# Hi from the UK **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 11, 2011, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262 "2011-05-11T02:50:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![profX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/35a633/32.png) [@profX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/profX)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/1 "2011-05-11T02:50:59Z")
Hi I’m ProfX, 33 and live in the UK. I first heard about the mones 10 yrs or so ago though have never dabbled so far. I’m not really sure how I came across this forum, maybe searching for something about creating a sexy vibe, but am sure glad that I did. In my mid to late twenties I had some quite good success with women. I went traveling solo for 6 months and came back feeling like “da man”. It was like I had this sexy aura that projected out in front of me that women could feel, I would walk into a room and would notice some of the women perk up, start glancing across at me. At that time I was very confident, cocky even, and the women that I chatted to would sometimes act nervous and unsure around me whilst giving me those big puppy dog, fuck me eyes. Women would often approach me and I would be cool and friendly with them whilst having a sexy vibe, I found that by holding back, not trying to chat them up or flirt and acting a little disinterested it would spike their attraction for me. I could make out with some girls within a few minutes of meeting them, as the attraction had been built before we’d even spoken and had no problem taking them home. Happy days. Then I changed jobs and over the next year or two everything went downhill, I had a boss from hell whose speciality was physical intimidation and put downs. My self esteem took a battering over the next few years and I ended up deloping a panic disorder with depression which lasted for longer than I care to remember. Now days it’s different, I have some mild depression and some slight social anxiety but the panic has gone. I still have women checking me out though not approaching and I feel I’ve replaced the cool sexy vibe with a needy unconfident vibe, which I’d like to change. I go to salsa once or twice a week for classes and social dancing. It’s a pretty close dance so plenty of chance to test out different combos with lots of women. . People don’t generally pickup on these nights though I have seen it happen and have had women be quite sexual whilst dancing with me in the class (rubbing their breasts against me, touching my chest, grinding hips into me), I often catch them glancing at my crotch. Having said that I get mixed responses, I often feel there is a wall between us and conversations are generally short and superficial. Most girls dissapear quickly after a dance and don’t stick around to chat so I don’t get a chance to takes things further. As for the results I’m looking for as I mentioned I have some mild depression and when I get this I become sensitive to percieved rejection so I’d be interested in anything that can help me feel calm, confident, relaxed and secure in myself. I think I do still have somewhat of a sexy vibe but that my confidence let’s me down. I also find myself expecting people to be negative towards me which causes me to feel inhibited and at times needy. Boy would I like to get rid of that. I’d also like to be able to recreate my previous years success and be seen as the cool sexy sexual guy that women can approach if they want to hook up. Some deeper connections/conversations with people would also be welcome as I’d like to widen my social circle and meet some good people to hang out with. I love the way people here have experimented and reported back their results. I’ve just spent the last few hours reading 1Alphas journal along with the recommended threads for beginers. I’m open to suggestions as to what to get for my first order and look forward to sharing my results. ProfX ---
**Author:** ![marko76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marko76/32/1030_2.png) [@marko76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marko76)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/2 "2011-05-11T03:04:02Z")
Glad to have you with us! I think you should look into the Instant lines first, IMHO I would suggest [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IH, and IO, the IS will help with your confidence and also the way people perceive you and IO will help in the flow of the conversation and IH get people telling how they feel… and maybe a little splash of TUTH or Ammo for the sex appeal. I truly hope some of this helps! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/3 "2011-05-11T05:04:52Z")
Hi profx and a warm welcome to you!! Salsa dancer, huh… Several dancers, salsa dancers as well, on the forum, Coolkat and JosieW come to mind… Can get steamy, I could imagine! 😉 For what you want to use them, I’d say some IG or AMMO for a confident boost. AMMO is a more sexy vibe/signal that you can incline to what you want. IG is more, the man, guy who can take charge, and others will be inclined to follow. This with some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for the happy in a bottle vibe with others feeling comfortable around you. Though, in all cases, mones will only AMPLIFY… You are the originator of the Signal to amplify… otherwise, they won’t do all the work for you, bud! 🙂 Oh, and an awww shucks… _blushing_ you’ve been reading my journal 😃 I do hope it helps out because as to trying out mones… I’ve been there… started out bumpy and here I am… ready to help out! 🙂 Because of this… I’ll share with you a couple of my favorite threads, besides the ones in my sig of course… drum roll PLEASE… > [@Your Skin is a Pheromone Mixing Canvas](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-skin-is-a-pheromone-mixing-canvas/34388): > > July 24th, 2009, 02:01 PM In the late 90s, with Erox advertising heavily on the radio, I first tried these products. I had always written off pheromones as much as I would astrology (bad astrology from carnies, anyway), but I figured if they were spending so much to advertise such a product, it might be worth a shot. And hey, it’s even available in normal department stores. I don’t have to call a 900# or go to a strange, smelly sex shop or anything fishy. So I tried the product. Did smashingly… > [@Your other "life hacks"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-other-life-hacks/48970): > > Other than [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), what life hacks do you employ? Please do share your solutions. To quote Wikipedia… "…any sort of trick, shortcut, skill, or novelty method to increase productivity and efficiency, in all walks of life." Personally, I’d like an effective procrastination-stopper. ADD meds aren’t going to be an option. frowning Wish you well and I’ll be keepin’ an eye on ya bud… you seem like the shady type… 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Taggle](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/taggle/32/1793_2.png) [@Taggle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Taggle)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/4 "2011-05-11T06:31:18Z")
Your boss sounds like my mother 🙄 While going through terapy i learned that I had been living my whole life with anxiety problems, and now the closer I get to being completely cured, the better I feel in all aspects of my life. Like, half a year ago I couldn’t sleep on my own without the lights turned on, I had a ton of fobias and needed to wash my hands constantly. Now all of that is gone 😮 My whole life with these problems, and they could have been gone this fast if I just knew what caused them sooner 😠 This is just a few of the effects terapy has had on me, my social life is also much better, as I no longer feel pain in my stumack everytime I’m around others… I seriously hope you get some proffesional help, it’s so worth it! As to the products around here I think what the others said is very true, so I have nothing to add 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 7:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/5 "2011-05-11T07:05:46Z")
> [@profX](#): > > Hi I’m ProfX, 33 and live in the UK. I first heard about the mones 10 yrs or so ago though have never dabbled so far. I’m not really sure how I came across this forum, maybe searching for something about creating a sexy vibe, but am sure glad that I did. > > In my mid to late twenties I had some quite good success with women. I went traveling solo for 6 months and came back feeling like “da man”. It was like I had this sexy aura that projected out in front of me that women could feel, I would walk into a room and would notice some of the women perk up, start glancing across at me. At that time I was very confident, cocky even, and the women that I chatted to would sometimes act nervous and unsure around me whilst giving me those big puppy dog, fuck me eyes. Women would often approach me and I would be cool and friendly with them whilst having a sexy vibe, I found that by holding back, not trying to chat them up or flirt and acting a little disinterested it would spike their attraction for me. I could make out with some girls within a few minutes of meeting them, as the attraction had been built before we’d even spoken and had no problem taking them home. Happy days. > > Then I changed jobs and over the next year or two everything went downhill, I had a boss from hell whose speciality was physical intimidation and put downs. My self esteem took a battering over the next few years and I ended up deloping a panic disorder with depression which lasted for longer than I care to remember. > > Now days it’s different, I have some mild depression and some slight social anxiety but the panic has gone. I still have women checking me out though not approaching and I feel I’ve replaced the cool sexy vibe with a needy unconfident vibe, which I’d like to change. > > I go to salsa once or twice a week for classes and social dancing. It’s a pretty close dance so plenty of chance to test out different combos with lots of women. . People don’t generally pickup on these nights though I have seen it happen and have had women be quite sexual whilst dancing with me in the class (rubbing their breasts against me, touching my chest, grinding hips into me), I often catch them glancing at my crotch. Having said that I get mixed responses, I often feel there is a wall between us and conversations are generally short and superficial. Most girls dissapear quickly after a dance and don’t stick around to chat so I don’t get a chance to takes things further. > > As for the results I’m looking for