# Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 23, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333 "2008-03-23T16:30:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bambi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/74df32/32.png) [@Bambi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bambi)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/1 "2008-03-23T16:30:22Z")
Hi all, I’ve stumbled upon this discussion of [pheromones](https://a314.com/) completely by accident! I’ve never heard of them before. Now I think I’m going to have to try a few just to see if they really work. Perhaps someone out there might be able to answer my questions. But first–I’m a 37 year single woman with a complicated professional past which I won’t bore you with… At the moment I’m making a living as a bartender. Anyway, I’m trying to determine if there are female pheromones I should _avoid_. First, I would say I’m on the strong/slightly intimidating side to begin with. I am very hot blooded and get angry quickly. (Note: I get over it quickly and I can be very nice too, so I’m not a complete bitch file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/Owner/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot.jpg 🙂). But, I definitely don’t want anything that will exacerbate these qualities. Second, men hit on me pretty frequently but I think I tend to scare them away. I want something that will make them feel more comfortable around me (and me around them). Any feedback would be greatly appreciated! Thanks, BB ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2008, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/2 "2008-03-23T16:35:58Z")
hey bambi welcome to the forum 🙂 if ur around alot of people (being a bartender is dffinatly on of them) i would say u should start with [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) like Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, and instant sexiness. all are very good at making others around u feel good. they products make others more open to u and more comfortable around u. cya around bond ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2008, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/3 "2008-03-23T16:36:09Z")
Hello Bambi and welcome! Lol that picture doesn’t show since it comes from ur computer! You can upload it if u want 🙂 Instant shine can make others feel confort around you. It make you appear fun and young. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is also great for women! I believe that B version is soft and better for your situation ---
**Author:** ![runnerxvr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/35a633/32.png) [@runnerxvr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/runnerxvr)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2008, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/4 "2008-03-23T16:38:05Z")
Hello Bambi! First of all, welcome to the forum! Here you’ll meet lots of people willing to help you (me too) to pick what suits you the best. I want to say also Thank You for describing us how are you and waht you’re looking for. Of course, seen that I’m a male, I don’t know well the felame products, but I’ve heard that there are some that may be good for you like, for example, [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)… Of course, it’s better a girl will give you more advice. I think that soon Tisha will appear, and she’d give you the best advice. Again, welcome to the forum, and feel free to ask any question you need, as we’re happy to help the newcomers! See ya Franz ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/5 "2008-03-24T01:16:08Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 Hmm intimidating, Well I think you should get some [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) **B**. B is soft, kitten like, sexy attracts attention sort of like the Marilyn Monroe persona without the stupid (snort) IS/A may match your own persona better but if you already intimidate this will increase that. Its more the Angelina Jolie persona, strong, independant sexy vibe. Sorry for the actress depictions but its easier to describe the sort of vibe you will give off this way. I also think IH would be great. This one is social and opens up deep conversations and gives a feeling of comfort and closeness. Ishine would help with drawing people to you and making them feel great when around you. I love this product. If you have any questions just let us know. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2008, 5:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/10333/6 "2008-03-24T05:55:58Z")
Hi Bambi, WELCOME! WELCOME! WELCOME! Come on over to the Ladies neck of the woods in the WOMEN’S FORUM. YOu will find SO much helpful information from other women here who are using, experimenting with and playing with pheromones. Glad you found us! April