# Hi there. Pheromones to Help Bettering my relationship? M/19 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 13, 2017, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389 "2017-09-13T20:50:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![johnjennson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@johnjennson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnjennson)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2017, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/1 "2017-09-13T20:50:08Z")
Hi there, so I’m here because my girlfriend and I really love eachother but she is not sexually attracted to me anymore. Practically the only time she is ever interested in sex is when she Is fantasizing about a stranger or someone she just met or just saw. She doesn’t think sex is important to our relationship and is practically uninterested in it all together. At least with me. So I want to start improving our relationship and sex lives. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2017, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/2 "2017-09-13T22:28:55Z")
Hey welcome! If you want to make her horny for you use some TUTH. And to take it to the next level, add some [Molecule C](https://a314.com/product/molecule-c/) to it. ---
**Author:** ![teressa9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/teressa9/32/2219_2.png) [@teressa9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/teressa9)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2017, 8:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/3 "2017-09-14T08:29:02Z")
> [@johnjennson](#): > > Hi there, so I’m here because my girlfriend and I really love eachother but she is not sexually attracted to me anymore. Practically the only time she is ever interested in sex is when she Is fantasizing about a stranger or someone she just met or just saw. She doesn’t think sex is important to our relationship and is practically uninterested in it all together. At least with me. So I want to start improving our relationship and sex lives. I’m not a guy, but I agree with JDUB’s suggestion. You may also want to consider Alpha A314 (for trust and respect) to use with TUTH. But TUTH should definitely do the trick. Good luck and let us know how it works out for you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2017, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/4 "2017-09-14T13:58:56Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, johnjennson! 🙂 Maybe the issue here is your performance? You see, sex, is not a one-way kind of a road thing. If she’s fantasizing about someone while doing the deed, the possible explanation is that she’s helping herself to be in the mood. I don’t believe you need any phero assist since you are 19 and you are naturally oozing with mones. At least, with those [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) associated with sex and status. I will recommend the basic. AMMO-Summer and IOpenness. Get some back up mones like MX297 for the night life and CTTM2 for socials time. And if you still wanna experiment with the status and sexual mones, get the TUTH in 2.5mcg and IG. 🙂 Your GC is now in your email. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ============== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Bettering my relationship”** to **“Bettering my relationship”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2017, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/5 "2017-09-14T15:34:40Z")
Addressing any issues that made her lose attraction for you will be as important as any pheros you might use. Have you made yourself too available to her or not kept a bit of space to yourself in the relationship? A bit of “man time” or “miss you” time is critical to keeping attraction simmering. Never assume that someone who has lost attraction still “loves you” in any meaningful way. Ime that is often just them keeping you hooked-in till they find a better prospect - at which time you won’t see her for dust. Often rekindling attraction means doing the exact opposite of what seems sensible to you or her ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2017, 10:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/6 "2017-09-18T10:04:32Z")
> [@johnjennson](#): > > Hi there, so I’m here because my girlfriend and I really love eachother but she is not sexually attracted to me anymore. Practically the only time she is ever interested in sex is when she Is fantasizing about a stranger or someone she just met or just saw. She doesn’t think sex is important to our relationship and is practically uninterested in it all together. At least with me. So I want to start improving our relationship and sex lives. Welcome to the site! I agree with the others and I have to ask if she has told you this about thinking of someone else when you 2 have sex? At 19 you produce a lot of your own natural pheromones and so I am going a different direction here because I think you will need to get to the very root of this problem or you will get no where. I suggest **IH** for this. What I would do is give some space like what was suggested, then when wearing this make sure to work on how to work things like your questions in and see where this goes. The IH will be so much more valuable for this situation than anything else so you will know if you are wasting your time, or it is something that can be worked on. I hope this makes sense, I just don’t want you to waste your time trying to figure things out if it will not work anyways. I normally suggest the **Men’s Ultimate Kit** because you would get everything to try and at a discount and would be the very best for you because you get everything. But if you don’t get the kit, IH if anything else would be the first one I would start with. Then for attraction **S.Ammo** would be your best option, and **MX297** has also been known to work on younger women as well. **CTTM2** is like a blend of IO/IH and would be also worth looking at as well. If you have any questions at all please post as we are all here to help each other and good luck and let us know what you decide. ---
