# hi, newcomer here with an urgent problem with gf.. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 23, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512 "2009-10-23T07:41:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![quadone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e47c2d/32.png) [@quadone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/quadone)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512/1 "2009-10-23T07:41:25Z")
hi i am a 22 years old guy… i and my gf has been together for 2 years..recently she went working another state and comes back once a week. but she now admitted that she is attracted by her colleague who like her…and they sms and talk so much more than talk with me… even tough she still likes me…but she is kinda don’t know which guy to choose right now. I wonder could [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) help me? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 9:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512/2 "2009-10-23T09:01:30Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about your gf. Pheromones can help but don’t expect magic from pheromones. It is still depend on your effort and luck. You can try IH and IG. IH can make her closer to you. She will talk more personal and detail with you. This can enhance relationship. IG can make her feel you are the man. She will feel you are capable and trusted. This qualities are good for girl who are looking for ltr. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 9:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512/3 "2009-10-23T09:29:32Z")
Mones can’t do the immpossible. They will NOT brainwash. (thought it would be cool, it remains morally and ethically looked down on). They do however influence. Androtics is going to hate me for saying this, but it sounds like it would be a personal issue that you and her would have to work out. I know that situation is VERY tough and has its own case, so I don’t know what to tell you from there. You might have to start treating her really specially, or just talk to her how you feel, being completely straight forward. Either way, Good luck to you man! I hope it ends well. I know that that is extremely tough and emotionally daunting. ---
**Author:** ![Tester5000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e99b99/32.png) [@Tester5000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tester5000)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512/4 "2009-10-23T20:33:45Z")
yup, I´m with hohohate here, it sounds like ist ime for “that talk”. Tell her how you feel about her, and how you see the future… see how she reacts and what she thinks and feels. I hope for you this story has a happy ending! Let us know what happens! ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2009, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-newcomer-here-with-an-urgent-problem-with-gf/33512/5 "2009-10-23T20:57:02Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.