# Hi! Pheromones for Attraction, Firing Up the 'romantic spark'. 30/male **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 18, 2016, 11:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406 "2016-09-18T11:40:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Flatpro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/94ad74/32.png) [@Flatpro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flatpro)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2016, 11:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/1 "2016-09-18T11:40:41Z")
Hi, I’m a 30yo white male who works as a researcher in the U.K. I’ve been on a few dates (mainly via tinder) which have gone well but I have often been told that despite enjoying the date and having fun there is ‘no romantic spark’. I’ve actually become good friends with some women I have met from tinder but have been unable to ‘convert’ any date into a relationship. I’ll be honest and say I could do with loosing a few pounds (working on this) but I always get the feeling women want more masculine brad Pitt type guys and I’m more James coryden lol. I.e. Funny, loveable smart but I’m not making your heart throb. I tend to find I get on better with Asian women as perhaps they have a different perception of masculinity? I don’t go to clubs and mainly want sometime I can just wear on dates or perhaps outing with existing friends to try and take the relationship further. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2016, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/2 "2016-09-18T14:33:32Z")
Welcome! You first mistake is right there: you’re using Tinder! It’s a hyper-shallow dating pool. Women there don’t just want the top 10%; they want the top 0.1%. And you did say that appearance isn’t your forte, so you gotta work with what you got. Also, “converting” friendship to romance never works, unless there’s a romantic spark and flirting from the get-go. My recommendation would be for you to join social groups where there are many singles. As for [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), Ammo is as masculine as it gets. That should be your first product to get. Add in any of the socials (IShine, IO, or IH, look up each one) as an intensifier, depending on which effect you want to achieve. Then you’re golden. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2016, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/3 "2016-09-18T15:34:43Z")
Hi Flatpro, Welcome to the site. I agree with the [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and this should be your main one. What I would do is keep the connections you have with the women you have and use the Ammo around them. You never know one of these women might have some friends they can introduce you to and one of them might work out or is at least worth a try. But Ammo should be your main one if anything. **IS** This is a good one to have also and will boost your confidence and put everyone in a great mood. Also helps bring out even more attraction out of the Ammo. good for all environments to. **IG** Asian women tend to dig this one and this would be good if you have a particular liking for Asians. There is also the **Men`s Ultimate Kit** as you would get all these and a whole lot more to try. This is worth looking at as well. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2016, 3:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/4 "2016-09-18T15:43:21Z")
Welcome to the forums, Flatpro! Thanks for sharing your info. Very interesting. Here’s what I gleaned from it. You mentioned about the absence of romantic spark with women you’ve met. Yet, they still remain very good friends with you. From my perspective, this tells me you’re a very decent person with a good heart. So it’s really a matter of accentuating the really good aspects of yourself rather than trying to be someone you’re not. If you’re more the James Coryden type, then by all means use that to your advantage. There are a couple main types of masculinity - the protector and the provider. My hunch is that you’re more of the provider type. The women you’re meeting are probably looking for the protector type. Interestingly, Asian women (culturally) tend to gravitate more towards the provider type. This might be why you get along better with them, but it’s just a matter of bringing in that “romantic spark.” I would recommend accentuating the provider type of masculinity. This means going with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and Instant Honesty. IG has the type of pheromones that let others know you’re dependable, reliable, and down to earth. IH will add an extra dimension of trustworthiness. A lot of guys here on the forum mention about how IG increases their sense of confidence. They feel like James Bond. This alone can be terribly sexy, especially if you increase your wit and humor. If you want to add a bit of masculine edge to the combo, you can also add A314. It will add a bit of sensuality without being overt. Now, if you’re needing to be more sexual, that’s a different story. Sometimes women (and men) confuse sex with romantic spark. You didn’t mention if you’ve had sex with some of the women you’ve dated, so I don’t know if this is an issue or not. In any case, IG and IH are good products to start with, especially if you’re the type who prefers to getting to know a woman before having sex. Experiment with them to see how your interactions with women improve. A314 is also extremely useful when you want to add just a bit of edge to your persona. This too can be useful both at work and on dates. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2016, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/5 "2016-09-18T18:54:13Z")
Hi Flatpro, you already received some awesome advice from the guys. I just wanted to drop by and welcome you to this forum as well. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy, it’s worth it. If you have questions, please ask. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2016, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/6 "2016-09-19T02:11:04Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Flatpro! 🙂 Your GC is now in your email. 🙂 It’s time I think to heed the advices above, eh. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ============== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“30yo male sick of being told there is no ‘romantic spark’”** to **“Hi! [Pheromones for Attraction](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/), Firing Up the ‘romantic spark’. 30/male”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Flatpro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/94ad74/32.png) [@Flatpro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flatpro)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2016, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/7 "2016-09-19T20:41:02Z")
Thanks I’ve ordered the trail pack to experiment with a bit ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2016, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/8 "2016-09-20T04:13:19Z")
Nice 🙂. Please consider starting a journal of your experiences. You can count on the continuous support of this friendly community. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2018, 11:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-pheromones-for-attraction-firing-up-the-romantic-spark-30-male/66406/9 "2018-04-24T11:07:05Z")
Hi Flatpro! I see you’ve already placed an order and used your GC. Hope you received it all fine. Don’t forget to share your test results, my friend. You can create your own journal [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-journals/22) to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. It’s your own phero time machine. 🙂 Also, you should drop some feedback about your and MX\_\_ usage. We would love to hear how those precious molecules worked out for you. You must send your feedback at [feedback@androtics.com](mailto:feedback@androtics.com) (Always enter MX# in Subject Line). You might just qualify for a Reporting User status by doing so. 🙂 For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/c/men-s-pheromone-advice-tricks-and-tips/45). Expert [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) users usually browse this area. 🙂 Thanks! Chat soon!