaymen)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2011, 7:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/5 "2011-08-20T19:18:48Z")
OK, will go more into the personality and my strengths and weaknesses. I’d like to think of myself as an intelligent guy. My career is in academia, and I work with many students. These types of “by-the-book” social situations are fairly comfortable for me, and pose no trouble. However, for more spontaneous social interactions I can be flustered - especially with other males. I have many more female friends than male friends. Females tend to come to me as a sympathetic ear, and see me as being “safe.” I don’t intend to change that dynamic with my female co-workers, but would like those higher-up to notice me a bit more. Would a bit of “[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)” help me to do this without losing my role as the confidante of the women at work? I’m not the type of person who goes clubbing or to bars, since I don’t drink or smoke. The environments I’m likely to be in when I’m not at work are typically in my own home, shopping, at the movies, or in a restaurant. I’m not looking to attract females except when I’m with the GF. When not with her, I’d like to enhance the type of confidence and ease of interaction I have when I perform as an actor. When I perform, I’m able to confidently project my personality, gain respect, and make other people feel good about themselves and what they are doing. At home, the GF and I are excellent friends and work well together to keep the place running smoothly. Everything’s great except for her reduced level of attraction to me, which we both attribute to the fact that I seem to get older and she stays the same age! She claims it’s not appearance that has altered, and it is almost exclusively scent. For that, I need pheros to enhance raw attraction while leaving the other aspects of our relationship relatively unaffected. Tl;dr: Strengths: Females and students trust me; am regarded as “nice”; can project confidence and personality in very specific situations Weaknesses: Am relatively ignored in male-male interactions, and by those higher in work hierarchy; having trouble producing raw attraction in other females, esp. my GF; lack confidence in unexpected/unscripted social situations Since I’m new to this place and don’t know much about how things work, let me know what I need to elaborate on (if I need to). ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2011, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-second-city/51911/6 "2011-08-23T22:50:25Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Klaymen! Sounds to me that you are very social and that you don’t really need more social products although you can’t underestimate them when it comes to sexual attraction. I would use more none products like Ammunition, tuth and A314 to give you more of an edge and get your g/f wild for you again. Let us know how it all worked out for you. **Your gc was issued! 😉**