# Hi there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 18, 2009, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/26237 "2009-02-18T21:42:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2009, 12:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/26237/6 "2009-02-19T12:06:30Z")
Hello 🙂 While it is true that [pheromones](https://a314.com/) can help you exude respect, there are other aspects to receive it. They say respect is earned, not commanded. As an ex-military personnel i respect your sacrifice in the war. No offense mate ,but that is history, have you done anything lately for the kind of recognition that you’re looking for? Also are you being congruent by acting and talking the way that exacts respects from others? Here’s a good thread regarding congruency and pheromone use. > [@Congruence? What's That?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805): > > What is congruency? We talk about this alot but do we really do a good job of explaining it to a newbie? Do we really understand what goes into congruency ourselves? I looked up an array of definitions to find one that matched my idea of congruent/congruous/congruence. There is the purely mathematical “congruent figures have the exact same size and shape”. Then there is the more legalizish “Congruence is the degree of match between two codes”. My favorite is “Agreement of character (parameter)”. … I hope you have a darn good experience using pheromones like i do. 🙂 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/26237)._