# Hi From the UK **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 19, 2009, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222 "2009-03-19T12:54:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Majestic17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/fbc32d/32.png) [@Majestic17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Majestic17)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/1 "2009-03-19T12:54:14Z")
Hi there, I live in the UK, am interested not from the point of view of being a player more for the longterm relationship thing… I am 44 recently met someone who finds me attractive but she says right now something is missing sexually… thus I am here.. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/2 "2009-03-19T12:56:43Z")
hi there , welcome to the forum. Please tell us more about your personality. are you shy or outgoing? please explain more about your target. then we can recommend the right pherp for you. cheers ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 1:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/3 "2009-03-19T13:07:39Z")
Welcome. We do need to know a bit about you, and also about the female of interest. What are your personalities and interests like? How does each of you relate to others? If we know, we may be able to give suggestions with a higher probability of success. ---
**Author:** ![Majestic17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/fbc32d/32.png) [@Majestic17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Majestic17)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/4 "2009-03-19T13:22:54Z")
I have no issues with confidence etc, I actually sing in a band and have a successful business… the lady I am with is a medical proffesional.. very inteligent…finds me attractive looks wise ] and says I am the nicest guy she has ever been out with.. says she is not sexually interested right now and has some issues… wants to meet up again in 2 weeks… even says she has talked to a counciler… her dad died in October and work is tough right now… could be anything so I thought I would look into this… I have actually just ordered “turn up the heat”.. I thought well it’s either me or I was too “decent”… have not dated for 5 years as my young daughter lives with me… times were tough but now I am getting out there… ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 1:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/5 "2009-03-19T13:44:40Z")
You’ve ordered one of the more challenging products to use. Please read over the add copy for tuth and use accordingly. It can stimulate sexual interest. It can also backfire on you if you use too much or inappropriately. Most other products are more forgiving. You may also want to consider IH and io for building rapport. If she has “issues” building confidence and closeness may be key. You may also want to consider a rone product. These tend to be better than anone for building long-term relationships. IG or a314 may be worth experimenting with. If she has high status (like a MD) she can probably handle the high status signature of a314. If she has lower status you may want to try IG instead. Both products are good and if you have the funds you may want to try them both. ---
**Author:** ![Majestic17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/fbc32d/32.png) [@Majestic17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Majestic17)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/6 "2009-03-19T13:50:50Z")
Thanks “Gone with the wind”.. I am very self disciplined so will use it sparingly when I test it… will probably also buy the Androstenone at some stage.. Many thanks ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 2:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/7 "2009-03-19T14:30:46Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. GWTW is right - TUTH can be a very double-edged sword. It is not the kind of thing you normally wear alone when going to dinner. I would really recommend wearing it with one or more of the social products - IShine, IO or IH - in order to buffer it a little. There is a thread in my signature block for married guys. Now I know you are nowhere near that but it can give you some ideas … Let us know how things are going. ---
**Author:** ![megawookie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/megawookie/32/2404_2.png) [@megawookie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/megawookie)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 2:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/8 "2009-03-19T14:41:12Z")
is “turn up the heat” really as potent as the feedback suggests? ---
**Author:** ![Majestic17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/fbc32d/32.png) [@Majestic17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Majestic17)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 2:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/9 "2009-03-19T14:49:23Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum. > > GWTW is right - TUTH can be a very double-edged sword. It is not the kind of thing you normally wear alone when going to dinner. I would really recommend wearing it with one or more of the social products - IShine, IO or IH - in order to buffer it a little. > > There is a thread in my signature block for married guys. Now I know you are nowhere near that but it can give you some ideas … > > Let us know how things are going. Thanks Bosshank I will check out your signature… ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/10 "2009-03-19T15:31:26Z")
I agree with the guys, go for IH. It can make her closer to you. It will enhance the relationship. AMMO will also be good to add some sexual attraction. AMMO is well buffered cmpare to TUTH. TUTH will be suitable after she has developed closeness with you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 9:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/27222/11 "2009-03-20T09:55:32Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 TUTH is not something I would choose if your looking for a long term relationship and the women is having sexual issues due to stress which you have indicated. It would just make her feel more nervousness. It comes on strong and says one thing. SEX NOW. You should use something like AMMO for a mild arousal and IH for a deeper connection and comfort. Save TUTH for when you are past these issues and she has developed more comfort. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Hope to see you in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide