# Hi, this and that.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [February 18, 2007, 11:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105 "2007-02-18T23:39:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/42 "2007-02-20T02:32:04Z")

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> [@Flipsider](#):
>
> alright, I bought the following:
> 
> [MX144](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to [MX147](https://pheromonelabs.com/) [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) Test Pack (MX144-147)  
> [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (Regular)  
> [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) - To Go! (Double)  
> [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) - To Go! (2,5mcg/spray)  
> [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) - To Go! (Double)  
> [AMMUNITION](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) - To Go! (Regular)
> 
> I think it’s more than a usual test package.. I’m just one of those who needs a little more than wanted. And if something doesnt work the way it should, Ill check the guarantee and if that doesnt suit me, there’s a friendly nerd neighbor I might be able to give it to.

IO has been my new best friend since i started pairing it with everything…

your going to have a _blast_

[http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/party0032.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/party0032.gif)

awesome order.

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**Author:** ![The\_GQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@The\_GQ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_GQ)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/43 "2007-02-20T03:19:40Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
>
> Instant Openness has been my new best friend since i started pairing it with everything…
> 
> your going to have a _blast_
> 
> [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/party0032.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/party0032.gif)
> 
> awesome order.

Ughhh I knew i forgot something on my order…:o There’s always a next time..lol 🙄

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**Author:** ![Quicksilver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/quicksilver/32/1328_2.png) [@Quicksilver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Quicksilver)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 8:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/44 "2007-02-20T08:57:38Z")

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> [@Flipsider](#):
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> Ah.. ok. Easy.
> 
> I need comments about my look.. you can see my avatar right now (EDIT, removed it), but if you need better pictures, here’s my myspace with good images: [www.myspace.com/fl1psider](http://myspace.com/fl1psider)
> 
> - Im not trying to reffer anyone to become a friend on myspace.. I am currently removing more than 1000 of them.

Hey um. I checked out your pic on myspace and … well, it looks like you have a growth on your face to the right of your chin that looks remarkably like a fist. Is that what they call a fistula?

I’m kidding around obviously, but it is hard to comment on your look with a fist blocking most of it. 😛

Well, I’ll go away now. Perhaps I made someone laugh. 🙄

Cheers,

🆒 Quicksilver

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/45 "2007-02-20T10:03:31Z")

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Thanks.. lol, actually if you have myspace and login, you can view all my pictures by clicking the first.

But heres some imgs.

[http://a228.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l\_83674c16a65baa81afa4290d86f1e96b.png](http://a228.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_83674c16a65baa81afa4290d86f1e96b.png)  
[http://a341.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l\_a39f311ada35e3d9518465ba988733c4.jpg](http://a341.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_a39f311ada35e3d9518465ba988733c4.jpg)  
[http://a337.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/22/l\_f646fb305908e3254bfec4119c9253f0.jpg](http://a337.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/22/l_f646fb305908e3254bfec4119c9253f0.jpg)  
[http://a926.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l\_7849246f2606cce61f9f3a2e0e431765.jpg](http://a926.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_7849246f2606cce61f9f3a2e0e431765.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/46 "2007-02-20T14:16:46Z")

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Thanks.. lol, actually if you have myspace and login, you can view all my pictures by clicking the first.

But heres some imgs.

[http://a228.ac-images.myspacecdn.com…0d86f1e96b.png](http://a228.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_83674c16a65baa81afa4290d86f1e96b.png)  
[http://a341.ac-images.myspacecdn.com…ba988733c4.jpg](http://a341.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_a39f311ada35e3d9518465ba988733c4.jpg)  
[http://a337.ac-images.myspacecdn.com…119c9253f0.jpg](http://a337.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/22/l_f646fb305908e3254bfec4119c9253f0.jpg)  
[http://a926.ac-images.myspacecdn.com…2e0e431765.jpg](http://a926.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_7849246f2606cce61f9f3a2e0e431765.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/47 "2007-02-20T14:19:38Z")

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are you a pretty artistic guy,flip?

are you wondering if people view you the way you view you?

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/48 "2007-02-20T14:20:56Z")

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what do you mean..?

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/49 "2007-02-20T14:23:07Z")

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im wondering where the curiousity about your look stems from .  
you said you wanted comments?

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/50 "2007-02-20T14:27:05Z")

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yeah I did.. there are some that think im really hot and good looking but then again I dont get enough attention… im invisible 60% of my time.

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**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/51 "2007-02-20T14:35:59Z")

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You look like my friend’s son (19) - very much so, and in that respect, I feel you’re WAY too young for me to comment on, but you obviously care about aesthetic aspects a bit TOO much.

Here’s a tip. Don’t rely on how you LOOK, instead be more concerned about the person you ARE, and the person you will grow to become.

Someone who shines from the inside-out like a lazer-beam to the soul, is far more attractive than someone who just looks cute.

I have said this before; if the outer packaging looks pretty but the contents have no substance, I, and MANY people lose interest very quickly.

Looks are but skin-deep and fade in time, like the petals on even the finest and hardiest rose.

Instead, concentrate on using your [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) as tools to bring out the great INNER you.

THAT is sexy and attractive.

Ail 🙂

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/52 "2007-02-20T14:38:01Z")

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i have met some of the hottest men ever (as a bartender) and as guys usually do, they think the outside is everything and the inside is what you find out later.

i think i got most the dates i got because i was aloof,their outside was _blah blah blah_ to me. they cant wrap their head around that.  
to guys, its all about the outside 😉

i tell people here, if a guy wants to attract another like mind,keep thinking the way they are… but if you want to attract any and ALL, think like a gal.

