Hello 
While it is true that pheromones can help you exude respect, there are other aspects to receive it.
They say respect is earned, not commanded. As an ex-military personnel i respect your sacrifice in the war. No offense mate ,but that is history, have you done anything lately for the kind of recognition that you’re looking for?
Also are you being congruent by acting and talking the way that exacts respects from others?
Here’s a good thread regarding congruency and pheromone use.
I hope you have a darn good experience using pheromones like i do.