# Hi, this is awesome! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 19, 2009, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095 "2009-01-19T22:19:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JohnMD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19adc/32.png) [@JohnMD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnMD)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/1 "2009-01-19T22:19:39Z")
Hey, So pleased to be here. I’ve been doing some shopping around and found the shop section of this site to be such a happy medium between the overly infomercial sites for things like pherlure, and the downright creepy shops for the pheros that look like they’re some kind of mad science formula. Then I found the community, and I realized how great this place was. Real people really using these products, and getting real results. And on top of that offering a gift certificate to new members! If that isn’t a warm welcome, and confidence about your product, I don’t know what is. So, about me. My name is John, and I’m a male (if you couldn’t tell) going to college at your typical state university in Maryland. I am 19 years old. I live in the Baltimore area, but just outside the city limits. I am studying film, and some of my regular activities are working out and studying Krav Maga, which is a fighting system, like a martial art. But the more pressing question is why I am here. For a long time now I’ve been that nice guy. You know the one. The one who always ends up in that dreaded friend zone. I’m not really shy around girls, or unpopular. In fact, most of my crowd at school consists of many very good looking girls. My typical joke is water, water everywhere, and not a drop to drink. They are pretty damn comfortable around me, because as I said, the nice guy. I’ve seen a fair bit, but it never seems to be mine. And when I do go after a crush or interest, always I get the same answer. Just friends. Funny thing is that those same people will tell me how sweet and amazing I am, most particularly when doing stuff for others. Color me confused. I mean, since I started college, I’ve improved myself a lot. I got into working out, and lost a lot of weight. Then I got into Krav Maga, which really should make me be the badass, no? But I still seem to be safe old John. So I learned my lesson from supplements that gave me an edge in working out, and the idea of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) came to me. Don’t know if it was general knowledge, or I had heard about them before, but I googled it, and found as I noted earlier, the infomercials, and the creepy sites. This one seemed better. I really feel like I just need an edge. Not looking for a miracle drug, I just want some sexual appeal so that the “just friends” may see me in a little different light, or at the very least, I make better use of that window of time before I get trapped in the dreaded friend zone. There are great girls all over the place at college, single too, and I’m tired of being alone. I think I’m pretty great and if I could get my foot in the door, I could get on with things, make life a little easier on myself, and finally get to having some fun. College is supposed to be the best years of my life, right? And so this community. It seems great so far. Really looking forward to meeting all of you, seeing how you use these products, and testing them for myself. I think I’ll go with Ammo first, since that seems so bread and butter for so many. I’m interested in trying several, that jerk one caught my eye especially. And in turn I will definitely fill you in on my results, and be the best possible help to the overall community in terms of furthering the observation and study of these pheromones in terms of sexual attraction. And who knows? If that works out, I wouldn’t mind testing some others. Maybe have an easier time getting people to trust me doing Krav self defense seminars? Or go for more of am alpha dog if I’m instructing, or competing in MMA? Or maybe just a general mood lift for a pitch for a film project? Really looking forward to exploring the possibilities, and making some friends here along the way. 😃 John ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/2 "2009-01-19T22:24:59Z")
hey welcome! what a great intro 🙂 i hope to answer some of your questions. so first off, you talked about how you dont like being in the friend zone and the such. you should consider give turn up the heat or instant jerk a shot 🙂 turn up the heat, in my opinion, is a great product. ive used them on myself (dabbed a little under the nose) and found my guy friends waaay more attractive then they are. which, is probably the effect you are wanting to go for. ammo, while is a great product, is sometimes not recommended for younger people like yourself. you should def. inquire more about that in the guy’s forum, but as long as you dont over do it, it should be a great product to use everyday to gain respect and to get some more attention. i really like all their instant lines, so instant jerk, without question should be a great one to use every now and then also. just make sure u dont use it everyday 🙂 also, maybe you should consider trying instant honesty? it’s a great phero to get people to trust you more and maybe layer this with turn up the heat or ammo to amp up the sexual level. if you have more questions, please dont hesitate to ask 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/3 "2009-01-19T22:25:46Z")
> [@JohnMD](#): > > Hey, > > So pleased to be here. I’ve been doing some shopping around and found the shop section of this site to be such a happy medium between the overly infomercial sites for things like pherlure, and the downright creepy shops for the pheros that look like they’re some kind of mad science formula. Then I found the community, and I realized how great this place was. Real people really using these products, and getting real results. And on top of that offering a gift certificate to new members! If that isn’t a warm welcome, and confidence about your product, I don’t know what is. > > So, about me. My name is John, and I’m a male (if you couldn’t tell) going to college at your typical state university in Maryland. I am 19 years old. I live in the Baltimore area, but just outside the city limits. I am studying film, and some of my regular activities are working out and studying Krav Maga, which is a fighting system, like a martial art. > > But the more pressing question is why I am here. For a long time now I’ve been that nice guy. You know the one. The one who always ends up in that dreaded friend zone. I’m not really shy around girls, or unpopular. In fact, most of my crowd at school consists of many very good looking girls. My typical joke is water, water everywhere, and not a drop to drink. They are pretty damn comfortable around me, because as I said, the nice guy. I’ve seen a fair bit, but it never seems to be mine. And when I do go after a crush or interest, always I get the same answer. Just friends. Funny thing is that those same people will tell me how sweet and amazing I am, most particularly when doing stuff for others. Color me confused. I mean, since I started college, I’ve improved myself a lot. I got into working out, and lost a lot of weight. Then I got into Krav Maga, which really should make me be the badass, no? But I still seem to be safe old John. So I learned my lesson from supplements that gave me an edge in working out, and the idea of pheromones came to me. Don’t know if it was general knowledge, or I had heard about them before, but I googled it, and found as I noted earlier, the infomercials, and the creepy sites. This one seemed better. I really feel like I just need an edge. Not looking for a miracle drug, I just want some sexual appeal so that the “just friends” may see me in a little different light, or at the very least, I make better use of that window of time before I get trapped in the dreaded friend zone. There are great girls all over the place at college, single too, and I’m tired of being alone. I think I’m pretty great and if I could get my foot in the door, I could get on with things, make life a little easier on myself, and finally get to having some fun. College is supposed to be the best years of my life, right? > > And so this community. It seems great so far. Really looking forward to meeting all of you, seeing how you use these products, and testing them for myself. I think I’ll go with Ammo first, since that seems so bread and butter for so many. I’m interested in trying several, that jerk one caught my eye especially. And in turn I will definitely fill you in on my results, and be the best possible help to the overall community in terms of furthering the observation and study of these pheromones in terms of sexual attraction. And who knows? If that works out, I wouldn’t mind testing some others. Maybe have an easier time getting people to trust me doing Krav self defense seminars? Or go for more of am alpha dog if I’m instructing, or competing in MMA? Or maybe just a general mood lift for a pitch for a film project? Really looking forward to exploring the possibilities, and making some friends here along the way. > > 😃 > > John Hi John and welcome to the forum! Nice, long info there 🙂 Sounds to me like you might benefit from something like Come talk To Me or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Both are great socials that help break the ice and make people feel comfortable around you. They also make people chattier and approach you more. Another great one is Instant Shine, its an awesome all rounder that boosts your mood & self confidence giving you a happy, youthful and approachable vibe. Its great to combine with other phero’s. Ammo is always a good one for attracting the girls, it’s not too sexual like TUTH which is best used once you actually get to the bedroom 🙄 And don’t forget us girls are different to you guys…always pair a sexual phero with a social or you can end up scaring us away…and you dont want that now do you? Any questions just ask 😉 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/4 "2009-01-19T22:29:39Z")
Hi, like remmy says, great intro! A couple of things jump out at me, the friend zone, once in it is generally inescapable, something like IFM might help get the girls comfortable with you at an earlier stage, then [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and ammo to zap the sexual buzz. Have a look round the PUA threads, pick up some hints. Nice guys get the girls friendship, not always what he wants. You might find a bit of bad boy is a good thing. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/5 "2009-01-19T22:32:35Z")
Hey there John, welcome to the forums! Wow, that was a great introduction there! I think we can do something to help you out here. First off though, i wanted to note that you mentioned interest in Instant Jerk. Was this to find out if pheromones work, or for the purpose of getting girls? Because if its the latter, i would NOT recommend this for you. If you get lumped into the friends category all the time, then i doubt you’ll have the attitude to pull off the “i just got laid, you want some too?” personality. If you want to see if they work, then by all means. But i recommend a to-go bottle then. 😉 From everything you’ve mentioned, i would recommend Ammo, Instant Shine, and Instant Gentleman for you. Let’s go through them one at a time. Ammo is a -none based product (sexual) that has been well buffered with [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) (the major difference between Ammo and Turn Up The Heat) so that you can wear it to everyday activities while still adding that bit of sexual tension. Turn Up The Heat has it’s place (mainly bars/clubs and for relationship spicing), but Ammo has just as much -none and is alot harder to overdose with. Very good to begin with. It comes pre-mixed with a cologne, just to let you know, but most women i’ve worn it around liked the scent. Smells something like Irish Tweed, if that helps. Instant Shine gives off a “healthy glow” to the people around you, makes them feel happy and upbeat, and has the self-effect for most people of boosting confidence a bit. Very good product for everyday use, and when girls feel great around you, of course they’re going to want to do it more often. Instant Gentleman is a -rone based product (i believe?) that gives off a cool, mature vibe that is still approachable. From how you described yourself and how you wrote, i think this one would work well for you. It’s not intimidating like an alpha male aura, but gives off more of the “care and provider” vibe that girls just love. Well, if you have any more questions, feel free to ask away! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![JohnMD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19adc/32.png) [@JohnMD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnMD)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/6 "2009-01-19T22:56:41Z")
I do have a couple actually. First, thanks everyone for answering so fast. This place is obviously gonna be great. My only confusion is some advice you guys have in terms of stuff like Gentleman, Honesty, and such. See, as far as I can tell, I’m already seen as gentlemanly, and certainly they feel open and trust me. I just think I have all that without so much the sexual appeal, you know? Like every time they see me as a great guy but just that attraction isn’t always there. Not always, and sure I could gain some by approaching more, but generally I find the problem being the dealmaking, not the initial approach if you get me. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 12:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/7 "2009-01-20T00:21:43Z")
hey 🙂 yeah i see what you mean. i really think you can gain a lot from giving turn up the heat a shot. also, maybe ammo? that’s my personal opinion 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/8 "2009-01-20T02:34:11Z")
Hello John, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha, Nice to meet you. I am the hostess and a Phero expert here on PT. Diamond hit the nail on the head for your situation. AMMO to let them know there is a bit more to you then that friendly guy who does things for people. Masculine sexy mildly arousing safe to wear anywhere. IFM to get past last minute resistance. Increase affection and give a contented calm feeling. Great around bitchy female professors to. 😉 IH for a deeper connected intimate feeling. Now do you go out to clubs parties bars or any other social events where women are. ? Your in college I am sure you do LOL This is when we break out the big guns. TUTH, will make them defiantly see you as a sexual male. Its highly arousing. Not good to use in normal everyday environments though. Just in a sexually charged atmosphere like I mentioned above. Now not only do they give you a GC, but they give you 500 points for signing up at the store which is $5. They sell small to-go bottles so you can test things out at a low cost to. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![JohnMD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19adc/32.png) [@JohnMD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnMD)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2009, 6:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-this-is-awesome/25095/9 "2009-01-20T18:59:48Z")
Ordered [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) to go for normal use trying out, and TUTH for a club a bunch of people are going to in a week when spring semester starts. I’ll let you know how it works and then maybe test out some others, thanks.