# Hi, looking for a confidence boost... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 7, 2009, 5:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063 "2009-10-07T05:40:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fzit0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b5a626/32.png) [@fzit0](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fzit0)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 5:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/1 "2009-10-07T05:40:09Z")
Hey, hello everyone.. You can call me fzit0 (weird nick..yeahh i know haha ).. I’m 19 and from Puerto Rico !!! I’m currently a computer science student and found this site while surfing the internet.. I’m currently having some confidence (as im a shy person and i sometimes feel inferior to other people) and just want to try this and see if it works for me..🙂 This is really hard for me because it affects me in almost every aspect of my life, from college, family to dating.. It isn’t everytime, but sometimes i need like this confidence boost to let go fear and do things ! Sometimes it’s hard because i want to approach people, but i dont have the guts or the confidence to do it, and it just gets me frustrated…SOmetimes when i have to talk to strangers i get self concious and nervous.. pd. I was reading some info about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and i spent some time reading reviews @ Smartmones and that really motivated me to try this.. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/2 "2009-10-07T05:47:19Z")
Hey, welcome! We’d love to help you but you need to tell us more. For example what do you want pheromones to help you with and what is your personality like? That way you will also be able to qualify for a $25 GC! > [@fzit0](#): > > Hey, hello everyone.. You can call me fzit0 (weird nick..yeahh i know haha ).. I’m 19 and from Puerto Rico !!! > I’m currently a computer science student and found this site while surfing the internet.. > > I’m currently having some confidence and some relationship issues and just want to try this and see if it works for me..🙂\ ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/3 "2009-10-07T05:52:50Z")
As mikoto has said, can you tell us a bit more about yourself? As for being shy, I would recommend [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), as it makes you and those around you more talkative, and Instant shine, because it gives you a boost of confidence as well as makes those around you feel great. If you have any questions fire away, we are here to help. Best of luck, -mco ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/4 "2009-10-07T05:59:09Z")
hi there, welcome to the forum. i suggest you try shine and io. shine can boost your confident in social settings. it uplifts your mood too. io will open up people and make them want to talk to you. it makes you more approachable. good luck ---
**Author:** ![fzit0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b5a626/32.png) [@fzit0](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fzit0)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/5 "2009-10-07T06:16:18Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Hey, welcome! We’d love to help you but you need to tell us more. For example what do you want pheromones to help you with and what is your personality like? That way you will also be able to qualify for a $25 GC! thankss, i edited my post 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![fzit0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b5a626/32.png) [@fzit0](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fzit0)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/6 "2009-10-07T06:20:59Z")
> [@Mco-gnv](#): > > As mikoto has said, can you tell us a bit more about yourself? > > As for being shy, I would recommend Instant Openness, as it makes you and those around you more talkative, and Instant shine, because it gives you a boost of confidence as well as makes those around you feel great. If you have any questions fire away, we are here to help. > > Best of luck, > > -mco thanks for the help and the suggestions 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![fzit0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b5a626/32.png) [@fzit0](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fzit0)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/7 "2009-10-07T06:21:57Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > hi there, > > welcome to the forum. > > i suggest you try shine and io. > shine can boost your confident in social settings. it uplifts your mood too. > > io will open up people and make them want to talk to you. it makes you more approachable. > > good luck thankss 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/8 "2009-10-07T06:32:29Z")
It definitely sounds like you need some IO and IH. IO helps break the ice socially, helps to feed conversation, and helps to make you appear more approachable. IH on the other hand makes you appear more trustworthy, adds a sense of trust, helps to deepen connections, and makes people feel comfortable around you like they’ve known you for years. You might also benefit from some A314 or IG to boost your Alpha aura, and perhaps also add a cloud of respect around you. Other than that, I also suggest you try to help yourself fight this feeling, I know it’s hard but sometimes letting negative thoughts in your mind never let your real you shine through. ---
**Author:** ![fzit0](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b5a626/32.png) [@fzit0](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fzit0)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/9 "2009-10-07T13:04:54Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > It definitely sounds like you need some IO and IH. IO helps break the ice socially, helps to feed conversation, and helps to make you appear more approachable. IH on the other hand makes you appear more trustworthy, adds a sense of trust, helps to deepen connections, and makes people feel comfortable around you like they’ve known you for years. You might also benefit from some A314 or IG to boost your Alpha aura, and perhaps also add a cloud of respect around you. > > Other than that, I also suggest you try to help yourself fight this feeling, I know it’s hard but sometimes letting negative thoughts in your mind never let your real you shine through. thanksss i know this wont completely solve my problem and i have to put some effort on my part to get rid of this feelings, but hopefully it will help me 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/10 "2009-10-07T20:04:41Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![JMalick76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ebca7d/32.png) [@JMalick76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JMalick76)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2009, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-looking-for-a-confidence-boost/33063/11 "2009-10-08T00:51:27Z")
Welcome to the forum! I’m pretty new here myself, and I have confidence issues sometimes as well. Hopefully you find what you’re looking for here and the products work for you. “i know this wont completely solve my problem and i have to put some effort on my part to get rid of this feelings, but hopefully it will help me” You’re right. It’s been said by people on here that it’s 90% you and 10% mones. I don’t have enough experience with mones to be able to agree or disagree, but it makes sense.