# Hi There!!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 14, 2013, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523 "2013-11-14T07:30:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tourbillonmoi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tourbillonmoi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tourbillonmoi)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2013, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/1 "2013-11-14T07:30:36Z")
Hello, I’m a 36 yo Female. I fell into [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) by reading a thread on a forum that I visit. I’m hoping to find something that will break that barrier I seem to have. I’ve been told that I am attractive however I am never approached. Please advise. TM ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2013, 7:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/2 "2013-11-14T07:33:29Z")
Hello! I won’t ask you to mention the forum, but what on that site made you choose this one. Also, can you describe your personality at bit more? One version of [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would be a logical choice. But I don’t think Sexiness A would be quite right here. If you think you could be most congruent with the kittenish vibe of **B** , I’d try that. _“Being “outgoing and submissive” does seem confusing and is fodder for discussion in and of itself. Anyways, if your TG is on the alpha side you might find that he responds better to the softer kitten vibe of IS//B, not to say that more beta type guys don’t like that vibe as well.”_ > [@Instant Sexiness A vs B dilemma! :S](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-a-vs-b-dilemma-s/44483): > > I would like some help choosing between Instant Sexiness A and B for my first order. stuck_out_tongue I can only really afford two To-Go bottles at the moment (boooo), so the other one is going to be [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) X2. After reading the usual share of IS/A vs IS/B posts, B appealed to me more than A, but I think my personality is closer to A. I don’t know if I fit the ‘alpha female’ type, but I get quite competitive and I like to take charge. I’m loud, outgoing, talkative and am described as… ---
**Author:** ![tourbillonmoi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tourbillonmoi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tourbillonmoi)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2013, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/3 "2013-11-14T07:46:57Z")
It was a lady hair care forum that had a thread about using pheromones to attract men. My exterior and interior do not match. Great packaging but an introvert. I’m loyal, shy, slow to warm up, funny, kind, does better in small groups. confidence is a bit low these days. Looking for a alpha male to balance the “alpha” in me. ---
**Author:** ![tourbillonmoi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a183cd/32.png) [@tourbillonmoi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tourbillonmoi)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2013, 8:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/4 "2013-11-14T08:09:34Z")
The forum had a thread about using pheromones to attract men. I’m a bit of an introvert, need to loosen up. I’m funny, kind, loyal, do better in smaller groups. Interested in a alpha male, attract betas 😕. Confidence is a bit low these days. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2013, 12:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/5 "2013-11-14T12:28:40Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! For the introvert in you look at [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), I find it draws me out of my shell and gets me engaging strangers more. It’s the ‘happiness pheromone’ and generally makes people more pleasant but I do find it helps getting me leaning a little towards extrovert instead of deep-cover introvert. For the men, definitely look at the Instant Sexiness line. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2013, 12:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-there/60523/6 "2013-11-22T00:29:33Z")
Welcome Tour, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!