# HI, new and curious! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 12, 2011, 7:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826 "2011-04-12T07:53:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![spankyou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dfb087/32.png) [@spankyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/spankyou)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2011, 7:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/1 "2011-04-12T07:53:34Z")
Hey guys, 21, male and a college undergrad at UT Austin. I came here looking for the real deal. I did a mild amount of research into this stuff, went to amazon and look at some products, and still got mixed reviews. My current conclusion is that it doesn’t work for everyone. Some even smells bad, I don’t know how this stuff works when its smells bad to begin with. But that’s just the other products, never tried the ones here so I’m looking forward to that. I got to around this site from a random reviewer of [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) from amazon. I’m currently interested in this girl all the way from Germany. I met her at my cousin’s wedding a couple of months back over there. She came and visited last Christmass but shows signs of not wanting more. We had a good time but she doesn’t act ready. I’m coming there next month. I hope some of the stuff on this forum can help me get her to another level because I feel like she’s worth going after. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2011, 8:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/2 "2011-04-12T08:04:30Z")
Hey spankyou, different [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are used for different needs. While at first you may gravitate to some that promote sexual interest, which can be use full at the right point. But at your age and what is appreciated a lot by women is sociability and comfort. But with that said, tell us more about your personality and the context that you believe you would be using. It will help us better recommend where to start to best help you but also qualify you for the $25 gift certificate. Long distance relationships are hard, hope shes worth it to go to Germany! Personally I would spend that trip money on someone that likes me for who I am… chasing someone isn’t fun either. ---
**Author:** ![spankyou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dfb087/32.png) [@spankyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/spankyou)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2011, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/3 "2011-04-12T08:13:48Z")
> [@TwistedOstrich](#): > > Hey spankyou, different pheromones are used for different needs. While at first you may gravitate to some that promote sexual interest, which can be use full at the right point. But at your age and what is appreciated a lot by women is sociability and comfort. But with that said, tell us more about your personality and the context that you believe you would be using. It will help us better recommend where to start to best help you but also qualify you for the $25 gift certificate. > > Long distance relationships are hard, hope shes worth it to go to Germany! Personally I would spend that trip money on someone that likes me for who I am… chasing someone isn’t fun either. I had a great time with her when she visited. She’s an awesome girl, seems like a keeper to me. Heck she was my motivation for working out. I’ve been going at it pretty consistent and my body’s in pretty good shape. I’m not too skinny or too big, about 5’7 and 140 lbs. I’m consider myself a pretty nice and fair person. I guess I’m too nice, but that doesn’t stop me from doing exiting stuff. I’m planning on skydiving and parachuting and other fun activities soon after I graduate. I want to make her feel like I’m also a keeper. I want her to know that I’ll be there to protect her and that I’m the guy she can lean on. She told me I inspired her because of the things I do (I play all kind of sports, I love the environment, I have this winning attitude). She even told me that she’s not ready for a relationship. I can understand that, but this is why I’m looking for something that ease her into taking a chance on me. She’s a really nice girl, I think haha. Her family raised her right and it shows with her good manners. She’s not as crazy as I am when it comes to exciting stuff though. She’s afraid of animals, even cats. But she did warm up to a few dogs my aunts own so she’s getting there. No worries I don’t come to Germany just for her. I’m going with one more cousin. We are planning on going to Italy and sightsee there also. This girl is one of the motivations for me to go to in the first place. But I’m also looking to have some fun. I hope I can take her along and share our time together. I hope this is all you need to help me get started. If you have any other specific inquiries feel free to ask. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2011, 8:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/4 "2011-04-12T08:30:04Z")
Well I definitely think that you can benefit from IG, it would help with a self confident and value added respect vibe. Trying out either instant shine and or instant honesty can help too. IS will help bring about a positive mood and gravity to yourself meanwhile IH is great for bonding and more closer moments. While pheromones can give you an edge, they won’t create/influence what isn’t there though. They only amplify the qualities you wish to promote within yourself! Just my two cents… When I was much younger I learned the hard way by chasing women that weren’t ready for a relationship. When I think back now, I could have used all that motivation I had and self improvement to find what I was looking for right in my own back yard. One thing you should always remember is that your partner in life should be willing to make the same sacrifices that you make for love. Its an even game, a balance. Without that balance the love doesn’t last, resentment forms. Even after attracting a mate, you have to look at if their expectations are realistic too… So that’s why I say the long distance thing is hard and especially if your chasing love. Keeping things simple and not forcing love to grow I think are great ingredients to finding what your looking for. The more complex a situation, the more obstacles, reality is simple can be much more fruitful! ---
**Author:** ![spankyou](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dfb087/32.png) [@spankyou](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/spankyou)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2011, 1:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/5 "2011-04-12T13:51:18Z")
Wise words from someone who’s been down the road before me. I agree with you. I wanted to have a strong friendship with this girl and whatever happens happens. Funny though, the IG and instant honesty actually already happened between me and her. We feel like we’re been close friends for years, and I’m sure she knows that I’m a dependable and good person. Your input really put me at ease. I’m not going to chase her, I’ll just be the best that i can be, hinting that I’m interested in her, but not going too deep into the rabbit hole. And if she wants to give it a try, then I’m all ready. I will do my thing and if I meet another girl closer to home, I’m going to follow my heart. Thanks for the advice. I’ll keep looking around the forum for some stuff that could benefit me in the future. ---
**Author:** ![sanaymahto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@sanaymahto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sanaymahto)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2011, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/6 "2011-04-15T06:31:17Z")
Hiiiiii i am sanay ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2011, 1:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-new-and-curious/49826/7 "2011-04-17T01:30:57Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Spankyou! I am mighty glad you are here and reviews can be good but you got to try this stuff and make a decision based on that. From your text you are more than ready to order so I will won’t waster anymore of your time. **Your gc was issued! 🙂**