# Hi there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 27, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317 "2009-05-27T05:28:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jay55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@Jay55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jay55)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/1 "2009-05-27T05:28:16Z")
I am a 20 year old male living in Maryland. I am a college student who has always been the “best friend” type, but never really that person who is able to get to the next stage with those I am interested in. So I figured it wouldn’t hurt to try [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and see what they are all about. I guess my biggest question is probably the most common, and it is mainly based off of skepticism. I know we are all different, but do the pheromones REALLY work? If you could recommend the ones that work the best what would you recommend, and any pointers with using them would be appreciated as well. I will make sure to search the site for answers to some other questions I have, but I thought I would just take a quick second to say hi to everyone and officially join the world of Pheromones!! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/2 "2009-05-27T05:33:15Z")
Hi Jay55, Welcome to the forum. Pheromones really work if you understand them and know the right number of spray and drop. Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing type? WHat kind of effect are you looking at from pheromones? There are pheromones for realtionship, sexual, respect, confidence and so on. WHo are your targets? Then we can recommend the right pheromones for you to try. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 5:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/3 "2009-05-27T05:38:25Z")
Welcome. Most of the molecules used here do affect communications. Effects are different on different people, so you do need to do a bit of testing to find out just what they do on you. The Androtics commercial line is pretty well tested and give fairly consistent results. The mx and putative products are in a testing phase to determine what, if anything, they do. They are not a good place for beginners to start. Experienced users often test them out but they understand that the experimental products may not even do anything. ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/4 "2009-05-27T06:32:36Z")
Hi Jay Welcome to the forum Yes pheromones work and I’m still suprised with how effctive they are are. Good and bad experiiences Tell us more about your personality and what jamesbonded has said, so we can recommend products best suited for your needs. So Tisha can give you your **GC** and get you started on you PheroMoning adventrues ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2009, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/5 "2009-05-27T21:47:22Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Yes mones do work but please take a minute to read what they can do and what they cant do. The link to the post is in my signature below. They are also not a one size fits all kind of product. If you can tell us a bit about your personality traits and how you interact with others now. What kind of environments you plan to use them, (school clubs work etc etc) We can help you find the products that will fit your needs. You will also then qualify for your GC. I look forward to your reply Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Jay55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@Jay55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jay55)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 3:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/6 "2009-05-28T03:41:11Z")
Thanks to all the replies so far!! Basically, I am a very outgoing person and have no problems making friends with others. I interact heavily with others at work, school, my internship, and in my community as a volunteer coach. It is when I am unfamiliar with someone that I become shy, timid, and do not talk much (females) and especially when I am attracted to them. The field of work I am in definitely commands a lot of respect, which I certainly have garnered, but more could always help. I am definitely interested in pheromones that would help with confidence, respect, and also relationships. There are a couple of females I am good friends with that I wouldn’t mind getting to the next level with relationship-wise, and I really don’t care about the sexual aspect at the current time. I have a tremendous work load and I work really hard, but when it comes time to relax and try to connect with others that I am unfamiliar with I am at a loss. I would use the Respect and Confidence pheromones at work and also at my internship, and I would use the relationship pheromones in social contexts like class, recreation, and such. I am highly unexperienced in the field of pheromones and will take any help I can get. I have always been skeptical as I mentioned before, but I have seen the Androtics line for a while and have been interested in trying those out. Thanks again to all, I really appreciate all the help and information!! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/7 "2009-05-28T04:01:46Z")
For the good female friends, try AMMO and IH. AMmo will make them attracted to you. IH will make them closer to you. This will build the relationship. For unfamiliar girls, try IO and Shine. IO will give you the ege to approach girls. It is an ice breakers and make girls want to talk to you. SHine will uplift your mood and the mood of the people around you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/8 "2009-05-28T04:05:21Z")
Thanks for the info! You should definitely start with Ammo. It is a great all around product that will boost your confidence and give you a sexy edge, and can be worn in any situation or environment. For those times when you are feeling shy, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will really help get conversation flowing. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, which will definitely help in getting close to the women you are interested in. At work, A314 can’t be beat. It will increase your confidence and give you a stronger alpha-male aura that will in turn increase respect towards you. I hope this helps! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2009, 9:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/9 "2009-05-28T09:44:35Z")
Hi Thanks for providing more info. The members covered the perfect products for you to start out with. Just a few words about A314. It is a fantastic product and as SK mentioned cant be beat in the work environment. It can attract women as well but you need to lead more when wearing it. If you have trouble with women approaching when using it socially just layer with some IO. This will soften the vibe and make you more approachable. If you have any questions or need any help just ask. **Your GC is on its way** and we hope to here from you in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Jay55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@Jay55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jay55)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/10 "2009-05-29T22:45:59Z")
Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. I am going to try some of the things mentioned and let you know how it all goes!! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/11 "2009-05-29T22:51:31Z")
> [@Jay55](#): > > Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. I am going to try some of the things mentioned and let you know how it all goes!! Great! I can’t wait to read about your advnetures! What did you decide on, anyway? ---
**Author:** ![Jay55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@Jay55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jay55)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/12 "2009-05-29T23:14:50Z")
To Start, I am going to go with A314, Instant Shine, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). I am a very honest person so I already do a good job of getting the most out of people in conversations, altho I do think that Instant Honesty would be interesting to try to see what happens. Problem is, I don’t want others to know I am using pheromones that I live with, so I am going to wait until next week to order when I can be here in the morning for the shipment to arrive. If they are home I can always make up an excuse as to what it is. Does this sound like a good start, or is there something else you would recommend in addition to / instead of?? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/29317/13 "2009-05-29T23:36:31Z")
> [@Jay55](#): > > To Start, I am going to go with A314, Instant Shine, and Instant Openness. I am a very honest person so I already do a good job of getting the most out of people in conversations, altho I do think that Instant Honesty would be interesting to try to see what happens. Problem is, I don’t want others to know I am using pheromones that I live with, so I am going to wait until next week to order when I can be here in the morning for the shipment to arrive. If they are home I can always make up an excuse as to what it is. > > Does this sound like a good start, or is there something else you would recommend in addition to / instead of?? Those sound like perfect ones to start with! A nice variety of different effects - alpha-confidence/respect, sparkly glow, and more easily flowing conversation 🙂