# Hi! I am new to the forum... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 1, 2009, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752 "2009-11-01T16:41:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pherlov](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@pherlov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherlov)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/1 "2009-11-01T16:41:34Z")
Hi, I’m a 24 year old Indian male who is in school learning about biology. I live in the Windy City, and I had first heard about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) on television. They were talking about how people can sometimes find their mate because the pheromones they give off are “compatible”. For example, women are attracted to a pheromone signature that is somewhat familiar but still different enough to add some evolutionary diversity. The familiarity (ie, from relatives/himself/herself) indicates good genes on some level while the diversity makes sure they don’t mate with close relatives. I thought it was a pretty cool idea but I never really gave it much thought until I realized how some people just seemed to give off a certain “something”. You know you respect them or fear them for a reason you just can’t put your finger on. I am leaning towards the idea it may be pheromones since physically/mentally these people are not the type I would normally fear/respect. I am leary of buying a high -none product because I know it affects different races in different ways. Black men are rather confrontational towards me for little reason (once i looked at a guy and he thought i wanted to fight, another was a bum who I politely refused to give change and he was very aggressive only towards me even though others were much ruder in saying no, and another time a black guy started blaming me for something i didn’t do and seemed like he wanted to fight). Luckily I was able to diffuse the situation in each of the cases without losing money or getting the crap kicked out of me. More than any other racial group I seem to set off something in black guys. I don’t know if this is due to how I look or maybe I have a high or low -none level? Seeing as how I am actually a small guy (only 5’6") I would really like to avoid situations like that. In order to get the gift certificate they also want to know what I hope to get from pheromones. Well, I am leaning towards two goals here: 1. An increase in respect from coworkers to help further my career. Getting interviewers to respect me more would help me in getting a better job later. 2. Something to get women to help open up around me/be more attracted to me. I have been described as looking “aloof” or “cold” by people who don’t even know me or have even talked to me. I have also been described as looking “mean” by people who have never known/talked to me either. People who know me say the opposite and say I am pretty nice and talkative but that they did have a negative first impression upon seeing me. There is nothing I can do about my face (I have been described as looking a little like a beardless, turbanless ayatollah khomeini (sp?) If you google image the name you’ll get the idea) Since there is nothing I can do about my face I was looking for another solution. So, I would like people (especially women) to have a positive first impression about me rather than a negative one and I think pheromones might help. I am leaning towards buying A314 for number 1. I don’t know whether or not it will work for number 2. I want to avoid any pheromone that would get my ass kicked too. Any suggestions will be very appreciated. Sorry for the long post. ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/2 "2009-11-01T16:59:41Z")
Hello Pherlov! Nice to hear from you here! Pheromones are trully amazing. They can do so much for you. Welcome to a new era in your life! As far as what you would look at for career its A314. I LOVE the stuff. It has boosted my career to a level I never thought possible! It brings respect from others around you. Read on the reports about A314. They can be nuts! It is awesome for interviews as well! I would recommend using IO with A314 as it does what your 2nd desire requests. It influences others to be more open with you, even if you just met them. This combo is one of my favorites. IH is also another good choice for getting women to open up. It creates a sense of closeness so they open up even more. Both IO and IH will soften the fear from others thing you have going on! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/3 "2009-11-01T17:10:10Z")
Welcome. Good idea on the a314. Another rone product that is a little softer and some ladies might like better is ig. I suggest staying away from ih and io in situations where you might be subject to agression. They make you seem very “safe” which is not always a good thing around predators. ---
**Author:** ![pherlov](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@pherlov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherlov)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/4 "2009-11-01T17:43:25Z")
Thanks for the help! ---
**Author:** ![pherlov](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@pherlov](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherlov)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/5 "2009-11-01T18:30:19Z")
Yeah, the whole black guy thing is weird but it has happened often enough to make me consider it is not just random chance. I should clarify that it isn’t every black guy just some. The fear of pissing people off is much more pronounced than it used to be. I started working as a pharmacy technician during school and I am subject to a lot of anger from customers blaming me and other techs for things that are completely out of our control (insurance issues, docs not authorizing meds, cost of meds, system screwups that slow down the whole filling process). You’d be surprised at the verbal abuse that customers throw at you. Couple that with the fact that some people are out of their antipsychotics and other meds to help calm them down (like benzos) and you get a situation where you don’t want to piss people off. Are there any pheromones which would make people act nicer towards you besides IO and IH? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 6:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new-to-the-forum/33752/6 "2009-11-01T18:55:07Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding moons. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.