# Hi there... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 13, 2008, 12:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851 "2008-11-13T12:51:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ratwick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@ratwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ratwick)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 12:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/1 "2008-11-13T12:51:10Z")
Hi all, My name is Chris, I’m 25 and am a Male from Australia. I am a bit of a quiet person and i guess a little shy. I am hoping to find a pheromone that can help me in socializing with the opposite sex and hopefully find a girlfriend. I cant say i have ever been in any serious relationship before. I guess I’m not very confident in approaching a girl. I do get females looking at me, though i tend to shy away and not pursue. I have been reading about the Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and this seems to be what i am looking for. And from what Ive been reading a little Turn up the heat added could be the right recipe? Thanks all Chris. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/2 "2008-11-13T17:59:15Z")
Hi Chris, welcome to the forum. Go with the Instant Shine and Instant Openness, they will serve you well. An attractant would be Ammo, not TUTH. Some people use TUTH in situations it wasn’t designed for (like to church or work), but it’s really meant to be used in the bedroom or when you’re closing the deal and getting ready to taking her to the bedroom. Of course, you can use it any way you wish, but since you asked… Some guys use TUTH as part of their mix, adding additional socials of their choice to get a desired effect. You can do that, but from a financial standpoint that seems like a lot more expensive than to just use Ammo to begin with. The sexual component (-none) in Ammo and TUTH is exactly the same amount, the difference is that Ammo has additional [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) (that were tested extensively to come up with the best pheromone ratios) which make it less _blatantly_ sexual, so you will have greater sexual success in _social situations._ Read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for more tips. Good luck here… ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/3 "2008-11-13T19:08:03Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk, Chris. Robbie has given some very good advice, what I would have suggested and better, so definitely pay attention to that. However, remember that pheros are only part of the deal. For the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to work to their fullest capabilities, you also have to try and break free of your insecurity and shyness and take a risk. Whenever a woman seems interested, try talking to her, flirt a bit. The first few times might turn out badly, but don’t be discouraged. It’s the same as anything else, practice makes perfect. Why would you say you are so shy around women? Bad past experience, or have you just always been a little timid? ---
**Author:** ![ratwick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@ratwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ratwick)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/4 "2008-11-13T21:31:45Z")
> [@Vespero](#): > > Welcome to Pherotalk, Chris. Robbie has given some very good advice, what I would have suggested and better, so definitely pay attention to that. However, remember that pheros are only part of the deal. For the pheromones to work to their fullest capabilities, you also have to try and break free of your insecurity and shyness and take a risk. Whenever a woman seems interested, try talking to her, flirt a bit. The first few times might turn out badly, but don’t be discouraged. It’s the same as anything else, practice makes perfect. Why would you say you are so shy around women? Bad past experience, or have you just always been a little timid? I guess i had a bad past experience with a girl when i was younger who “just wanted to be friends” with me.. Instead she ended up sleeping with all my mates and i guess, i feel im not good enough ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 2:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/5 "2008-11-14T02:22:29Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 First things first, Get rid of the thought that your not good enough. Think of it this way, the girl was a slut and you were to good for her. Positive thoughts about yourself will help you build self esteem and confidence. Mones can help but they will not do it all for you. You still have to make a effort. I suggest AMMO for a sexy attracting vibe. CTTM or IO to increase socialization and approaches. Ishine for a boodt of confidence and well being for you and a charismatic warm upbeat vibe for others. By the way, How did you find pherotalk ? If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on the way 😃** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![ratwick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@ratwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ratwick)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 3:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/6 "2008-11-14T03:02:34Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > First things first, Get rid of the thought that your not good enough. Think of it this way, the girl was a slut and you were to good for her. > > Positive thoughts about yourself will help you build self esteem and confidence. Mones can help but they will not do it all for you. You still have to make a effort. > > I suggest AMMO for a sexy attracting vibe. CTTM or IO to increase socialization and approaches. Ishine for a boodt of confidence and well being for you and a charismatic warm upbeat vibe for others. > > By the way, How did you find pherotalk ? > > If you have questions just ask. > > **Your GC is on the way 😃** > > Tisha Thanks Tisha. About 6 years ago i tried Pheromones from another company (not sure who) and i dont think it worked ☹ … 6 years later it just came accross my mind to have a look and see how far these mysterious chemicals have gone. . . I then googled Pheromones and Up came Androticsdirect. I have spent the last week reading the forums and i couldn’t believe how many people have had success. Now here i am … about to purchase my first batch. . . This to me is a life changing experience. As now i will soon have have the “Ammunition” to succeed. Thanks again Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Oakey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/258eb7/32.png) [@Oakey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oakey)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/22851/7 "2008-11-14T07:34:33Z")
hahahahaha welcome dude… [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is the way to go, TUTH is a lil too much too soon unless you are in a club setting… Instant shine, instant honesty and A314 can help with shyness but the medicine is JUST GET IT DONE iwth… lol whats the worst that could happen? she just wont talk you… Have fun, enjoy yourself, and remember to ask question.