as I mentioned I have some mild depression and when I get this I become sensitive to percieved rejection so I’d be interested in anything that can help me feel calm, confident, relaxed and secure in myself. I think I do still have somewhat of a sexy vibe but that my confidence let’s me down. I also find myself expecting people to be negative towards me which causes me to feel inhibited and at times needy. Boy would I like to get rid of that. I’d also like to be able to recreate my previous years success and be seen as the cool sexy sexual guy that women can approach if they want to hook up. Some deeper connections/conversations with people would also be welcome as I’d like to widen my social circle and meet some good people to hang out with. > > I love the way people here have experimented and reported back their results. I’ve just spent the last few hours reading 1Alphas journal along with the recommended threads for beginers. I’m open to suggestions as to what to get for my first order and look forward to sharing my results. > > ProfX Yours sounds like the male version of mine . . . except for the success with the opposite sex. (Long and boring) BUT!! I get panic attacks, social anxiety and whatnot. For me, **PERSONALLY** , IO has been heaven sent. I’m not gonna take up a lot of space with my ravings - Alpha, you didn’t wax lyrical?! Sup, with that?? - what I will say is that you’re more than welcome to read my journal - which describe my discovery of the IO effect ON ME, personally. Unfortunately no guarantee it’s gonna work the same on you. ---
**Author:** ![profX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/35a633/32.png) [@profX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/profX)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/6 "2011-05-11T18:21:42Z")
Thanks everyone for your replies. I was originally going to go for some togo sprays of tuth, ammo, shine and jerk but after to listening to you all and reading Astreas results I decided to go for ammo, IS, IO, IH and IG. Am interested to see what effects IO and IH has on social anxiety. As I’m over 30 do you think it would be worth going for 2X [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) or just the straight regular? One thing I notcied on the shopping cart was there was no option for international shipping, anyone know how to select this? Profx ---
**Author:** ![Taggle](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/taggle/32/1793_2.png) [@Taggle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Taggle)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2011, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/7 "2011-05-11T18:23:56Z")
> [@profX](#): > > Thanks everyone for your replies. I was originally going to go for some togo sprays of tuth, ammo, shine and jerk but after to listening to you all and reading Astreas results I decided to go for ammo, IS, IO, IH and IG. Am interested to see what effects IO and IH has on social anxiety. > > As I’m over 30 do you think it would be worth going for 2X Ammo or just the straight regular? > > One thing I notcied on the shopping cart was there was no option for international shipping, anyone know how to select this? > > Profx Hmm I don’t remember having problems chosing the international shipping, have you tried moving on in your order? Perhaps it’s in a later step, I wish I remembered:o ---
**Author:** ![profX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/35a633/32.png) [@profX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/profX)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 1:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/8 "2011-05-12T13:25:57Z")
> [@Taggle](#): > > Hmm I don’t remember having problems chosing the international shipping, have you tried moving on in your order? Perhaps it’s in a later step, I wish I remembered:o Thanks Taggle you were right. Option for international was automatic after entering in my address. Just got to wait for my order to arrive now! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 5:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/9 "2011-05-12T17:35:54Z")
Excellent! Start up a journal in the men’s section and so we can see what effects the mones have had on you and those around you… Did you get 1x AMMO to start with… to find your sweet spot? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2011, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/10 "2011-05-12T21:39:21Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Profx! I am sorry that you had to go through that. Of course, it is not what you do but how you do it and most persons don’t realize they can lead and get their point across without being complete dicks. Sticks and stones will break my bones is total bullshit because constant put downs and manipulation by parents, bosses, friends, spouces can cause much damage and congratulations for working your way to bettering yourself. The products you decided to purchase are perfect. We are glad to have you here and hope we can all help to get your confidence to where it once was. **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![profX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/35a633/32.png) [@profX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/profX)\ **Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/11 "2011-05-13T23:01:07Z")
