# Hi, I'm glad I decided to come here! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 2, 2012, 2:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-glad-i-decided-to-come-here/56595 "2012-09-02T02:20:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![phshotmaker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ab992/32.png) [@phshotmaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phshotmaker)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2012, 2:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-glad-i-decided-to-come-here/56595/1 "2012-09-02T02:20:44Z")
Hi everyone, I live in England and am heavily into experimenting with self improvement. I stumbled upon this forum yesterday afternoon… it’s 11 in the morning now and after hours and hours of reading around the forums I’m still trying to pick up my jaw off of the floor! I was just looking around google when I stumbled upon pheromonetalk… my first response was ‘pfft, yeah right!’, honestly I was pretty skeptical! However as I started reading more reviews and especially the forum, my thoughts quickly changed to ‘wait,… is there something to this?’ to ‘OH MY GOD, magic potions! This stuff is the holy grail!’ - since then, I’m still SUPER excited, but after doing a lot of reading around here in the last 12 or so hours, I’ve revised my expectations. From what I can tell, [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) help to enhance what is already there, rather than create something that doesn’t exist. I’m fine with that. As for what I’d like from this? Firstly: For a long time now I’ve been known as a super friendly guy that people always want around, I’ve been described in really nice ways such as being like the sun, as having some kind of aura that makes people happy, that is only as a result of doing a whole lot of work on myself for about a decade (currently in my mid/late 20s) and yeah, I make a lot of people laugh and it is nice. My real problems are holding a conversation for a while without running out of what to say (BIG one for me) and being truly respected. Also, being someone that women show true interest in rather than just being friend zoned all the time, despite being told that I’m actually not bad looking! Perhaps it’s mostly a core confidence thing. Just like everyone else, I have the ability to change these things about me but if mones can give me a boost that I choose, if they can help change the perceptions of others as well as my own, then I want in. No question! Secondly, this whole subject taps in to something that I’ve always been really into - anything that I can really EXPERIMENT with. I don’t know why, I’ve just always had this scientific slant to my brain that finds stuff like this really fascinating, sometimes to the point of near obsession haha. Especially in a field that nobody knows everything about! Especially in a field that can yield such incredible results! I have read about all kinds of crazily effective custom mixes here. I’ve read about some of the old superstar mixes that are the result of Androtic’s experiments. Tales of mixes like the ICM + ICM 2.0, MX 292/353! I wish I was here when they were still around, I wish I could try them out (I found out why they aren’t around at least) but I would absolutely love to be involved in helping to come up with new mixes for every occasion once I’ve found my footing. Personally I’m most excited about the experimone line, the putatives, but I realise that I need to get acquainted with the consumer line, do it scientifically, otherwise anything I do could be a waste of time and money. What amazes me about this forum is the level of interaction the users seem to have with the business. That, combined with how friendly people seem to be, makes me think that joining up is a great way to help come up with new mixes for different situations (which I would have probably been doing anyway!) The only obstacle I have is a financial one. I don’t have loads of money and that will limit just how fast I can move forward quite a bit. But you can’t have everything! 🙂 OK, I apologise for the long, rambling post, but I do have some questions: 1. I’ve been thinking a lot about sweet spots for mixes, getting the amounts just right and how it differs from person to person. It got me to thinking, if there was some kind of way to test just what pheromones give off naturally and in what amounts, wouldn’t that make things a lot easier? Something like a sweat test maybe? I’m not sure of the practicalities but is there some way of doing this? 2. Can anyone start a journal here or is there some kind of requirement before you can? I only ask because there are a lot of journals here and if I start one it may be seen as just covering the same ground. 3. Any other general advice for starting out? My first purchase will probably be The Killer Pheromone Newbie Kit since it looks like an awesome deal, but I may not be able to resist tacking a couple of things on top of that, perhaps the orginal a314 oil or maybe even a couple putatives if I’m feeling adventurous! I know there’s a need to start slow but once I have them, I have them 🙂 Ok, thats it. I’m looking forward to chatting with you guys! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2012, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-glad-i-decided-to-come-here/56595/2 "2012-09-02T21:12:23Z")
Welcome phshotmaker, to the mone forum! Good to have you on the post up and get started your mone journey. What a quality and thoughtful intro post, bud. Good going! 🙂 Unfortunately, I don’t know of any way to test out your ‘natural’ mone output. You seem to be a naturally producing 'nol machine… Everyone is comfortable around you like IShine… 🙂 Yes, you can start up a journal in the men’s section. PLEASE do as this is the way that AD gets it’s feedback to the mones and there efficacy. Trying out the commercial line will help hone your observational abilities so don’t knock it! The KPNK is a great starter back to get your feet wet. If you have a the ability to do so, call up the number at the top and talk to Steve O and he’ll HELP YOU out Tremendously in your mone journey, IMHO! For convo’s, focus on IO and IH to see how these can help in the them get going or increase the quality of responses to you. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2012, 3:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-glad-i-decided-to-come-here/56595/3 "2012-09-06T15:39:46Z")
Welcome shotmaker, Whoa, what an introduction. You either had a lot to get out or just like to ramble dude Lol , just teasing I am glad you are here and hope that we can continue to meet your needs at least [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) wise **Your gc was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![paradisegirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradisegirl/32/2153_2.png) [@paradisegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradisegirl)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2012, 8:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-glad-i-decided-to-come-here/56595/4 "2012-09-07T08:58:36Z")
Welcome to the board. I myself is new (newbie) i’ve only been here for a few weeks i did try out ad pheromones mones , trust me my first time using this stuff i see big difference when used this products. I hope i can be any help to you . As many others pheromones members help me out and answear most of questions i hope i can do the same for you and others. You are in the right place. For your situation I would start out with [Instant sexiness](https://a314.com/product/kitten/) A [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). [Instant sexiness](https://a314.com/product/kitten/) will increase attraction as well as make you feel more comfortable and confident. [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will help open people up and get them interacting with you more. Instant Shine gives a warm charismatic pull people feel drawn to. Good luck