# Hi There :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 19, 2010, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153 "2010-07-19T23:13:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pheron00b81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8c91f0/32.png) [@pheron00b81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheron00b81)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2010, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/1 "2010-07-19T23:13:50Z")
\*\* > [@](#): > > \*\***a) Your age, or general range** > **b) Sex (male, female),** > **c) General location (don’t worry, nobody wants to stalk you 🙂), and** > **d) Most importantly, tell us a bit about yourself**, **your personality** , \*\*why you’re here, and what you hope pheromones will do for you. a) 25-30 b) Female c) Mid Atlantic d) I am new to pheromones, but have been lurking in the forum. I finally got brave and registered. I am a little pessimistic, but I still love life and my boyfriend. I am here because he told me about the site. It turns out he has made a couple orders for [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Turn Up The Heat x2. He told me there were pheromones for women, too. I was very interested in trying one out. Knowing how effective they were on me, I am hoping to get the same reaction out of him 🙂 \*\* ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2010, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/2 "2010-07-19T23:50:16Z")
Welcome. For your boyfriend, I would suggest trying out IShine yourself and either Instant Sexiness A or B. A is more alpha, dominating female while B is cute, girly girl sexy. Maybe some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or Instant Honesty as well. Tell us a little more about your personality though? Outgoing, conserved, laid back, etc.? Is there anything else you hope to accomplish through pheromones? You job, for instance. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2010, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/3 "2010-07-19T23:52:57Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk pheron00b81!, That’s really cool that you and your boyfriend are starting your pheromone journey together. It’s also pretty cool that you were able to experience the power of pheromones first hand (unknowingly) through your boyfriend. TheBoogieMan gave some great advice. I’d like to add to it The products I would recommend for you are Instant Shine(which you already have through your boyfriend), Spaceland ( which makes for a fun giggly time- I wear it a lot when I go to parties), and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)( lead to more trust/bonding/connections during conversations- I think this could be good in a relationship). I don’t know too much about the women’s products though so I am hoping that a woman stops by here and can give you some suggestions on the products that are exclusively for women. I think it could help them tailor the suggestion specifically for you if you tell us a little more about yourself: What’s you personality like? What kind of effects do you want to see out of pheromones? Ciao ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/4 "2010-07-20T00:04:02Z")
Boogie’s advice is good. I would like to add that [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is a great mone to have in your collection when in a relationship. It can really help bonding and finding out more about eachother. If your looking to increase that bond, get it ---
**Author:** ![pheron00b81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8c91f0/32.png) [@pheron00b81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheron00b81)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/5 "2010-07-20T00:12:00Z")
I am laid back most of the time. I am already chatty and outgoing. I am not hoping for some miracle to spice up our love life. I just want to add to what is already great. I am interested in the IS/W/B to use for him for the times I am surprise him with with a nightie when he comes home from work. I also like the idea of IS/W/A for dinner dates, or trips to the movies, etc. I already tried Instant Shine. I do not plan on using them for work. Really only looking for leisure hours. History of the BF’s pheromones: He started off with shine, openness, and honesty. He uses the openness and honesty on random, spread out occasions. He uses instant shine every couple of days. He likes mixing them in with his lighter smelling colognes, which I love. At least once a week, he teases me by wearing [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) 2x, which absolutely makes my heart race, lol. He grabs me gently and holds me close, the whole time, making hotter and hotter. Did I miss anything? ---
**Author:** ![pheron00b81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8c91f0/32.png) [@pheron00b81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheron00b81)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/6 "2010-07-20T00:14:49Z")
Oh! the unknowing part, I only did not know the first couple of times he used them. However, I knew something was up when he walked up to me, kissed me, and within seconds then temperature skyrocketed down below, lol. That just doesn’t happen to me. ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2010, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/40153/7 "2010-07-20T00:18:58Z")
“I knew something was up when he walked up to me, kissed me, and within seconds then temperature skyrocketed down below, lol. That just doesn’t happen to me.” -that should be the advertisement on the bottle =P