😮

that means care about whats on the outside, but not more importantly than the whole package.

if you take nicholas cage for instance (saw him in ghostrider this weekend, thought i would dream of him for a week!) he has alot of physical flaws… nothing is symmetric and he isnt the typical pretty-boy actor.  
sorry, but he’s mutha freakin HOT.  
his personality/character over rides anything that can be picked apart on the outside, and that makes him uncontrollably charasmatic and _SEXXAY_.

to me, that translates into “noticed”.

conclusion:handsome/hot is

98% _what you do_ with what you have to work with

2% _who_ you are attracted to

had to reply here eventually, i study why some people are charasmatic, when alot of “hotter” people are not 🙂

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**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/53 "2007-02-20T14:45:05Z")

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DZING!

Get out of my head, Lor!

Gotsa go, classes to annihi-err…teach .

Now THAT, was funny… ^\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_^

Ail 🙂

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/54 "2007-02-20T14:46:26Z")

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA AIL !!! 😛

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/55 "2007-02-20T14:47:35Z")

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Thanks, I do know that but I still need to know how girls think of me because I keep thinking im invisible to most. It will make it easier for me to communicate with any girl.

What’s aesthetic aspects.

And I do know my “inside” I know all about myself, Im even sure I know myself more than you know yourself even though youre alot older than me. THats why I started asking about my outside.

There is this girl who met me and shes like.. 20, 3 years older than me and even she has a big crush on me which annoys me abit too much..

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**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/56 "2007-02-20T14:58:54Z")

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No , I do not think you know yourself better than I know myself, and with all due respect, you don’t know ZIP about yourself at age 17, no matter what you think.

Life is one giant learning-curve, and we are ALWAYS taking in something new.

THAT is what embroidering Life’s Rich Tapestry is all about.

My youngest students are three years older than you, and not ONE of them knows themselves yet. You may feel older and you may in fact act a bit older or have a maturity rare (very, for a male of your age) to your age-group, but you most certainly do NOT know more than I do about myself.

It’s all very well having a confidence in yourself and THINKING you know it all, but it’s a very much better thing to say “Oh wait, that I did NOT know..”

I’ve been a doctor for more than 15 years, and do you think a day passes when I don’t discover something I didn’t previously know?

Not a chance. We all learn. We all evolve. We all grow.

SUCH, is the circle of life.

Ail 🙂

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/57 "2007-02-20T15:11:46Z")

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the only thing i can say is to _humor_ what others tell you;  
_consider_ that they might have something there;  
and understand if you _really_ knew yourself you would also know you ask questions about your aesthetics because you _dont know_ that it might not be that. 😉

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/58 "2007-02-20T15:19:08Z")

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I know most people at my age still don’t know all about themselves.. and I’m sure I don’t know everything about myself either.  
But I do know that the people who checked my IQ told be that I was thinking huge years ahead and soon I might be some kind of unique beast and I would start to see everyone at my age a lot younger than me and I might then become a loner because I think completely different and more advance than they do..

And it’s all true. Most people my age don’t even take a chance on hitting someone who doesn’t look good enough, they’re just not interested at all. Or they do, but then get another girl or just break up for no actual very good reason.

I don’t care about that as long as the girl doesn’t look like an alien or a man.  
I also had 2 years of LDR (Long Distance Relationship) and it went great, not even the need of touching and always looking at each others skin (Not that I never met her, we had amazing days when we did see each other, and that’s most likely because of LDR).

A few weeks ago when I had 4 exams in one day, I got a call in the morning from my ex just when I was about to leave for school to meet up with some friends first before the first exam.  
She told me it was important so I came.  
When I arrived at her, I saw that she cut her damn wrists, couldn’t believe it at first because she usually is one of the cutest and most innocent girls I know out there, so maybe too much.  
I helped her out, brought her to the hospital and when I went back, all exams were over.  
I can’t redo them, I have no Idea why .. don’t know. I also had a few other problems this year so I’m 95% sure I will receive a letter this week saying I don’t have to come back to college anymore.. but I don’t feel bad about myself… somehow..

Even though I now have absolutely no graduation and can’t do lots of occuptions, I’m not troubled or even worried about my future at all.. I will go to the army next year, perhaps have a graduation through the army and if not, I can get it right after.

I saved her life and screwed up mine, but I’m happy for that and have no bad feelings.

There are a lot of things in my life you wouldn’t believe.. no matter if you’re a doctor or not, nobody will ever understand me unless they’re with me and want to understand.can get into my mind. I’m just different, and I’ve heard most of my Ex-girlfriends haven’t stopped loving me and they say it’s an amazing experience to be with me.

EDIT: A doctor might have a high IQ and an intelligent mind and a high occuption, but being on the street, moving countries, drowning from one of the highest college year ratings (don’t know how to call it) to no graduation at all, traveling to over 40 countries before your 18th, it’s a far more experienced mind into the actual world rather than being a basic doctor (no offence to you at all).

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/59 "2007-02-20T15:51:58Z")

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edited post to make it a lot more understandable.

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**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 4:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/60 "2007-02-20T16:07:22Z")

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good luck with that 🙂  
i am sure you will find new and unusual ways to cope with all your loss. in the meantime, we know pheromones. let us know how we can help (if we can) all you have to do is ask.

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**Author:** ![Flip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/53a042/32.png) [@Flip](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flip)\
**Post date:** [February 20, 2007, 4:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-and-that/2105/61 "2007-02-20T16:17:34Z")

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I know that when a girl does talk to me, there will most likely be a great connection with me. However, I don’t talk to girls _just like that_ anymore, therefore I want to try this stuff remember? To get them TO me so they can see who I am. Thats why I also asked for opinions on how I look like because it’s still much easier to start a conversation with someone attractive rather than a normal person… or even ugly?

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