# Hi, its the "Shadow" here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 3, 2007, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888 "2007-04-03T20:54:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hock/32/2113_2.png) [@hock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hock)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/1 "2007-04-03T20:54:41Z")
Hi everyone, Am a male here, shy, not a good conversationist. Been lovesick with with a older lady. Was hoping to find some stuff to boost my chances at wooing her. Anyway, too all of you here, wishing you success in what you hope to achieve with phermones. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/2 "2007-04-03T21:04:07Z")
welcome hock ! i can think of a number of things you could try that might help you just feel more confident and conversational. get your gift certificate, and try some instant shine and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) . conversation to me is less about the number of words comming out of your mouth, and more about the quality of topic and fun you having in the process. do anything you can to have more fun, and she will find you irresistable 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/3 "2007-04-04T00:48:16Z")
Wise advice from Lor. Just wanted to add my welcome, hock! ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/4 "2007-04-04T02:09:12Z")
Hi! Welcome to the forum!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![muffinman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/muffinman/32/1031_2.png) [@muffinman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/muffinman)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 6:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/5 "2007-04-04T06:03:18Z")
welcome buddy 🙂 don’t be shy mate! establish some rapport with her. you can find useful information on rapport-building (via google of course 😉) learn up about body-language and how to ‘read-the-signs’ too might be of some help. but all in all, get out there, experience what the world has to offer and don’t be SHY 🙂 life’s too short to not have the things you want in life! ---
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b2d939/32.png) [@Oldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2007, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-its-the-shadow-here/2888/6 "2007-04-08T19:11:04Z")
Take her trout fishing up in the mountains. If you are in California, Take her trout fishing at Bear River Reservoir or Tiger Creek (that’s up in the Gold country area of California). Go for a hike in the mountains around a mountain lake…take your lunch…show her your fire starting skills using a flint and hair off of your chest. Take her to Monterey or San Francisco and ust goof off all day…take money. Visit all the open cabins for sale in the mountains…pick a funeral at random and enjoy the cold cuts, horse ovaries and can-of-peas served…be creative…have fun…_ **get sex off of your mind** _…and you’ll have blast! I think guys are afraid or shy about asking women out only because the first and foremost thing that attracts most guys to a woman is her physical appearance…therefore the fantasy or desire for sex is right in the center of their forehead and is easily read by most women…If you get that off of your mind and go on a date for the purpose of getting to know the person and just enjoying her sense of humor and intelligence (if they exist in this person)…minus the mental undressing and looking at her butt and boobs and legs and the inside of her thighs 😮 …etc…you’ll have a blast and so will she. 😃