**Author:** ![Volkshead](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/volkshead/32/5201_2.png) [@Volkshead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Volkshead)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2017, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/7 "2017-09-23T13:14:19Z")
I agree with mobocaster and justintime; scarcity builds attraction and can rebuild attraction - if you’re too forthcoming, helpful and consistently available, then you’re acting like a blanket to smother her attraction towards you. Act more like an alpha; have a distinct purpose that isn’t her, such as a hobby or work, be unavailable sometimes and also say no to her sometimes and call her out on bad behaviour. This and being unavailable regularly will ignite attraction like you wouldn’t believe. There’s been all kinds of scientific studies on this, so google scarcity and attraction, or check out my blog, where there’s a few posts about this (not sure if I’m allowed to put a website address, but google The Authentic Guy and it’ll find my site). This is great for initial attraction, but you shouldn’t let it slip even when things go long term; if you want a lifelong friend and virtually platonic companion, then be too available and agreeable, but if you want to keep having great sex and mind blowing make out sessions with this lifelong companion, be a leader with a purpose. My own current long term girlfriend has clearly said many times, that I’m “The only guy ever to answer her back and tell her off when she steps out of line” and also: “You’re the only guy who has ever made me come every time we have sex” and even: “The girls and I thought fifty shades of grey was bullshit, because she always comes; then I met you!” I don’t think the two things: scarcity/orgasms are unrelated. I used to exhibit beta male behaviours and it brought less sexual attraction and girls ending relationships. Feel free to PM me if you need any other advice. As others have said: the laws of attraction mean you have to act against your intuition. ---
**Author:** ![ccjohncc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7bcc69/32.png) [@ccjohncc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ccjohncc)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2017, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there-pheromones-to-help-bettering-my-relationship-m-19/67389/8 "2017-09-24T15:44:10Z")
> [@johnjennson](#): > > Hi there, so I’m here because my girlfriend and I really love each other but she is not sexually attracted to me anymore. Practically the only time she is ever interested in sex is when she Is fantasizing about a stranger or someone she just met or just saw. She doesn’t think sex is important to our relationship and is practically uninterested in it all together. At least with me. So I want to start improving our relationship and sex lives. I highly recommend you start becoming distant from her. Not geographically distant but interpersonally. First of all, remember that she is lucky to have you. Because you could get another gal whenever you want. Do not tell her anything I am telling you! In fact, do not tell her you are trying to do anything different. In fact, just stop talking to her as much as possible. I am not saying be mean or rude. Don’t do that just get busy doing other things and above all stop bugging her for anything especially sex. Let her come to you for a change. Women need to know they are desired because they did something to win that affection. If it is given freely they lose interest because it becomes cheap.To make all of this easier, tell yourself that truthfully you can live without her. You were getting along in life before she came along and you can just as easily get along if she were gone. Now I am not saying stop being in love with her. Just keep that to yourself for awhile. She already knows that. As bad as it sounds, you need to start acting like you are falling out of love with her. Because let’s face it, it seems she is falling out of love with you right? Trust what I am telling you this works 99% of the time and it can’t hurt to try it for a couple of weeks. I think you will find her getting interested again soon and wanting to have sex with you. Hey, relationships are a 2-way thing. It is only fair she pursues you for sex as much as you do her. Women are crazy creatures that think differently than we do. That is why we love them so much. Good luck and I hope it is not too late. In other words, if this doesn’t work after a few weeks then she is either already seeing someone behind your back or she is becoming lesbian. Take Care My friend