# Hi there, I'm new here! Pheromones for dating & attraction M/24 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 11, 2015, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328 "2015-12-11T20:24:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![welcomehome](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b9e5f3/32.png) [@welcomehome](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/welcomehome)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/1 "2015-12-11T20:24:33Z")
I’ve been browsing this forum quite a bit, in fact so much that I wasn’t allowed to view any more posts until I had registered 😃 So hello, here I am. Let me say that so far I have found this forum very resourceful and already learned quite a lot. Now as I stated in the title, my interest in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) mainly concerns stiring up womens interest in me (although I also find the mones capable of lightening peoples moods quite interesting). I feel like I’m at a real disadvantage when it comes to the ladies. I have never been a good looking guy - even when I try to look my best and dress nicely, I have problems getting any sexual or romantic attention. Usually women enjoy talking to me and like me as a person so I have that going for me but it’s no use when they don’t see me as attractive on a more primal level. Perhaps not even pheromones can change that. I’ve read quite the number of very enthusiastic reports on here from people using them but I keep thinking to myself they were probably already rather attractive in womens eyes and perhaps the mones just gave them a push in the right direction. I understand they can’t perform any miracles. Still I’m considering trying one or a couple of them just to see what happens. So I guess a few questions of mine would be: Which mones do you think would be the best for me? And also, in case there are any other men or women on here that has been in my situation (having had severe difficulties getting sexual/romantic interest that is) and really found mones to be helpful for it, I’d very much appreciate if you took the time to share your stories! Thanks for reading! ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 8:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/2 "2015-12-11T20:43:24Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk! Pheromones by themselves will do very little. A lot of it is your mindset and your actions. While I can sympathize with what you’re going through, try to carry yourself in ways so women don’t pick up on that. Otherwise, lack of confidence is a kiss of death when it comes to dating. Do something to give off a confident vibe, anything at all. Fake it 'til you make it, if you must. Luckily, pheromones will do wonders for the “fake it” portion. If you had to buy only one product, I’d recommend Ammo. It’s a balanced mix of friendly, dominant, and social. Add some IShine into the mix for a touch of happy. Don’t forget that once you properly introduce yourself (which you already did), one of the hosts will stop by and give you a $25 GC, to use on any of this site’s products. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/3 "2015-12-11T20:46:44Z")
Welcome Welcomehome! Thank you for sharing all that info. That helps us out a lot. You know, confidence, poise, and a sincere smile are a lot more attractive and sexy than looks or wardrobe. The trick is to accentuate your strengths. This is where pheromones come in to play. Given your age, I’d recommend three products - Instant Honesty, Ammo, and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). IH will give women comfort. They will feel that they can trust you as a friend. Ammo has sexual pheromones, so it will also let women know that you can be more than friends. Instant Gentleman will let women know that you are reliable, mature, and credible. With all three, you will come across as a smart, sexy, young man who has his life together. Another great combo to help boost your confidence and poise is Instant Shine and Instant Openness. IShine will tell women you’re a fun guy to hang out with. IO will encourage them to talk to you. In time, as you speak to more women, your confidence will grow and you will develop your game. You might also benefit from the Intro Pack for Men. It has all of these products plus a few more. You can experiment with them to find the appropriate products for specific situations. I also recommend reading the journal section for pointers on how to use these pheromones. But overall, work on your self-confidence. IShine and IO can help you out here. Use them consistently whenever you’re out socializing. When you feel ready, then you can switch to other that you’ll have int he Intro Pack. Hopefully other guys on the forum will help you out with their own unique perspective. After a day or two when the moderator reviews this thread, you’ll get a $25 GC in your mail box. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![welcomehome](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b9e5f3/32.png) [@welcomehome](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/welcomehome)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/4 "2015-12-11T21:20:19Z")
> [@TheAttractor](#): > > Welcome to PheromoneTalk! > > Pheromones by themselves will do very little. A lot of it is your mindset and your actions. While I can sympathize with what you’re going through, try to carry yourself in ways so women don’t pick up on that. Otherwise, lack of confidence is a kiss of death when it comes to dating. Do something to give off a confident vibe, anything at all. Fake it 'til you make it, if you must. > > Luckily, pheromones will do wonders for the “fake it” portion. If you had to buy only one product, I’d recommend Ammo. It’s a balanced mix of friendly, dominant, and social. Add some IShine into the mix for a touch of happy. Don’t forget that once you properly introduce yourself (which you already did), one of the hosts will stop by and give you a $25 GC, to use on any of this site’s products. Thank you! While I do think it’s hard to assess oneself objectively, I don’t really think I give off that much of an insecure vibe. If anything I feel more like not being in tune with the game. I have probably screwed up a couple of times when someone actually seemed interested in me by not reciprocating properly. So I need to work on that. But I’m definitely not the most confident person so if I could show more confidence, perhaps you are right more women would find me attractive. Ah yes Ammo, I’ve already came across it a number of times. It seems like a very nice product from what I gathered. Really appreciate your advices. > [@HankBuddy](#): > > Welcome Welcomehome! > > Thank you for sharing all that info. That helps us out a lot. You know, confidence, poise, and a sincere smile are a lot more attractive and sexy than looks or wardrobe. The trick is to accentuate your strengths. This is where pheromones come in to play. > > Given your age, I’d recommend three products - Instant Honesty, Ammo, and Instant Gentleman. IH will give women comfort. They will feel that they can trust you as a friend. Ammo has sexual pheromones, so it will also let women know that you can be more than friends. Instant Gentleman will let women know that you are reliable, mature, and credible. With all three, you will come across as a smart, sexy, young man who has his life together. > > Another great combo to help boost your confidence and poise is Instant Shine and Instant Openness. IShine will tell women you’re a fun guy to hang out with. IO will encourage them to talk