# Hi. I'm the new guy. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 24, 2007, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198 "2007-10-24T00:44:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/1 "2007-10-24T00:44:32Z")
I am 36, 5 foot 10 on a good day and reasonably good looking…or so my wife says. We live in California. As far as [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) go, the only thing I have ever used is Liquid Trust. I have read on here that many have tried this formula with little result. I like the product, but want to try other things. Basically, I am an IT tech and run my own company, and I have to deal with a lot of people. Now most people don’t care about anyone else’s feelings, but I do, and I want to be able to steer people in the right direction while I am going about my day. I frequently encounter women (no offense here) that are bossy, difficult to convince on certain business issues pertaining to the field I am in, and men who couldn’t give a rat’s patooty about who I am, my objectives and goals in my line of work. This is all just the nature of people and I interact just fine most of the time. Bottom line is that I would like to try some products that will help in my interaction with these people. I have done some research on the site and come up with certain poducts that may help. Number one is A314 to help others overlook my shorter stature and see me more as an equal or someone altogether more than even themselves. Number two, I was thinking that the iShine product higher (strength) would help people see me in a younger light. I enjoy acting young at heart, but this might get it across better. Number three, I will be getting a bottle of the iH product to smooth over my interactions with the women. I have no problem with openness and starting a conversation, so I can just move to the next step and increase their comfort and ease when dealing with me. Number four, I thought about adding the IFM product to the mix to help balance the power of the A314 and also to further help women and men alike to be more calm and help in my building a business relationship with them. (better interactive atmosphere) Another product I have considered is the Spaceland product, just to occasionally mess around with people in close contact with me. I might enjoy that. I do have a nutty side and would definitely enjoy making people sort of squirm and not know or understand why. (lol) Well, that’s it in a nutshell. I’m not looking to get laid here, just to better my chances in dealing with the crazy people out there. PS. I was wondering about trying the IFM when my wife is on her time, and a few days before she starts, she gets a little edgey…you know what I mean. Seems like that may help a little? …sorry, didn’t realize this post was so long. ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 2:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/2 "2007-10-24T02:56:26Z")
Hi Millwark, sounds like you have a pretty decent grasp of what to expect from each product. I like to mess with my Friends and other people too. I have not tried Spaceland but one of the things I like to do once in a while is purposely OD on one or more [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). It is a riot watching people react. It is fun to watch people act weird or become aggressive to each other not knowing that it is your pheromones making them feel this way. Be prepared though, sometimes people become aggressive toward you. Any way have fun with all the products and I wish you success. DrZorters ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/3 "2007-10-24T04:39:55Z")
Thanks DrZorters. Much appreciated. Anybody else have suggestions? I’m no expert, so all opinions welcome. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 6:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/4 "2007-10-24T06:08:43Z")
Hi & Welcome Millwark The products you’ve mentioned are all great choices for the effects you’re after. I’m sure you’ve read the mens stickies already, but just in case they are very helpful with product choices. And while you haven’t listed products for “getting laid”, I just wanted to mention that changing your pheromone signature will be noticed by your wife. A314 will get reactions other than respect, I’ve read that it is a very attractive signature to women. I don’t think spaceland will make for squirms, but it will surely show you exactly how well pheromones work. Instant Openness and Spaceland both contain alpha androstenol. For me this is a very friendly and chatty [social pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) best used to soften a strong signature like A314 or just for generally enjoying company and conversation. Enjoy! ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/5 "2007-10-24T06:30:16Z")
Fantastic! Thanks for the post inkling. Very informative. I do have a question. Now you can probably remember that I am married…I think I mentioned that. 😛 However, a male friend and I have been renewing our friendship after many years of non contact. Things have been going good, but I am wondering which of the products I mentioned would be safe to use when we meet in a few days for dinner and memories. I don’t want him to get to close and I don’t want to scare him away with to much 314. This friend of mine is still his sensitive ol self and he’s still kind of a hot head, but generally a pretty deep thinker. Nice to belong here. Great to meet you all. ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/6 "2007-10-24T16:41:51Z")
Hello. You know, DrZorters and inkling, thanks for the advice. I think I pretty much have a handle on this [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) thing right now. Just wanted to thank you again for the response. I have done some more reading on the site. It pretty much answeres most questions. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/7 "2007-10-24T20:27:55Z")
> [@millwark](#): > > Fantastic! Thanks for the post inkling. Very informative. I do have a question. Now you can probably remember that I am married…I think I mentioned that. 😛 > > However, a male friend and I have been renewing our friendship after many years of non contact. Things have been going good, but I am wondering which of the products I mentioned would be safe to use when we meet in a few days for dinner and memories. I don’t want him to get to close and I don’t want to scare him away with to much 314. > > This friend of mine is still his sensitive ol self and he’s still kind of a hot head, but generally a pretty deep thinker. > > Nice to belong here. Great to meet you all. I would chance a guess that if you buffer a light amount of a314 with one of the more social products mentioned it wouldn’t be an issue. I haven’t read that a314 would intimidate, but it would be a good idea to ask in the mens section if you’re unsure. Just remember to go lightly at first and get a good feel for the products and what they are doing for you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2007, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/8 "2007-10-24T21:41:53Z")
Hi Millwark Welcome to the forum 🙂 A314 does sound like the best product for you to start with. Its great for work and can be worn socially as inkling has mentioned. I am pretty certain IFM will help your wife out around her time. My friends daughter wont live with out her bottle now LOL. We look forward to your participation. Steveo will be around to fill you in on when to expect your GC soon Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/9 "2007-10-25T00:44:35Z")
> [@](#): > > Well, as per steveo’s suggestion, I am here to introduce myself. Sure, go ahead and blame it all on me! Sheesh! I go away to get a drink and I get blamed for you spilling your guts. What’s next? I bet you’ll expect me to drop by and welcome you to the forum. You’ll probably expect something gushy like me saying how awesome it is to have a user who takes time to research the products. Who listens to experienced users. Who participates by writing an excellent introduction thread about what he wants. Then the next thing you’ll want is your GC emailed to you. Well I ain’t gonna do it I tell ya. Nope! Oh wait I think I just did. Blasted! ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/10 "2007-10-25T02:43:54Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > Then the next thing you’ll want is your GC emailed to you. > > Well I ain’t gonna do it I tell ya. Nope! > > Oh wait I think I just did. Blasted! Sure you did! I must be faster than you because I don’t see it yet…🙄 Anyhow, thanks for a warm welcome y’all. ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/11 "2007-10-25T06:59:01Z")
Hi Steveo. I received the coupon, but it isn’t active. I tried to enter it but no dice. You guys have one more bottle of Spaceland left, and I want it, so please hold it for me until this coupon thing gets resolved. Big thank you. millwark ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2007, 7:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/12 "2007-10-25T07:45:56Z")
Boy, I am so excited about those products. Please disregard the last couple of posts. (or rather the ones coming up after somone approves them) I figured out the coupon procedure. ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2007, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/13 "2007-10-27T01:38:03Z")
Guess I’ll be trying out the Spaceland prod first. It’s on the way!!! Woo hoo!! ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2007, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-im-the-new-guy/6198/14 "2007-10-29T18:01:15Z")
Message for Jasmin or Steveo Hi. I just wanted to double check on my orders. I have two in the hopper, one of which os my main order including A314. Can one of you check on them for me and keep me posted on the possible shipping schedule. Thanks. millwark