# Hi...Interesting....and a Crush **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 8, 2009, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917 "2009-11-08T14:04:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 2:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917/1 "2009-11-08T14:04:12Z")
Hello all. I just found this site last night and wow…this stuff is fascinating. I am in my late 20s and I’m very very very socially underdeveloped. I don’t have friends nor have I ever dated anyone. That doesn’t bother me all that much, but I think it would be interesting to see what difference a little spray would make. I don’t expect to suddenly have a bouncy social life with pheromone use, but since no one ever approaches me or talks to me, it would just be neat to see the contrast. I also have a small crush on someone I see every blue moon. Total interaction time is about 5 minutes about every 2 weeks. Outside of hellos, we don’t have conversations. But yet, sometimes he’s really smiley with me and seems to expect me to be nice to him like we’re friends and then other times I say hi to him and he totally ignores me. I would like to know where I stand in his mind because this is so confusing. I don’t really want a lot of random male attention, though. So I was thinking that maybe for starters, I should try a little [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine, and maybe IS/b? Right? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917/2 "2009-11-08T14:09:06Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. I suggest you try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) on him. It can make him nice you more. He will feel something is different about you and he will feel you are more attractive and sexier. As for social, try IO. It can make people wan to start conversation with you. You will be more approachable. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917/3 "2009-11-08T14:09:37Z")
Welcome to the forum. You picked some great starter products. You must have done some homework. Many guys are also shy, so open-ended questions sometimes help get a conversation going. Let us know how the products work for you. A lot of people are in similar situations and will be very interested in your experiences. ---
**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917/4 "2009-11-08T14:44:33Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome to the forum. > > You picked some great starter products. You must have done some homework. Yeah I think I’m doing alright for someone who just found this place last night! 😃 Thanks guys for the welcome. P.S. Did my post qualify for the GC? And another question because I don’t know. Do [pheromones](https://a314.com/) like IS or EoW tend to attract lesbian women? I’m not the most feminine young lady around and I’d rather not experience advances from women. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-interesting-and-a-crush/33917/5 "2009-11-08T17:27:31Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Nehve! A lesbian can use these products to attract another but since you are straight it will work the opposite on you. I have read situations where someone was hit on by the same sex but when you are starting to give off that confidence and sexual attraction it is just a bonus that every one will want you. I will start you off with the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) : Instant shine, Instant openness, CTTM 2 and Instant Honesty and will probably get an Instant sexiness/B. This is because you need to get more socially active and confident in social settings. Most persons think that you need sexual attraction pheromones to be sexy and although it helps in a great way and you also feel sexy while wearing it, being confident and slick in social settings can also be sexy. The word am looking for is more smooth which is more used for men and all in all it has to do with confidence and working the room where ever you are. Experiment, test, read as much as you can in the female section. Most of all have fun and patience with these. Your GC was issued!