to you. In time, as you speak to more women, your confidence will grow and you will develop your game. > > You might also benefit from the Intro Pack for Men. It has all of these products plus a few more. You can experiment with them to find the appropriate products for specific situations. I also recommend reading the journal section for pointers on how to use these pheromones. But overall, work on your self-confidence. IShine and IO can help you out here. Use them consistently whenever you’re out socializing. When you feel ready, then you can switch to other that you’ll have int he Intro Pack. > > Hopefully other guys on the forum will help you out with their own unique perspective. After a day or two when the moderator reviews this thread, you’ll get a $25 GC in your mail box. > > Good luck! Thank you for your reply! For sure you make some valid points. I do think looks are important to a lot of people but will agree that one can probably come quite far by working on the other aspects. It is an interesting combo that you recommend. It seems like something I could benefit from and like I replied to the other poster, Ammo is something I’ve already considered myself. I was wondering something else - in some topics people seem to recommend certain products based on the age of the person/the people you are trying to attract. While I’m open for any age, I have always had a thing for older women. Do you think [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) could work well on them? Any other mones especially good for women 30+ or so? ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/5 "2015-12-11T21:32:17Z")
> [@welcomehome](#): > > Thank you for your reply! > > For sure you make some valid points. I do think looks are important to a lot of people but will agree that one can probably come quite far by working on the other aspects. > > It is an interesting combo that you recommend. It seems like something I could benefit from and like I replied to the other poster, Ammo is something I’ve already considered myself. I was wondering something else - in some topics people seem to recommend certain products based on the age of the person/the people you are trying to attract. While I’m open for any age, I have always had a thing for older women. Do you think Instant Gentleman could work well on them? Any other mones especially good for women 30+ or so? Looks may capture a woman’s eye, but poise and character will capture her heart! I’ve seen many men who are average in looks, but when you see them in action, they appear impeccable and handsome. It’s all about confidence, body language, and knowing what to say at the right time. Yes, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and IG will work well for you, especially if you are attracted to older women. A314 might be suitable in your case (as a replacement for both Ammo and IG), however, you need to really up your game. If you are at all incongruent in your behavior (lack of confidence and poise), you will be ignored. You might not have that problem with Ammo and IG since these products are much more forgiving than A314. As for other mones, IH would work well along with Ammo and IG. Again, it will accentuate the solid confidence and dependability that IG will provide. ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2015, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/6 "2015-12-11T23:17:49Z")
> [@welcomehome](#): > > While I do think it’s hard to assess oneself objectively, I don’t really think I give off that much of an insecure vibe. If anything I feel more like not being in tune with the game. I have probably screwed up a couple of times when someone actually seemed interested in me by not reciprocating properly. So I need to work on that. But I’m definitely not the most confident person so if I could show more confidence, perhaps you are right more women would find me attractive. You’re right. Also note one thing. If you try to act confident while “naked” (meaning without pheromones), it won’t be easy. Because your mind has already built up a bank of past failures, and will keep regurgitating them back at you. So when you try to approach a woman, it will start screaming: “What the hell are you doing? The last woman rejected you! Why do you think it’ll be different this time? Be reasonable!” “Why do you think it’ll be different this time?” Now you’ll have an answer for it: “Pheromones!” You’re still the same person, but you’re doing something different enough to get your mind to shut up. After all, you _are_ trying something completely new. Which should give you just enough of a confidence boost to plow through the past rejections and sincerely expect to succeed. (As opposed to self-help talk that doesn’t always help.) ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2015, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/7 "2015-12-12T00:28:58Z")
Hello welcomehome, Sounds like you are in good hands here. If you ever need anything feel free to ask or you can send me a PM and I will get you an answer if you don’t want to post publicly. There is lot’s of research here so browse around and let us know if you have any questions. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2015, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/8 "2015-12-12T05:00:38Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. In the case you elaborated your situation, my pick would have been A314 + IS +AMMO. A314 will give you a high status guy , IS will boost your confidence levels and make you feel happier. AMMO forvabove reasons Now dosing is going to be real key. Suggestions are A314 2 spry 1 at jawline other at wrist. IS 2x 2sprays n hairs . Ammo2x 2 sprays one on front of neck other on back of neck. Pump up dose gradually to find out your sweet spot. Keep posting and take care ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2015, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/9 "2015-12-13T09:08:31Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, welcomehome! 🙂 Just dropping by to tell you that your intro GC is now in your email. 🙂 Regarding your concern… you need to lighten up with IShine. Your worry about your looks always plays a big hurdle with your game. Don’t change the way you relate with girls, that’s your first base. You need it to stay close to them, under your [pheromone](https://a314.com/) cloud. You need to smoothen though your transition from a friendly convo into a bit flirty exchanges, because that transition is very vital in letting them understand about your real intentions. Of course wearing AMMO+IS while doing it will greatly help you. Now if you can maintain a happy convo, you might try IG+IH for a deeper rapport with the girl. I’ll recommend then the UPIP as your first buy. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [November 24, 2016, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-im-new-here-pheromones-for-dating-attraction-m-24/65328/10 "2016-11-24T12:30:09Z")
Hi there! I see you’ve never used your GC. And so I did a little checking and I found out that you have no existing account at the store, [https://a314.com/](https://a314.com/) yet. Maybe it’s the reason why. The only simple solution is to create one and presto! You can use the GC and your pheromone journey is all set to start. 🙂 Or maybe you’re simply not ready yet to order. No pressure here, this is just a routine reminder in case you’re puzzled why you can’t make an order. 🙂 Don’t forget to drop us a note here: [support@androtics.com](mailto:support@androtics.com) for other concerns you think we can deal with. Happy pheroing! 🙂