Welcome to pherotalk Misher!
It sounds like to me that pheromones with some major advise from the guys is what you need.
You spoke about being put in the friend zone and later on described your personality as nice/generous that sent red lights flashing everywhere as to exactly what is going on.
These two threads should shed some light for you :
I suggest you use products like tuth to give you more of a sexual appeal and balance of that nice guy/pushover vibe that you give of.
Ammunition for a confidence boast and to give off that strong,masculine vibe.
Let the men guide you along and am sure you will be amazed at the changes that can happen.
Your gc was issued! 