# Hi! tomboy from the Midwest! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 24, 2007, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714 "2007-03-24T23:08:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tomboy05](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tomboy05/32/2320_2.png) [@tomboy05](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tomboy05)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/1 "2007-03-24T23:08:12Z")
Hey everyone! I’m a 20 year old girl living in Midwest United States. I am a tomboy, but I am also a very shy person. I know that it might sound strange for a girl who’s most of her friends are guys have problems getting a date, but there you have it. I would just rather the guy make the first move, and I’m hoping this will give me an edge. And on that note: boys, most girls will be flattered if you ask her out, even if she does turn you down. Don’t be afraid to ask! And even if she does mock you for asking her out, well, at least you already know that she is not worth your time. ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2007, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/2 "2007-03-24T23:18:33Z")
> [@tomboy05](#): > > Hey everyone! I’m a 20 year old girl living in Midwest United States. I am a tomboy, but I am also a very shy person. I know that it might sound strange for a girl who’s most of her friends are guys have problems getting a date, but there you have it. I would just rather the guy make the first move, and I’m hoping this will give me an edge. And on that note: boys, most girls will be flattered if you ask her out, even if she does turn you down. Don’t be afraid to ask! And even if she does mock you for asking her out, well, at least you already know that she is not worth your time. Welcome to the forum, tomboy05! I will be looking forward to more posts from you. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 9:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/3 "2007-04-02T09:42:27Z")
Heya tomboy, how’s it going! > [@](#): > > And on that note: boys, most girls will be flattered if you ask her out, even if she does turn you down. Don’t be afraid to ask! And even if she does mock you for asking her out, well, at least you already know that she is not worth your time. You’re so ridiculously spot on, girl. Rejection is a BLESSING! If someone says “no” to you, they weren’t any fun, anyway, and it’s so much easier getting that over with in 30 seconds than it is in 30 months or years! Welcome to the forum, tomboy! I see you’ve already made yourself at hom ein the Womens forum, so I’ll catch you over there. I just wanted to update you to let you know that your gift cert has been sent. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tomboy05](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tomboy05/32/2320_2.png) [@tomboy05](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tomboy05)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/4 "2007-04-02T12:11:29Z")
Yay! Thanks Jasmin! I just checked my inbox and I didn’t see it. Does it usually take a little bit to reach my inbox? ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/5 "2007-04-02T20:07:59Z")
Check now, check now! Or give me a call if you’re having any trouble. I’ll help you out 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tomboy05](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tomboy05/32/2320_2.png) [@tomboy05](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tomboy05)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/6 "2007-04-02T22:17:34Z")
Thanks Jas! I got it now. Wow, this day has certainly gotten better. I had gotten out of my chem lab (we had to redo it since we messed up), so I was a little down and tired. But when I got back to my residence hall, I had a package waiting for me with my [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) (including a sample of Instant Openess, thanks!) and then I checked my email and found your message. Congrats Jas. You have certainly turned my day around 😉 ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2007, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi-tomboy-from-the-midwest/2714/7 "2007-04-02T22:56:30Z")
> [@tomboy05](#): > > Hey everyone! I’m a 20 year old girl living in Midwest United States. I am a tomboy, but I am also a very shy person. I know that it might sound strange for a girl who’s most of her friends are guys have problems getting a date, but there you have it. I would just rather the guy make the first move, and I’m hoping this will give me an edge. And on that note: boys, most girls will be flattered if you ask her out, even if she does turn you down. Don’t be afraid to ask! And even if she does mock you for asking her out, well, at least you already know that she is not worth your time. Yeah! More people from the Midwest. Wooo! I was fealing a little lonely 😛