# Hi there **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 27, 2011, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067 "2011-04-27T14:06:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![workinkiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/65b543/32.png) [@workinkiwi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/workinkiwi)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 2:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067/1 "2011-04-27T14:06:54Z")
Hi How you ppl doin? My name is Dellas and im a 33 yr old father of 4. Currently live in New South Wales, Australia but born in New Zealand. Im here to look into these sprays as now with 4 kids i need all the help i can to get the mrs in the mood so a spray might just be what im looking for 😛. Hope this stuff works. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067/2 "2011-04-27T14:31:38Z")
Hi Dellas - Welcome to pherotalk. 🙂 TUTH is great in a relationship and you should have few problems with none at your age. Similarly, some of the socials - IS can be used to lift the mood and IH can be used to increase closeness. ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 2:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067/3 "2011-04-27T14:46:46Z")
hi Workinkiwi: I’ll second mobocaster’s recommendations and add that if you get those products, try the IH first to hopefully increase the intimacy level a bit – get her more focused on you and off of the hectic juggling of kids, chores, etc. THEN bring in the TUTH to make things more physical. Depending on her mood and daily schedule, I can totally see a huge hit of TUTH out of the blue backfiring and making her irritable. You need to get her mentally in the mood before trying to ratchet up her physical attraction to you. Welcome to the forum! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2011, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067/4 "2011-04-27T18:54:13Z")
Hey there, workinkiwi! Welcome to the mone forum! Ya know, I’d say that xev and mobo have come at you from different views but still both are looking out for you. I’ve read people in LTR have some great experiences with TUTH. If its a matter of spicing things up and both are inclined, TUTH is great. I’ve had better luck in getting my LTR to ‘get’ in the mood with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and IO. Being happy and relaxed around me and chatty together brings about a closeness that will lead up to a happy ending…🙂 TUTH puts out a signal of a ready and willing male here with the sexual attraction vibe sent. If you don’t put out that signal already with your attitude, this will provide it. Now, as xev mentioned, if she is tired, at the end of a long day, it don’t matter how much the vibe is shouting out, she may just want to rest… A constant balancing act, being in an LTR, making time for your SO and taking care of responsibilities in the home. You know her and what she is going through, so keep these points in mind when trying out some of these mones. Cheers! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/50067/5 "2011-04-28T19:58:57Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Workinkiwi! The vote seems to be unanimous on what products you should buy to spice things up and I have to say I totally agree with them. Let us know when you order your products how it worked out. Keep us updated. **Your gc was issued! 😉**