# Hi people :-) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 20, 2009, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308 "2009-02-20T14:51:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![boobachooka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@boobachooka](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boobachooka)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/1 "2009-02-20T14:51:12Z")
Hi, I am Bibo, a 28 year old asian girl living in Toronto as of now. I am a travel agent by profession & meet many many interesting men. However, I am just 5’ 3" & am not really voluptuous & I look like a school girl even for my age. Men like me but do not get into a relationship with me. I just bought myself [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) but I am not quite getting used to it. I am spraying one shot on my wrists & one on my bosom & one directly over my neck. Men are treating me more kindly than before but still I see no attraction as such. Also I smile with my teeth, some say I should rather smile with my eyes instead - is that the problem or is there something else ??? Please help me ! ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 2:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/2 "2009-02-20T14:59:36Z")
Hi Boobachooka, welcome to the forum! It’s always great to see another lady join us 🙂 I’m sure you’ll love it, it’s a great place with lots of fun people to chat to. You mentioned [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)… Which one did you get? There are 2 versions that are slightly different…IS/a and IS/b… Would you mind telling us a bit about yourself too? How would you describe your personality? Outgoing, shy, chatty etc? How do you relate to others? Don’t worry, we aren’t being nosey…it’s just a lot easier to suggest phero’s or recommend combinations if we know a bit about you and what you hope to use phero’s for. So if you tell me a bit about yourself and what you hope to use the phero’s for (social situations, dating, work etc) I can help you a bit easier. And about the limited success you found sofar…where did you use the phero’s? At work, out & about? A lot depends on situation, location as well as dose and application place… It’s not always easy to know what to look for in terms of hits, you’ll soon get the hang of it though 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/3 "2009-02-20T15:00:21Z")
Welcome. Some things you may want to look into. The socials - ih and IO - These will help build intimacy and rapport. Not sexual except that intimacy often leads into that direction. copulins - These are one of the sexual signals that a woman is fertile. I don’t think Androtics is currently offering them but Essence of Woman is available from Love Scent. I think Androtics has some improved copulin products in the works. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/4 "2009-02-20T15:30:52Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. The ladies can give you some good tips on the application on Instant Sexiness. I agree with GWTW on the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) especially IH. It can make them closer to you. They will talk more personal to you. It builds relationship. Good luck Cheers ---
**Author:** ![boobachooka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@boobachooka](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boobachooka)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/5 "2009-02-20T15:52:04Z")
> [@Xiphoid](#): > > Hi Boobachooka, welcome to the forum! > > It’s always great to see another lady join us 🙂 I’m sure you’ll love it, it’s a great place with lots of fun people to chat to. > > You mentioned Instant Sexiness… Which one did you get? There are 2 versions that are slightly different…IS/a and IS/b… > > Would you mind telling us a bit about yourself too? How would you describe your personality? Outgoing, shy, chatty etc? How do you relate to others? Don’t worry, we aren’t being nosey…it’s just a lot easier to suggest phero’s or recommend combinations if we know a bit about you and what you hope to use phero’s for. > > So if you tell me a bit about yourself and what you hope to use the phero’s for (social situations, dating, work etc) I can help you a bit easier. > > And about the limited success you found sofar…where did you use the phero’s? At work, out & about? A lot depends on situation, location as well as dose and application place… It’s not always easy to know what to look for in terms of hits, you’ll soon get the hang of it though 🙂 It was IS/a. I am an outgoing & chatty girl besides I connect emotionally with people, respond to their happiness & sorrowful moods. A playful girl basically with a lot of teethy smiles 😃 I used IS/a at work in my office usually aimed at good looking customers. I was looking for a “What are you doing this evening/weekend” response from males. Which i never got !!!☹ ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2009, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/6 "2009-02-20T16:53:55Z")
IS/a is a great product! It’s one of my absolute favourites! I have a feeling you might be expecting too much from the phero’s… You mentioned noticing kindness…well that to me is a type of hit. If you think about it, when people like you or find you attractive they will try and show that in _the most acceptable way for the circumsance and locatio_n 🙂 I think most people would hesitate to be very flirty at work, especially if it’s a customer, someone you resumably don’t know well… they may be attracted to you, but they can’t really show it in any other way than being extra nice, it’s not quite socially acceptable to be too obvious in the workplace 🙄 I think the IS/a is working, it’s just that work might not be the best way to experiment with it and see results… Have you tried after work drinks? Do the men in bars act differently? How about if you go shopping? Also…phero’s enhance what you already are…they (unfortunately 🙄) aren’t a magic potion… And, if you don’t act in a way that is similar to the phero vibe you are sending out, people get confused… Do a search on congruence, that will explain it a bit better. Basically, if a very shy woman wears IS/a, sending out sexy confident vibes, but doesn’t act that way..she’ll still be a wall flower, and the mixed messages of what is seen and what’s subconsciously detected get confusing as they are such opposites… So, my advice would be to try the IS/a in a different setting, see how that works for you… I bet you’ll see a lot more obvious hits in the way you were hoping when you bought it 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 4:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-people/26308/7 "2009-02-21T04:02:13Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I see you got [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Great product. It increases attention and its sexy. It wont do all the work for you though, it gives you a edge and increases your opportunites. Also apply some to your hair. Your short and we lose most our heat from our heads this will help you diffuse more of the mones into the air. I do suggest you look at IH and maybe read up on copulins a bit. > [@](#): > > Also I smile with my teeth, some say I should rather smile with my eyes instead - is that the problem or is there something else ??? I dont think its a problem unless you have bad teeth LOL I think what people are trying to tell you is smile more seductively. Another tool to use with your mones to increase your advantage is body language. There is a link in my signature below for basic beginners. You can learn about how to read others peoples as well as project the correct body language to others. If you need help of have questions just let me know. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha