Hello SpizyChicken and welcome to PheroTalk. It’s a shame you didn’t wait to introduce yourself first. I will be sending out your introduction $15 Gift Certificate (GC) here in a little while.
I understand what you are saying about being skeptical and it is your choice, but of course only trying it once is not a very fair observation. It’s OK though, you could always send it back if you made up your mind already after one try 
. Most people do tend to take a good week to really get acclimated to mones and what they can and cant do: What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers This thread will help your understanding them a bit more.
With your wife, as Gone with the Wind stated, it will take some time for her to get used to. It’s like being the serious, all business boss who one day comes in a cracks a joke. You are not going to, all of a sudden, go goofing around with him. You’ll get the joke, but in your mind you will probably not think much of it.
The next day it’s the same thing, except this time its two jokes. Again no crazy goofing around on your part, but you might be thinking this is weird. I must not have really noticed this before about him. Your brain is compensating for his weird behavior by saying you are seeing a different perspective. A few more times and you’re thinking my boss is a hoot. Say something interesting once and that was interesting. Say something interesting 10 times, and you become interesting. Mones work the same way, especially around those who know you best.
Good luck and let us know if we can help you out in any way. I’ll be sending your GC in a little while. Welcome to the forum.