# Hi there from Germany! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 2, 2009, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348 "2009-07-02T23:04:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Phero-User](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ba9def/32.png) [@Phero-User](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phero-User)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2009, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/1 "2009-07-02T23:04:58Z")
Hello, I am 27 years old, male and study in Germany! I love to flirt with women, I am looking for sexual encounters but I get rejected from the women I like, either because I am not attractiv enough or they just want me as a friend. On the other hand, there are women that want me, but then I do not want to have a relationship with! I am not shy and I am very charming, I try to make profit of every opportuniy that I get. My problem is, that I don’t have that superstyled 6-pack superbody yet, that many women want! I have some extra pounds (not too much!) and I am working out in the gym! I consider myself as a nice and friendly guy, who is funny and anything but boring! I have many male and female friends, but as I said, I am not successful with getting the women I really want! I bought A314, Ammunition and TUTH and experienced with them! The results were impressiv, but not that, what I was looking for! In Clubs MEN often cheer to me, shake my hands telling me how “cool” I was or how great I was dancing! 2 times MEN offered me something to drink! Ok, it’s nice to be liked by men, but I want to hunt women, since I am heterosexual! Women do flirt with me, but finally reject me as a friend, and not a sex partner! Once a couple who are my friends have told me how wonderful TUTH would smell! In General, people like and respekt me, I think more then before! People always liked me, but I was missing respect! I had felt that nobody would care about what I have to say before A314, although I improved recently being a stronger person! What I would like that mones could do for me, is that, when I take care of my outer appearance and my personality, they should help me to get that girl I want, and don’t get pushed away as a pure friend or whatever! Basically, I need 2 things my whole life: Be an Alpha in my environment AND Make women REALLY want me, find me attractiv, dream of me, kiss me… Is that possible? Or am I a dreamer? Thank you for your support!!! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2009, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/2 "2009-07-02T23:19:24Z")
Hello phero-user! Welcome to the forum sweetie! Wow, seems like you’ve also jumped in with both feet, good for you. You’ve been getting amazing results as well which is great. Now, I’m sorry to hear that you aren’t able to attract the women that you want. But it happens, it’s life. You can’t make her really want you, find you attractive, dream of you, kiss you if she doesn’t like you that way in the first place. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) enhance what is already there. They just enhance your personality, add more spark and polish, they don’t change who you are. You are still you. It’s not magic, to make the women _you want_ attracted to you out of thin air. It happens but we call those Dihls and they don’t happen as often. Anyhow, the other members will drop in for their 2 cents, so hold on. And I hope you still enjoy using your pheros 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/3 "2009-07-03T00:23:01Z")
Hello there, Would you say you are shy or outgoing around girls? Do feel like you have a hard time talking to girls you like? Are you looking for any self effects, like more confidence? Keep at it! It may take awhile to awhile to get the hang of things, but it will be worth it 🙂 Tiffany ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/4 "2009-07-03T01:11:42Z")
Guten Tag, (I don’t speak German, but I know a few words. Anyway, on to the pheromones.) Good choice on buying Ammunition, A314, and Turn Up The Heat. I think you’ll have good results with them. Ammo is good for general, non-work type situations. A314 and TUTH are more intense, so use your judgment when you put them on. By the way, what combination did you use when you wore those pheromones to clubs? Speaking of clubs, don’t underestimate the value of men cheering you on. If they complimented you and offered you beers, it mean they respected you. In other words, you became an alpha male. And we all know how much women like (and oftentimes lust after) alpha males. It seems like you got the respect you were looking for already taken care of with A314; good job. In the long run, respect is priceless. I’d say it’s even more important than sexual attraction. After all, a woman will _never_ feel sexually attracted to a man she doesn’t respect. To get sexual results from women, you’re halfway there with TUTH. But by itself, it sends a horndog vibe that could repel some women. Don’t underestimate the power of social pheromones, like Instant Shine or Instant Openness. IShine is an all-around mood elevator, and can make people feel happy to be around you. IO makes people open up to you quickly and more willing to talk to you. (There’s also Instant Honesty, but I haven’t had much use for it.) After all, every sexual encounter starts with a conversation, no matter how short. Get those whenever you can, and combine them with TUTH to soften the horndog vibe. One other thing I’d recommend is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). People described it as lighter, more down-to-earth version of A314. I have it, and got great results from it. It’s vibe is not so much “buys flowers and opens doors” type, but more like a “trustworthy guy who’s pleasant to be around”. It works great in situations where A314 would be too intense. Whatever you decide to do, good luck, and make sure to post how it all works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![Phero-User](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ba9def/32.png) [@Phero-User](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phero-User)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2009, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/5 "2009-07-07T23:43:03Z")
@Maromi: I am outgoing and have no problem to talk to women, it there is anything that could create something interesting or funny to talk about! That doesn’t mean I am successful, I can get friends, yes, but no girl friend! @Attractor: I think I used 5 drops of A314 on my face, breast and arms! And 2 sprays of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), and 2 sprays of TUTH on the same areas! Before applying all these mones, I put on my own parfume! Yeah, women see that I am respected, but that does not make them want to be my girl friend…yet! I do not want to use Honesty and Openess, since I consider myself as a person, that can create contacts easily, and normaly good people feel that I am a nice person and so we will have a good communication! Also I think that I am already a Gentleman, A314 gives me what my personality alone cannot create! I wish there was a mone that would make women make out with me, and I don’t mean ANY women, but women I like and already have some relationship, but cannot stand being their “friend” any longer! At the moment, there is one girl in my life, we like each other and meet often with friends but she told me she just wants friendship! ☹ I even used my combination of mones I described above, but it did not work! Guess I need to work out more for a better body! Ok, I wish things would get quicker! Maybe after 3 months she will become my gf, or after 1 year, who knows! But I am male, and male persons often don’t like to have no sex life that long as some women can! The girl and I, as I said, we like each other, but she is not in love with me! Ok, I am not in LOVE with her eather, but I like her a lot and find her physically attractive, so I don’t want to waste time…but she seems to have plenty of time! Guess there is nothing that I can do as keep being a “friend” and wait, until she changes her attitude towards me! ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/6 "2009-07-08T01:28:50Z")
> [@Phero-User](#): > > @Maromi: > I am outgoing and have no problem to talk to women, it there is anything that could create something interesting or funny to talk about! That doesn’t mean I am successful, I can get friends, yes, but no girl friend! Ok and I know you are uninterested in the socials, but I think you might find [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to be helpful in building a deeper connection with that friend of yours. Try pairing it with something like Ammo. Pheromones are great, but keep in mind that they can only enhance what you _already_ have. If your friend was not attracted to you, then it’s very unlikely that pheromones will change her mind. It is possible that she is attracted to you though and pheromones will definitely push things along for you 😛. Just remember that even if it doesn’t work out for you with this girl, there are many more fish in the sea 😉. Good luck and keep us updated, Tiffany ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2009, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-from-germany/30348/7 "2009-07-15T22:29:42Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Phero-User! It seems like you definitely have been doing a good amount of experimenting. What I recommend is that you give our pheromone expert Steve a call and I am sure he will be able to assist you. Remember pheromones are not magic and you have to put in the work. Give Steve a call (800-671-6464) you won’t be disappointed. Your GC is on it’s way!