# HI I am new! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 20, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952 "2008-07-20T20:53:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![seychele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@seychele](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seychele)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/1 "2008-07-20T20:53:51Z")
Hi All, I am Cheley (Seychele) and I am so glad I found you all. I am a talented artist, photographer mother of three beautiful kids and I am so lost in my own life that I am at a stale mate. I cannot get a thing done, no motivation at all. So depressed. I just cant get myself going and I would love some of your advice on what to start with here. I am open to any and all communications, feel free to PM me too!! Thank you!! πŸ™‚ cheley ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/2 "2008-07-20T20:58:58Z")
Hey Cheley! Welcome to the forum! It’s nice to have more female members!! πŸ˜ƒ Instant shine is great for cheering you up when you feel down, it also ulifts others moods around you. There is instant female magic too, which makes women feel content, and relaxed, so you may want to try that as well. Last but not least, [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is a great confidence booster. I recommend you try instant sexiness A, since it comes in a to-go bottle. It makes you feel strong, confident and sexy. Hope it helps darling ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/3 "2008-07-20T21:04:03Z")
Hello Cheley Glad to have you in Pherotalk, so you have some interest in pheros here πŸ™‚ Ok i see your situation there & [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is your answer there as it uplift the wearer mood & give high confidence effects πŸ™‚ And btw if you need something to spice up with your husband then Turn Up The Heat & instant Honesty will be suited as it is for intimate relationships πŸ™‚ Instant Sexiness too is recommended too as it give more attraction to the wearer & one of the experienced user name **Kitten** highly recommend it πŸ™‚ I leave it to you to decide on my recommendation there. See you πŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/4 "2008-07-20T21:05:27Z")
Hello Cheley, welcome! I agree that ishine would definitly help you for some motivation and make you happier. But is there any reasons that you know that might have made you a little depressed? Since your job looks pretty interesting too and fun πŸ™‚ Anything else you want help in? Like being more attractive if that is in your mind? So just let us know and we will be glad to help you more πŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![seychele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@seychele](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seychele)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/5 "2008-07-20T21:05:34Z")
Thank you so much Msselva for the welcome and the reccomendations!! I am so ready and excited to try these. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/6 "2008-07-20T21:11:12Z")
Welcome, Cheley! This forum is a very friendly place and you will find much support and understanding here. Keep your chin up and stay focused on the positive. Better days are ahead. πŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/7 "2008-07-20T21:13:35Z")
> [@seychele](#): > > Thank you so much Msselva for the welcome and the reccomendations!! > I am so ready and excited to try these. No prob sweetie. I’m excited for you baby, I also suggest instant openness, it’s great to improve your social life imo. When I wear this, people just keep talking to me like there’s no tommorrow, combine it with instant honesty, and you’re goin’ta have some fun πŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![seychele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@seychele](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seychele)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/8 "2008-07-20T21:19:31Z")
well, right now i am unemployed and with that I am running out of my 401k that I had to cash out to support me and my kids. My husband and I have hit a rough road and we are working it out. I really need to be in freakout mode but I am not. My whole psyche has just thrown in the towel. This is just so not like me. And in the past I have never had problems finding a job or contract and now I just cant get anything to work out. I am having such a difficult time with everything. … I practice graditude every day. I think of so much I can do, and then I freeze and cant do it. It is almost like I am afraid of my own life or something. at this point, I just want to go water flowers at HomeDepot… I really like flowers and I am really good at taking care of them too. I am a nurturing person, so gardening comes real easy to me. oh i need help badly ---
**Author:** ![seychele](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/41988e/32.png) [@seychele](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seychele)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/9 "2008-07-20T21:24:26Z")
thank you Robbie! yes it is really friendly here! I am going to be hanging out here for awhile πŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-i-am-new/15952/10 "2008-07-21T21:45:23Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk πŸ™‚ Well mones wont really cure clinical depression but if you just feeling down they can help. I definatly suggest Ishine for you. I also suggest IO and MX135. Ishine is uplifting, charismatic, warm. IO is fun chatty open MX135 is a fun sexy center is attention mix. The reason that I choose this one for you is because I think you need some fun and a boost of confidence. You can also get a great confidence boost from [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A If you have any questions just ask. πŸ˜ƒ **Your GC will go out shortly** πŸ˜ƒ Tisha