# Hi I'm the new girl! Looking for female input! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 17, 2010, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-girl-looking-for-female-input/39359 "2010-06-17T05:14:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Gigily](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ac8455/32.png) [@Gigily](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gigily)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-girl-looking-for-female-input/39359/1 "2010-06-17T05:14:05Z")
Hi I’m Lyn! I’m in my early 20’s and I’m from Massachusetts. I am horrible at spelling and grammar so I apologize in advance. I’m a fulltime student, a part time office employee, and I throw adult toy parties 😉. I’m also looking to get a bar tending gig to bring in some more of that money honey!I live with my boyfriend of over three years, and we’re both nerds that laugh at lame jokes. Anyway a couple weeks ago I was reading one of those girly zines and saw an add about a perfume that had all the notes that were scientificly proven to trigger strong sexual responses in men and for whatever reason Pheromones click in my head. After some time on google I found that Androtics direct was the best and by looking at this forum and alot of comments have alot of satisfied customers. So throwing adult toy parties women can sometimes feel shy, embarassed, or feel inexpeirenced so I was thinking about trying [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to see if that could help me out any in breaking the ice quicker (maybe not as quick as a magarita or a cosmo but definately worth a try 😛!). Does anyone have any tips to share with me on that? Also I wanted to try one of the Instant sexiness/es but there sold out and it seems like they might be for a bit. Also reading alot of threads it seemed that TAH or TAL would have been something I would have liked to try. But all these letters and numbers are changing and confusing so some of the stickies I have been reading aren’t as helpful as i’d like them to be. I’m sarcastic and a bit of a goof so I wanted to try something that was “spicier”. Alot of products with names that sound ideal seem more directed towards men and alot of the newbies asking the same questions as me are also guys so is there anyone that could point me in the right direction? Any help, tips, or stories I would greatly Apperciate!!! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-girl-looking-for-female-input/39359/2 "2010-06-17T06:24:43Z")
Hi Lyn, welcome to the forum! Yes, unfortunately the womens products are a bit dry right now, but hopefully they’ll be in stock again soon. To help people feel more comfortable at your toy parties, try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It will relax you and those around you, everyone will be friendlier and less shy. Instant Honesty is more for creating intimacy and trust. It might help a little, but I think you’ll get better results for that particular situation with Instant Openness. Instant Shine is another that might help - it is a positive uplifting phero blend that will boost your mood and also the moods of those around you. There are a few womens products in the Experimental Test Mix section of the store. Last time I looked, there was MX300 (good for confidence and respect at work, though some have used it successfully for attraction as well), MX215 (a cheerful happy mix) and MX138 (they call it “liquid sunshine”). Use the search function to research these - I’ve found the advanced search the best, and search by title (not by post). I hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 11:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-girl-looking-for-female-input/39359/3 "2010-06-17T11:56:48Z")
Hi and welcome to the forums Lyn, I know you wanted female input and looks like sillykitty gave you all you need so i figured id just say hello and welcome you, wishing you the best of luck on your first purchase and experimenting with them for yourself. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2010, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-girl-looking-for-female-input/39359/4 "2010-06-17T21:08:21Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.