> [@](#): > > Excellent! Start up a journal in the men’s section and so we can see what effects the [mones](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/) have had on you and those around you… > > Did you get 1x [AMMO](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) to start with… to find your sweet spot? went for the 1X ammo and 2x on the IH. Journals a coming, should have my mones ready for salsa on monday. Let you know how it goes. > [@](#): > > I am sorry that you had to go through that. Of course, it is not what you do but how you do it and most persons don’t realize they can lead and get their point across without being complete dicks. > > Sticks and stones will break my bones is total bullshit because constant put downs and manipulation by parents, bosses, friends, spouces can cause much damage and congratulations for working your way to bettering yourself. > > The products you decided to purchase are perfect. We are glad to have you here and hope we can all help to get your confidence to where it once was. Thanks for that Mickaelia. It’s funny I already feel more confident just by describing the success I had in the past. Just waiting on DHL now for the adventure to begin! ---
**Author:** ![lij1234](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/9fc29f/32.png) [@lij1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lij1234)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2011, 12:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-from-the-uk/50262/12 "2011-06-07T12:40:36Z")
> [@profX](#): > > Hi I’m ProfX, 33 and live in the UK. I first heard about the mones 10 yrs or so ago though have never dabbled so far. I’m not really sure how I came across this forum, maybe searching for something about creating a sexy vibe, but am sure glad that I did. > > In my mid to late twenties I had some quite good success with women. I went traveling solo for 6 months and came back feeling like “da man”. It was like I had this sexy aura that projected out in front of me that women could feel, I would walk into a room and would notice some of the women perk up, start glancing across at me. At that time I was very confident, cocky even, and the women that I chatted to would sometimes act nervous and unsure around me whilst giving me those big puppy dog, fuck me eyes. Women would often approach me and I would be cool and friendly with them whilst having a sexy vibe, I found that by holding back, not trying to chat them up or flirt and acting a little disinterested it would spike their attraction for me. I could make out with some girls within a few minutes of meeting them, as the attraction had been built before we’d even spoken and had no problem taking them home. Happy days. > > Then I changed jobs and over the next year or two everything went downhill, I had a boss from hell whose speciality was physical intimidation and put downs. My self esteem took a battering over the next few years and I ended up deloping a panic disorder with depression which lasted for longer than I care to remember. > > Now days it’s different, I have some mild depression and some slight social anxiety but the panic has gone. I still have women checking me out though not approaching and I feel I’ve replaced the cool sexy vibe with a needy unconfident vibe, which I’d like to change. > > I go to salsa once or twice a week for classes and social dancing. It’s a pretty close dance so plenty of chance to test out different combos with lots of women. . People don’t generally pickup on these nights though I have seen it happen and have had women be quite sexual whilst dancing with me in the class (rubbing their breasts against me, touching my chest, grinding hips into me), I often catch them glancing at my crotch. Having said that I get mixed responses, I often feel there is a wall between us and conversations are generally short and superficial. Most girls dissapear quickly after a dance and don’t stick around to chat so I don’t get a chance to takes things further. > > As for the results I’m looking for as I mentioned I have some mild depression and when I get this I become sensitive to percieved rejection so I’d be interested in anything that can help me feel calm, confident, relaxed and secure in myself. I think I do still have somewhat of a sexy vibe but that my confidence let’s me down. I also find myself expecting people to be negative towards me which causes me to feel inhibited and at times needy. Boy would I like to get rid of that. I’d also like to be able to recreate my previous years success and be seen as the cool sexy sexual guy that women can approach if they want to hook up. Some deeper connections/conversations with people would also be welcome as I’d like to widen my social circle and meet some good people to hang out with. > > I love the way people here have experimented and reported back their results. I’ve just spent the last few hours reading 1Alphas journal along with the recommended threads for beginers. I’m open to suggestions as to what to get for my first order and look forward to sharing my results. > > ProfX If you are looking for a chat, at chatbox uk, you will find 1000s like you looking for a date. You can chat in UK with others on the phone, online or via SMS. Check it out: [Phone Chat | Dating | TV | Chatbox UK](http://www.chatboxuk.com/)