# Hi, recommendations anyone? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 20, 2011, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936 "2011-02-20T01:33:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![who\_la\_hoop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d07c76/32.png) [@who\_la\_hoop](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/who_la_hoop)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/1 "2011-02-20T01:33:14Z")
Hi everyone, My name is Melody, 27 years old and I’ve been stalking this forum for a while. I live in the Bay Area of California and got into pheromones from a friend of mine. I’m of decent height and build and fairly pretty. 😛 I actually have a large social circle, but I do want a little extra attention from everyone. I don’t expect pheromones to work miracles, but rather help making new friends and getting a date easier. My goals in using pheromones are mainly to: -break the ice among friends and co-workers -raise the atmosphere for everyone -attract a new boyfriend I definitely DON’T want boys falling after me on the streets, but I do have a couple of guy friends that I wouldn’t mind getting to know better. So basically something that would help attract people who are closer to me, both females and males and a little sexual attraction for the males as well. Sounds kind of like I want everything, so if someone has a recommendation for a product that contains 2 out of 3, I would be extremely happy. I’m definitely going to order [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), if anyone has any tips on using it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and I look forward to seeing everyone around on the forum! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/2 "2011-02-20T01:51:30Z")
Welcome Melody. You might consider the social products IH and IO. They will help with the establishment of rapport and getting conversations going. If you’re “fairly pretty” most guys are already thinking sexually, but they may be nervous. Having something that relaxes people and helps them feel safe can get the ball rolling, both socially and romantically. ---
**Author:** ![Hart](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hart/32/1409_2.png) [@Hart](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hart)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/3 "2011-02-20T01:59:10Z")
Welcome to the forums, for you i would recommend [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), that is definitely the ice breaker pheromone for sure. you are right about Instant Shine, that will raise the feel good vibe for everyone as well as yourself (my fave of the social mones) Instant sexiness A and B will attract, they both have slightly different effects in terms of you will be perceived. You will probably need a couple of products, not just one so try the to go bottles. and read the following link > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … It will tell you exactly what they do Good luck 🙂 🙂 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/4 "2011-02-20T03:31:40Z")
Hi Melody and welcome to the forum! Thanks for posting such a clear and concise intro post! It’s a breath of fresh air. I really appreciate it! 🙂 Ok, so here are your goals to accomplish with the mones: **-break the ice among friends and co-workers** I can see the IS you choose and coupled with IH would do wonders here. Since these are people you know, IH will help in opening them up to a deeper level. The IS will provide a smile in you (self effects vary from person to person) with a at ease and contented vibe from others around you. **-raise the atmosphere for everyone** I think that extra sprays of IS would be great for this. If you test out IS and you get a good relaxed and at ease vibe at 2x spray, for example, you can bump it up to 4 to 6 sprays to get some extra smiles and giggles from others. **-attract a new boyfriend** A bit more difficult… these (2) mones will raise your attraction level in the eyes of others but really would depend on the ‘target’… his personality, what he is looking for in a GF, etc… Hart mentioned above the IS/a and IS/b… these would likely be a bit more for this last point, though, again, these will depend on your personality and your ‘target’… Glad the lurker decided to come on in and share in the love of mones!!! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![who\_la\_hoop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d07c76/32.png) [@who\_la\_hoop](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/who_la_hoop)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2011, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/5 "2011-02-20T18:17:16Z")
Thanks everyone, I’m going to order IS/a or IS/b as soon as they have more. They’ve been OOS for a while… Does anyone know if things like Essence of a Woman or Primal Instinct is any good? Can they be used along with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2011, 6:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/6 "2011-02-21T18:49:26Z")
> [@who\_la\_hoop](#): > > Thanks everyone, I’m going to order IS/a or IS/b as soon as they have more. They’ve been OOS for a while… > > Does anyone know if things like Essence of a Woman or Primal Instinct is any good? Can they be used along with Instant Shine? Hey, not sure on those mones, though, I’ve read about EoW from the women’s forum and seems to have good results. IS should not have a negative affect on other mones. So, IS is good all around. For info on Primal and EoW, post up a question on the Women’s forum to get some sharp, concise and many times witty responses from the experience female mone users!! They may not get around to the intro forum as often as the Women’s section. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2011, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-recommendations-anyone/48936/7 "2011-02-24T00:05:14Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Who lo hoop! In terms of the friendly, open environment you can definitely get that with products like : Instant shine Instant honesty Instant openness However we are out of all sexual attraction [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I was told we should get a limited supply next week please look out so you can grab either the instant sexiness/a or b > [@Whats the difference between "Instant Sexiness" and "Instant Sexiness B"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-difference-between-instant-sexiness-and-instant-sexiness-b/39530): > > Whats the difference between “Instant Sexiness” and “Instant Sexiness B”??? for women advice would be appreciated, Thank you! slight_smile **Your gc was issued! 😃**